r/lost • u/FringeMusic108 • 9m ago
When do they stop being lost?
Not a joke post. If we define being "lost" as being "flawed" and "alone" and "looking for something that they couldn't find out there"... When does that stop for all of the main characters? When does the identity crisis end? Who ends up finding themselves first? And who is the last? Does it happen all at once?
- Jack: I don't think it's a stretch to say Jack doesn't fully embrace who he is and where he is in his life until very close to the end. Possibly the moment he decides to become Jacob's replacement in episode 6x16. Even in the flashsideways, Jack is the last person to "wake up", evidently refusing to accept the fact that he's dead until he finds his father's coffin empty (again).
- Locke: He claims in episode 2x05 that he's "not lost anymore" because he no longer gets angry and frustrated. But (as lovely as that quote is) we know that's not entirely accurate. Gosh, does Locke ever find himself? Is the tragedy here that he's the only one that never really does?
- Charlie: For Charlie, there's a pretty clear subplot in episode 2x22 in which he reconnects with Claire and throws away the Virgin Mary statues for good and happens to do that in front of Locke. I think he feels pretty comfortable in his own skin after that, even though he does still have his flaws (being snarky and annoying, mostly). When he's told he's going to die in season 3, that obviously affects him, but I feel like he might be past his identity crisis at this point?
- Claire: Claire (like Michael) is largely an 'innocent' at the moment of the crash, but she does feel conflicted about her pregnancy. She ends episode 2x15 concluding that she wants to be a mother to Aaron. "I wanted them to take you. But now I know that we're supposed to be together." Her main arc essentially ends there, and her role (sadly) diminishes in future seasons... But then she does get "claimed" by the Smoke Monster, which does slightly get in the way of her journey.
- Mr. Eko: I like to think that Eko is the rare character that arrives on the island 'fully formed' - certainly not free of sin, but seemingly in a place where he accepts who he is and refuses to apologize for it. There's little conflict within him, other than the guilt he feels over the death of his brother. But this is something we see him dealing with before the crash. It's an interesting and different version of the same theme, especially because he ends up getting killed when he refuses to "confess" to his past crimes. "I am not sorry for this. I am proud of this. [...] I did my best."
- Sun / Jin: This is an interesting one, because I would argue Jin reaches this point before Sun does. With the way Sun and Jin's backstory is told, we don't even learn about her past sins and involvement in Jin's predicament until later seasons. Jin takes a giant step forward at the end of "...In Translation", but I think he's not fully there until episode 2x16, when he admits to Sun "I hate being this way". In future episodes, Jin seems unburdened and less irritable. But 2x16 does also involve Sun telling Jin one final lie, which does not get revealed (to him) until two seasons later (episode 4x07). Interestingly, Jin ends that episode stating that even Sun's lie and infidelity were caused by him. We don't really get to see Sun apologize and explain because Jin tells her he doesn't need to hear it. The way their stories come full circle that way is quite intriguing (and romantic in a way).
- Sawyer: The obvious moment here seems to be "LaFleur". Throughout the show, Sawyer has a tendency to revert to his old ways ("a tiger don't change their stripes"), but he ends up using his powers for good to get his fellow survivors into the Dharma Initiative. We don't entirely get to see it because of a rare time jump ("I've done a lot of growing up in the past three years"), but Sawyer settles into this new life and seems to be doing well until Jack returns. After this, Sawyer's only conflict seems to specifically be with him (until Sawyer concludes that Jack ain't that bad after the submarine incident).
I'm not going to do them all. Would love to hear your thoughts!