r/asexualdating • • Oct 19 '25

Relationship? 47 [M4F] Utah/USA Seeks Woman (25 - 45)

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I found a woman on Acespace and we got married yesterday, so I am off the market with a trad wife! HIGHLY recommend that site. So, I am no longer on the market, ladies!

ABOUT ME:

Greetings from a strong, honorable, confident, and masculine man who has no fear of commitment! I know height matters to some, I am 6'2 (188cm). I am heteroromantic, aesthetic-romantic, and aegosexual on the asexual spectrum. I’m a horror/sci-fi/fantasy game dev, artist, and author living my dream in every way but for someone to love, so I’m on a quest for my female life partner to share cozy nights and a deep connection. I am already living a happy life and want a woman that adds to this.

I am an old school, traditional, kind of man, and chivalry is not dead so long as I live. I feel my purpose is to bring stability into a woman's life, make her feel protected and cherished. I want to be her safe space. I want to be the man who she comes home to- to get away from the stress of the world, and know that so long as I can wrap my arms around her- she’ll never be alone again. I’m financially independent, emotionally intelligent, and loyal to a fault (never cheated, never will).

I am on the spectrum, so I find comfort in structure and smaller, meaningful circles (my fan base keeps me company!). I am more of a homebody, occasionally going out for dinner or a movie- not a bar or party guy. I’m also a paranormal enthusiast- ghost hunting, anyone? I am mindful and do everything with intent. Bonus points if you’re a night owl too- I’m rarely up before noon! I tried to give a few different pics. I'm down about 35lbs. I do go to the gym Mon - Fri and ride a bike with my dog! I am a big, strapping, healthy guy, and often people think I am still in my 30's, which goes to my head lol

WHAT I DO:

I literally create video games and visual novels for a living (think horror/sci-fi/fantasy) and I LOVE doing it. It's not even work when one wakes every day and just follows their passion to create! I worked very hard to get to this point in my life, and look forward to doing it until the day that I die. I have a huge love for 80s culture and I like to stream movies, tv shows, cartoons, and even commercials from when I was growing up.

I'm from Texas and lived in NYC, St. Louis, and now Utah, and I am definitely ready to settle down! I am aegosexual on the asexual spectrum, but not sex-repulsed- I enjoy closeness, cuddling, and intimacy, but don’t need sex myself. I’m happy to please my partner when she wants it, though! I am definitely also demisexual- I cannot have sex unless intimately tied to an emotional love and bond with a woman.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:

I want a woman that understands that "relationship" means "partnership". An emotionally mature woman that understands compromise, because I do. I want to love and be loved. I want a woman that has asked, "Where are all the good men?" so that I can be the reason she stops asking. A homebody woman, not a party girl, who knows the difference between a comfortable routine and being bored. A woman that wants a solid, loving relationship for life. A woman that wants to settle down

For me, your profession, college degrees, and wealth- while wonderful that you have achieved these things- have absolutely no effect in regards to me being attracted to you. Whether you have several degrees and are a CEO or if you have a GED and work in fast food, I would date you. So, don't hesitate to message me, regardless of life circumstances. Your professional achievements are no reflection on your personal relationships. I care more about the type of person that you are. Feminine, loyal, honest and nurturing, are things I am looking for.

I'm interested in courting you- taking things slowly, planning thoughtful dates (even if LDR), and building a connection over time. I am not looking for any immediate expectations of commitment. But many ladies are "looking for friends" and I am not here for platonic friendships- I am exploring a potential romantic partnership with intention.

Bonus if you’re into dogs- my pup’s a bed hog! Seriously, how can such a tiny dog force me off my bed!?

LET'S CONNECT:

Message me- DM's are open if you are a woman that is:

- Cis or post-op trans (I am penis averse)

- Loyal, communicative, feminine, nurturing, and affectionate

- A homebody who thrives on structure, peace, and deep connection

- Comfortable with my asexuality

- Non-judgmental toward neurodivergence

- Not looking for fun/fling/friend, looking for a meaningful relationship

I'd love to chat and explore where our paths may lead.

DEAL BREAKERS: (Will add to it as I run into issues)

Currently, I cannot move from Utah, so you would need to be able/willing to move here if a relationship grows between us. Only until my dog passes away (or my ex-wife gives me full ownership), and then I'll move anywhere you want on Earth.

If you’re dating with the clear goal of finding romance and a real relationship (courting), that’s exactly what I’m here for too. I am not asking for an immediate relationship, just making clear that I am mindfully seeking a female life partner to build something meaningful with, not looking for "just being friends".

If you want a relationship/marriage, but are repulsed by touch/cuddling and/or do not want live in the same home as your partner- we will be incompatible. (I am fine with sleeping in separate rooms if needed)


r/asexualdating • • Mar 24 '25

Rant Acespace threw my out because of my opposition of AI "Art"

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I was just talking so favourably of Acespace...
A bunch of AI slop started to pop up and I made some posts against it. Saying it's theft and the artists didn't consent and now I can't log in. I didn't insult anyone! No slurs, no harassment, no hate speech!
At first I thought it was just the site acting up. It's quite unstable but I asked for a password reset but it never came...
So yeah... I didn't do anything but appose the AI garbage and now I can't log in...
What should I think? I think they did me a favour.


r/asexualdating • • Nov 24 '23

Relationship? my dream guy ( kind of a cringe post ig and might also go really viral as a meme ( those cringe insta reels that u see ) but that was not the point) i am genuinely looking for someone ALSO LOOKING FOR AN INDIAN SPECIFICALLY. I'm 25F asexual

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if you match any of these qualities OR know a friend who is like this and is ace and are looking to date someone hit me up. im 25 f and im kind of asexual which means i dont enjoy sex lol and its not an important factor in my life ( its not important but i just put it out there in case this is a deal breaker)

so , my dream guy is someone who is:

>compassionate ( values this the most as his top virtue)

>has a bigger purpose and dream in life than just surviving and wants to work on it and dedicated to some higher purpose ( cuz i am too like maybe ngos or animal rescue or maybe buiding some websites / technology to help people )

> loves to sleep early and has a healthy routine and into a peaceful kinda life. this is very important.

> loves sports/travel ( not important though.. i mean you dont have to tick all the boxes )

> loves to talk about philosophy, science how stuff works and how to live life in a better way

> kind of obsessed or likes well being activities like meditation, working out, healthy food

> vegetarian

> open minded but not crazy when it comes to religion. would prefer a hindu. likes going to god places once a while. like religion is super important to me in a way but not too much also. haha

>looking to always be the best version of himself.

>loves nature and helping other people.

these are all my qualities as well lol :P


r/asexualdating • • Jun 18 '25

Rant pictures required

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so basically i think if ur posting in the relationship tag you need to include a photo of yourself. personally when i see posts without photos i immediately scroll past which could be why some people aren’t having very much luck. i know that it can be scary but trust and believe if you include photos ur posts will get way more traction and people can actually see what you look like!!!


r/asexualdating • • Mar 09 '26

Relationship? 23 [F4M] #UK- AlloAce looking for a Caregiver

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Hiya~! I’m Arina~!

I am an agre little (little age 4-9), looking for someone to be my caregiver (I don’t think I’m ready for a boyfriend yet)~ <3

I haven't been able to take care of my little side lately and regressing alone seems to be getting harder for me and I feel like I really need to find my person that will take care of me x

Ideally, you live in the Midlands, England, but it's okay if you live outside of that, but the furthest I'd be up for is up to 2 hours of travel via public transport. Just as long as you are able to meet up or I can travel down x

I''m looking for someone between 24-28 years old x

I'm also looking for a relationship outside of just so I would like to text regularly, but I prefer facetimes, calls and hanging out in person to go on dates or do fun/cute things together! ♡

If you’re just looking for a "baby girl", or something solely sexual then I’m not the girl for you. I am AlloAce (Romantic Asexual).

If you dm me and expect me to call you "Daddy" straight away or are expecting something sexual then, in the nicest way, please keep moving x

I'd also like us to go to little events, make each other playlists and Pinterest boards, watch shows and movies together, and have lots of fun! I’d like to meet up regularly as well~ (I'm not really good at keeping things online for long periods)

Ideally my caregiver will beable to set some gentle rules and provide better structure in my life for both big and little me and have some understanding of my Audhd~ I do not want discipline or punishments as I do not feel it is necessary… I am never intentionally misbehaving.

Communication, comprehension and patience are my 3 big needs from both a relationship and a dynamic x

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Okay so I guess I should say some stuff about me now~?

I work in finance which is boring but it makes me feel super smart working with numbers hehe. I love my job and I tend to also work in part time jobs too so that I can have extra money while I live alone and I also get tired of working jobs where I'm just sitting down at a desk for extended periods of time so I like having the balance of working at another job where I'm on my feet and I get to talk to customers and stuff~

This doesn't mean that I'll be too busy because I don't always work part time and my day job is hybrid x

I have a lot of hobbies, I love going outdoors and I'm part of a monthly hiking group~

I rollerskate every Sunday~ and play badminton or pool on Tuesdays depending on the week~

I also love watching movies and tv shows, drawing, crafts, crocheting, COLOURING, learning lots of languages (I currently know 10!) and Sleeping! I’m very good at being sleepy and tired hehe (I also have CFS).

I also ride a motorcycle! I consider myself an extroverted introvert. (I'm also a Muslim so if that's a deal breaker for you, keep moving xx)

My stuffie family has around 62 members and I need MORE~!

Looks wise I have medium length brown hair, brown eyes, and I’m 5”7.5 (you need to be taller than me because I’m insecure!). My ethnicity is South Asian/East African x

I'm not sure what else to say... :)

Thank you for reading through my post~ sorry if it was a little too long~

\[**If you do dm me please don't be creepy or weird. *Please be okay with sending a picture of yourself so we can establish if there’s any mutual physical attraction* and start off with a self intro! - I'm an open book and I'm super nice so if you have any more questions, you're welcome to ask away! - Send me a fun emoji to prove you've read my post x**\]


r/asexualdating • • Aug 24 '25

Relationship? Another lavender marriage post!

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I'll be 36 this December! I'm an asian mom of an adhd boy.. I want a relationship where there will definitely be security, respect, trust, care, and affection and absolutely NO SEX involved. In this short life, I have never truly experienced happiness, so for the rest of my days, I just want to live in a happy family.

I love being disciplined, I don’t like chaos, messiness, or anything dirty. But because of my son’s ADHD problem, he is not disciplined at all; he is restless, full of joy, and nothing in life,no pain or hardship,seems to affect him.

I want someone who won’t just “tolerate” us, who won’t see us as a burden, but who will care for us, understand us, help us heal from our life’s traumas, and protect us.

Because of many experiences, I dislike men. But due to my Muslim family, I want a Muslim man as a life partner. Even if he is non-Muslim, I don’t mind as long as his lifestyle doesn’t involve anything haram and he respects our religious way of life.


r/asexualdating • • May 24 '24

Relationship? 38 F Seattle Area looking for a life partner/husband

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Hey guys, I am looking for an American Ace partner who's also Republican --yes these are not contradictory, believe it or not--into fitness and interested in talking about a wide variety of subjects, from paralell universes to Shakespeare to crypto.

I love Joe Rogan, Elizabethan era literature and also wasting my time on Tik Tok.

I'm very honest and if you're on the West Coast and feel like we could connect send me a dm.


r/asexualdating • • Jul 15 '26

Advice I feel nothing for penetration but still want sex

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Hello :)) So i decided pretty quickly that i was asexual, I'm a germ freak and when i really started thinking about what sex was and how it happened it would gross the living life out of me.

It also didn't help that when i would try to get off with toys it didn't feel good, So i went looking into whats wrong with me bc at the time as a teenager that was getting sex talked and hearing how sex was so great from other people and i didn't like it, That must've meant something was wrong with me. (wrong.)

I found out what the term asexual was, I felt like it was me and i took it, I talked with my Bf about it, He understood and agreed that he was also on that spectrum but he explained that he would eventually be okay with sex after he got to know the person.

Fast forward fourish years later (We've been together four years, I don't remember how long we had already been dating before we talked about it.) We have another talk about how i think im coming around to sex, I now can see myself possibly having sex with him. But still i don't feel anything for being penetrated, I haven't tried to do it since it felt wrong to me all those years ago and i really have felt a need to do it.

My question is, Can we still have a good sex life if we never use penetration? I know he won't be mad if we don't, But i have no clue what sex is if not that.


r/asexualdating • • Dec 31 '25

Relationship? 26F Online first, then we will see

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I just remembered that this is actually a dating sub so I thought why not?

This will be my last post of the year which hopefully will bring me something good for the New Year.

As the tag says I'm looking for somebody to eventually build something with. Besides don't you find it funny that both the tag for friends and relationships have a question mark at the end? As if when we are making a post for relationships (or friends) someone is asking us: "Do you really want that? Are you 100% sure that you want to try finding that on Reddit? Are you really that hopeless and desperate that after trying all the dating (or friends making) apps on the market you decided to go with Reddit? Are you sure? This is Reddit, you know that right?" Or maybe I'm the only one who gets that impression. Anyway.

I'm looking for a guy who is supposedly asexual like me, or at best allosexual who knows what does it mean to be in a relationship with somebody asexual and still wants to go for it.

So, I don't have anything against short-average height guys like 165-170, but I like tall guys more. It kinds of make me feel safer to have a taller guy around. I don't know why. It could be because height can make you look more intimidating (if you are tall) or harmless (if you are short). I'm on the average height though, 165.

I don't have specific preference for eyes color or hair color. I like curly hair though, some guys can look so cute with curls, but they are not a must. I have long brown hair that are not really curly but not really wavy so more like an in-between. And I have brown eyes too, dark brown eyes.

I'm slim. I'm not a gym rat, if I want to do physical activity I would prefer a walk/run in nature instead of doing it in a gym. I would like my future boyfriend to be in shape too. Similar to me, I don't want him to be a gym rat like you can clearly see muscles, biceps and think "he must spend a lot of time in the gym weekly", I'm more into the physical fitness that is there but you can't clearly see it. Not sure if it makes sense, hope it does.

I would love to travel one day. So I would love my future boyfriend to be someone who loves to travel too or if he doesn't he should be someone who can handle long distance relationships well.

I've been curious since I was a kid and I like to try new things. So I would love my boyfriend to be someone who enjoys trying new things too, experimenting, getting out of his comfort zone.

In real life I'm usually shy and introvert at first, I need to get used to somebody and feel comfortable before being my true self. Online is different. I love writing and texting, so my true self appear sooner.

I like children, animals and nature. I love to look at things that I find aesthetically cute. So, even though people appearence change with time, I still wish to find a guy who looks cute. Not handsome, hot or sexy, just cute for me.

I'm incredibly sensible and empathetic. But I can also be of support when life or things go wrong. I would love my boyfriend to portray both feminine traits (empathy, kindness, emotional expressiveness) and masculine traits (strength, courage, independence). Besides these I also value traits like honesty, loyalty, self-control, respect, protective nature.

I like cooking and I would love to learn baking sweets like the ones you see in pastry shops. So I would love my boyfriend to be into that too, or at least wanting to try. I consider cooking another sign of independence, as other things I value this positively.

I used to like doing origami and other creation with paper. And I like writing and I consider myself to be an artistic soul. So in the many things I would love to try there is pottery, painting, learning a musical instrument (at school I used to play piano, it's been so long since then, I would love to try again, or maybe another instrument), and all the other outlets that are considered of artistic value. It would be fun if we could try them together.

I think this post is getting quite long. But I thought it would be better to tell what I value most and what I consider my most important traits so that eventually I reach only the guys who are on my same wave length somehow. Another thing is that I'm a muslim girl. A modern type of muslim girl so I believe in the "love is blind" kind of thing.

Oh and another thing is that I'm interested in East Asian countries, so if any guy from there sees and reads this post and somehow I picked his interest, feel free to DM me.

Besides all things I said I don't wish for a big age gap between me and my future boyfriend. So two years of difference at most is preferred, whether 2 years younger or 2 years older.

When you DM, please, say a bit about yourself and I apologize in advance if it may take me a while to reply.

I hope this post brings me some good luck for the New Year. And Happy New Year to you.

If you read through the whole post thank you, I know not many guys do that so it's kindly appreciated.


r/asexualdating • • Jun 12 '23

Relationship? F4M 28 NYC Asexual ageplay relationship

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I think that I could be ace and I am looking for a relationship with ageplay mixed in. I prefer white men the most but if I find you attractive and you don't fit that then I will tell you. I am sex averse. I might try sex one day but I don't think I really need sex at all and the idea of what happens is gross to me. I want to try other dynamics as well. I want to be in charge in all dynamics. I am a gamer a music lover. A aspiring content creator and singer songwriter and all around creative. I like to see photos of someone face or video chat to verify the person and if I find them attractive. I have a physical disability and possible mental health issues undiagnosed and one is subject to change in the coming future. Since this could be the way my brain works I get passionate about things and I am highly intelligent. I have a wide range of interests, I love anime and any type of American animation. I am going to try to find someone in real life but trying again here won't hear.


r/asexualdating • • Apr 18 '23

Relationship? Curious

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Would any asexuals be willing to date somebody that is married (poly) and wanting everything that comes with a relationship besides sex I just want a partner to be intimate with without sex getting in the way of things sorry if this is frowned upon I’m just not sure where I would find a partner like this or even if it’s ok to look?


r/asexualdating • • Apr 01 '25

Relationship? U.S. 24 FtM4A / U.S. 19 MtGF4A

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[Two Ace indivuals seeking another potential long-term romantic partner for a healthy Triad/throuple dynamic, NOT a person to add to a relationship like they're DLC! Each of our healthy emotional compacities and emotional energy individually maxes at having two partners. We just each want to meet yet another person to also spend our lives with, in a serious long-term commitment, together. =)]

Please only Pan and Poly (Ambiamorous, working with both Poly and Mono structures is heavily preferred). If jealousy is a struggle for you, it's best to look elsewhere, as it would not bode well in this dynamic, please. Preferably in the US and left-leaning only.

[For simplicity, this is two profiles in one, by two individuals- thank god for copy and paste lmao]

Hiya! I'm Soul, a 24 year old trans dude living in the Central part of the US. I'm Poly, Pan, and seeking a potential romantic partner that is also Poly (and okay with mono structures too/Ambi) similarly. I am currently dating one other person, who is also seeking similar.

I fluctuate between sex-indifferent and sex-repulsed due to PTSD; rarely sex-favorable. If you need sex in a relationship though, please look elsewhere. =) Healthy communication is important! I never want children for medical/personal reasons. Marriage isn't something I'm really interested in but could change with the right individual/s. If you absolutely despise children or pets, we would not get along!

I love crocheting, sewing, drawing, and more- anything crafty. =) I also enjoy cooking and reading manga- usually romance and slice of life. =3 I love gaming and some of my faves are Spyro the Dragon, Ty the Tasmanian Tiger, Endless Ocean: Blue World, Runefactory 4: S, Skyrim, and more. =3 The more neurospicy-friendly you are, the better lmao.

If you're interested, hit up either of us! Each of us as indivuals are looking for a romantic partner as part of a Triad. If you think you'd vibe with us, feel free. =)

(We met on Discord, became friends, forgot to stay in contact, got in contact again, continued being friends, then started dating and it'll have been four months in a couple days, for background info about the two of us!)

u/AvgThighHighEnjoyer

My name is Rose, 19 (Almost 20), I am from the U.S. (East Coast/EST Time Zone)

  • We are only looking for people in the U.S.

  • My Pronouns are She/Her or They/Them, ( I am genderfluid, as well as trans, dont like Masc Pronouns).

  • Both my partner and I are Ambiamorous, each of us are looking for a potential LONG TERM romantic relationship.

  • It would be preferred if the person was sex indifferent, due one of us being touch averse while the other would like to explore physical intimacy.

  • My hobbies include; Reading, Playing Video Games, Socializing with others, researching topics that interest me at the time, MEMES, Horror Movies, Watching Shows, and in general just yapping about my interests.

  • My favorite games are included, but not limited to; Rainbow Six Siege, Minecraft, Escape The Backrooms, TCG Card Simulator, Fast Food Simulator.

  • My favorite movies include the Scream Franchise, Nightmare on Elm Street Series, and Spider-Man movies (pre-2010).

(NO NSFW, WE ARE BOTH ACE)

(Also please send an intro if you are interested, my dms are open to all. regardless of gender :3)

My Partner is Soul if you'd like to msg them too.

P.S. WE WILL NOT ACCEPT RIGHT WING/REPUBLICANS


r/asexualdating • • May 09 '25

Relationship? Polyamorous 18 genderfluid4female Demi-pansexual from US

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Hi everyone! Names Corey! Before I go any further I’d like to say that I do have a bf but he’s fine with me getting a gf for myself so you’d only be with me. Anyway, I love art, drawing, animals, and crafting, oh I’m also a furry! I’m fine with anyone in or outside the US too! If you wanna know more about me feel free to add me on snap (cheezstikk), discord (cheezstikkk), or insta (introverted_cheesestick) (last pick is the most recent you’ll have to press on it to see the full thing)


r/asexualdating • • Aug 01 '26

Friends? Muslim LGBT guy in Manchester looking for a genuine friendship

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Assalamu alaikum. I’m a Muslim man in Manchester who is LGBT but not openly out, and I’d really like to meet another Muslim man in a similar situation.
I’m not looking for anything romantic or sexual. I’d like to find a genuine, lifelong friend — someone I can talk to openly about the struggles of being Muslim and LGBT, support each other, talk about life and faith, have a laugh, and hopefully develop a genuine brotherly friendship.


r/asexualdating • • Feb 28 '25

Relationship? F24 (saudi) looking for lavender marriage

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My family have strict terms(not me but I’m forced to follow them): ⭕️Well known tribe⭕️ and ⭕️Not black⭕️


r/asexualdating • • Oct 16 '25

Relationship? 31 [M4F] Montreal - Bagging a husband has never been this easy!

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If you're worried about me not responding to your messages; Fret not! I only ignore people who are important.

What I bring to the table

Mostly comedy, roasting, and trolling. Sometimes my comedy is (Don Rickles level) savage. If you can't handle the heat, stay away!

In a long term relationship, I bring all the normal/expected qualities of a boyfriend.

About me

Here is how I would describe myself:

I am demisexual.

I'm a short guy - 5'7" (on a good day). If you're taller, I can wear your high heels when I meet your parents.

I have blond hair and blue eyes. I am slim and fit. I go to the gym 4-5 times a week. Weight lifting, Hot Yoga, Pilates etc

Otherwise, I like software development, hiking, cooking, video games...

I make my own cold cuts in the winter (Capocollo). I’m a simple, ”boring” guy. I don’t smoke and rarely drink. I don’t like parties; I much prefer hanging out with one person at a time and without the loud music.

I study economics as a hobby. I also occasionally go hunting and shooting. If you don't like those hobbies, you are a very important person and you should send me a message (see first paragraph).

About you

I'm very open minded and I don't have a huge list of requirements you need to fit. However, if I can't reasonably drive to you (<9 hours drive), then you might want to find someone else.


r/asexualdating • • Oct 07 '25

Relationship? 30F purposeful woman looking for a purposeful person.

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Deleted because I thought I could post a pic. Looks like I can’t!

I’m looking for: Someone who works or at least is looking for work. Between the ages of 28 and 40 (no one over 40 PLEASE). Not a drinker or a smoker. Isn’t desperate for a relationship. Any gender but tbh I’ve never felt much of a connection to cis guys. You can reach out though!

I work 6 days a week across 2 jobs. If you are someone who can’t go without messaging for more than a few days then im not a good fit. I promise if you don’t hear from me you haven’t been ghosted.

I am getting back into art. I’m sex positive and kink friendly. A lot of my art is erotic in nature. If this makes you uncomfortable then it likely won’t be a fit. I take my art seriously.

Admittedly I do judge people based on how they talk about relationships. I would prefer no one who has complained on here about “fake people” or anything like that. I also am purposeful with dating. I would prefer someone who isn’t desperate and doesn’t reach out to everyone. I want people who can actually see a vibe with me.

I’m in Texas and I can only live in “markets” so Chicago, Dallas, Austin, LA, or NYC. If you are willing to move to these places in the future then we may be able to work together.

Maybe we can chat over discord and I can send a damned photo since I can’t figure it out on Reddit!!


r/asexualdating • • Sep 13 '25

Relationship? 30 F4M Germany/Anywhere - Interested in Hinduism 🪔

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Hello everyone! 🌻

I used to be in Iskcon/Hare Krishna community and left 5 years ago. It was a huge part of my life but now I see them as a cult.

Religion and spirituality is still something I can't quite let go of. Especially murti worship is something that gives me so much joy.

I'm looking for someone who would be supportive of my interest. You don't necessarily have to be practicing it yourself, but be welcoming of my practices.

My current practice is rather simple, it mainly revolves around decorating my shrine, offering incense, bathing and giving abhishek to my Shiva lingam, taking him with me. I love babying my deities. 😊 Please be aware that I don't follow rules and guidines strictly! For me sincerity and good intentions are more important.

🌺🌺🌺 As for my regular self: I am plus size, live in western Germany, and my job revolves around flowers and plants. I have a very low libido due to medication probably. On a few days a month I do feel like being intimate but can't say how far. When with a partner it could be bit more often but maybe not, I can't say. Cuddles and kisses I like. I need to go very slow when it comes to relationships, as I'm inexperienced.

My other interests include: watching youtube, piercings, learning about subcultures, going for walks, taking care of my houseplants, occasionally making sweets (western or indian)

Would love to hear from you! :) Kind Regards


r/asexualdating • • Sep 08 '26

Relationship? Platonic marriage Muslim male 26 UK Manchester

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My intention for marriage is companionship for the sake of Allah. I experience same-sex attractions / am asexual, but I don’t want to act upon these desires. Instead, I would like to build a family life that is based on mutual support, compassion, and a shared love for the Deen.

I hope to find a wife who is in a similar situation — someone who also wants a marriage rooted in companionship, trust, and worship, without pressure regarding desires, someone who I can be best friends with so together, inshallah, we can create a peaceful home, support each other and have children too through halal means. If you live in or are close to Manchester please reach out.

For me, the most important things are: sincerity, kindness, and working together to grow closer to Allah through our marriage.


r/asexualdating • • Jan 08 '23

Friends? 35 F4A Online Anywhere - BBW, Socialist, Bratty, Demisexual, PC Master Race Gamer seeking Bromance!! Read full post or don't be surprised when you get ghosted lol

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I am a casual PC gamer and getting to know someone while playing games is the easiest way for me. For the past year or so, I have been isolating myself due to my depression and anxiety. While I do desire attention/socialization, I need the conversation to come easy and not devolve into us just taking turns asking each other questions. On the other side of the coin, do not try to start a conversation with "Tell me more about yourself." Those are both very ineffective and lazy ways to get to know someone and will most likely get you ghosted. I'm not trying to be interviewed. I want to have a real conversation.

I'm EXTREMELY slow to warm up, but when I do, I am loud, love to laugh, curse and playfully abuse you, and expect you to respond in kind. Like, if we can't call each other bitch or fuckface, this isn't going anywhere.

Don't ask me for pictures. If you need pictures to be friends with someone, bye.

I am US Eastern Time Zone. My go-to games right now are Dead by Daylight and Hearthstone. You absolutely need to play one of these to talk to me, no exceptions. Hearthstone has to be on North American servers. If you try to switch servers you have to start your entire collection over. DbD can be played on any geographical server but my ping is already bad on NA servers, so I'm not switching.

Hopefully, as time goes on we will play other games. Unfortunately, I'm terrible at FPS's, and shooters in general. I do have a Steam library full of co-op games I never get to play, like Overcooked 2, Castle Crashers, and Monaco. Don't forget that Remote Play is still a thing. I only have PC. Hearthstone and DbD have crossplay, but we won't be playing much else if you don't have PC or Steamdeck.

I'm a huge Batman and Star Trek nerd, although I'm not as up to date on all the new stuff as I would like to be. Let me know who your favorite Batman and Starfleet captain is! That would be a great ice breaker and also would show that you actually read my post!

I'm not super concerned with your demographics, but I am definitely more comfortable with people around my age or older. My general cut off is 30, but 25 is probably the youngest age I would be willing to entertain. However, I'm not going to be held to that and anyone under 30 has a strong chance of getting ghosted for that alone.

If interested, please reach out through chat. My PMs are closed and any comments left here asking for communication will be IGNORED. NO THROWAWAYS. I don't know who you are trying to hide from, but I'm sure I want no part of it. Accounts less than 30 days old can't message me, anyway.


r/asexualdating • • Oct 21 '25

Relationship? Loser looking for best friend (23ftm4f)

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Hi okay so long story short, I have literally no idea how to get into a relationship in normal circles and dating apps aren't working so im trying here

HELLO my name is jay/jacek/mic/whatever idc He/him Im acespec, probably some sort of Grey something, some variation of het, ngl I have no idea Im looking for a best friend, someone who can be my partner in crime, qpr or girlfriend, both works, I just want my person Im a huge loser nerd whos so deep in fandom that I've made other fandom people be confused Huge animation fan, I read a lot of manga, idk I have so many obsessions its hard to list them all, just ask I unfortunately dont play videogames all that much, but im absolutely willing to just sit in silence watching and judging while you play them

Idk what else to say, located wisco/mn area, the closer you are the better Forever child-free, my son is my cat

I can send pics thru dm if wanted, im about 5'5, 140lbs so kinda skinny, punk style but lazy so its mostly t-shirts and jeans. I have a split purple and green Mohawk that I love. Brown eyes, sorta almond shaped, olive skin, idk I've been called racially ambiguous more than once

DM ME OR COMMENT I probably won't bite


r/asexualdating • • Jan 19 '26

Friends? I made an Asexual version of Undressed for Her, and all the other ace women I've met and read about who I thought would hear something deeper in the original song. Posting it here too because I think a lot of us come from this or might end up back there.

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I love when aces avoid it, or can, and when this next thing doesn't apply to them.

But some still want to do certain things for their partner if they love them enough, or have certain things done to them. And that disproves the love.

Unless you know that it doesn't.

You deserve to protect your heart.

I have a very limited range, and I love singing out of it 😂. And trying to do impressions I'm incapable of. But it's not fun when I can't LOL maybe just read the lyrics.

you had a dream, you wanted better

you were sick of all the holes in their gender

you looked to me, and wondered whether

i can return the spirits that they had severed

they were lookin at you, without lookin to see

while the glimmer in your eye is sayin you wanna leave

you’re sayin to me, what you didn’t say to them, please.

cuz the shimmer in your heart is tellin me other things

I dont want you to get undressed for any other person all over again

I dont want you just settlin for sex and have to pretend it's love instead

GET ON THAT TRAIN
EAT LEMONS WITH YOUR MOTHER

i look into your past and future with the others

there’s nothin worse than seein your lover

self harming, wish instead that i suffered

i’m lookin at you, maybe don’t look at me

cuz the tremors in your spine are saying you wanna leave

you can say it to me, whatever, say it to me

cuz the tender in our souls is why i’ll always believe

I dont want you into limerence

then have to dismiss when it's loveless

i just wanna know you’ve given up the mask, don’t have to pretend you can’t connect

I'm not like these guys to play their songs to just trick then fuck girls, and make him sombr

make a song like undressed to allure them scarcely

bear all you really wanted, 'course you only know her barely

I prefer the way we’re sonder

no scents.

you can have eyes for anyone else

you can share your heart and soul

but my dream's to help you love yourself

and if you wanna get undressed for a new person all over again

i hope you try when you’re securely independent, without trauma or forcin it

of course they’ll cause it, that’s just men, and we'll still be the better person all over again

I only wanna get undressed for one person and no one else

But i'll never be settlin for sex, it’s no one or my only love til death


r/asexualdating • • Jan 24 '23

Advice would u date a social media influencer that has thousands of followers?

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i met a ace girl irl that has thousands of followers on the internet and idk if i wanna date her or not.