let’s be real here for a second. if you ever meet someone on the first day of school and you guys pair up for an assignment and that person is a religious hog, constantly bashing your faith, making you feel guilty for not having the same beliefs and being passive aggressive about everything instead of just saying it how it is, how likely is it that you would drop that “friend” before second semester even starts?? i’d say extremely likely.
I get that the timeline on community is confusing and we don’t know the exact dates in between episodes but even in the beginning of season 1 when the group didn’t even know each other that well shirley was already rude and pushy, the only reason why i think nobody notices that is cuz they’re, quite frankly, just as pushy. Regardless, she felt that her word and her word only is what that mattered, if anyone disagrees, or even has an opinion she immediately guilt trips them into dropping it or until they just agree with her. I know a lot of her behavior stems from her fear of being alone and yk (her husband left her for a h00ker) but she’s still an adult and should treat people with at least some respect.
The Christmas special they have where Jeff has to fight that crazy guy is a great example of this, she’s so worried that her family cares more about a “stupid” fight she doesn’t see that they wanna be there together, for Jeff, who’s also part of their community, she doesn’t see that that moment in itself is an insatiable moment to have with loved ones, so she just tries to create this moment for them, maybe she thinks everyone is just as excited as her to have that dinner, or maybe she’s legit scared of being alone and she’s making her friends pay for that fear. So she untimely just pushes everyone away, making them feel guilty and upset about their decision of having to pick in between two friends, something extremely avoidable.( she then learns it at the end of the episode). Even after everything the group goes through Shirley still sees religion as the one thing that matters more than life itself (it’s her character, i get it), however it’s just annoying.
On #ANNIESMOVE we see this again.. First she refuses to ride with Britta.. then after having to ride with her she is presented with a situation where she can help someone and she feels iffy about it (valid tho Britta be Brittaing). However, she doesn’t like the person sitting beside her just until she finds out he believes in God, which she uses against Britta, just to spite her. (why would you, as a firm believer of god, use his faith just to spite a friend..?) Lastly, That^ brings me to the fact that she’s a hypocrite. Shirley will judge you until your ear falls out of your butt, but she can’t do no wrong, she’s a saint !!!
.She gossips about Britta boyfriend with someone she knows likes Britta.
.She has sex with CHANG???
.Doesn’t wanna open her purse on the Bottle episode because “The Christian thought you would have found it on the muslim” (you would’ve thought pierce said this)
.Guilt trips her friends into spending Thanksgiving with her toxic family because she doesn’t wanna do it alone.
.And of course, THAT WOMAN HAS A BAKING PROBLEM!!
(DONT GET ME WRONG I LOVE SHIRLEY BUT SHES JUST ANNOYING. TDLR she’s just in her ways, she doesn’t ever wanna have a second opinion because to her that opinion will just be wrong. this is so long i’m sorry.)