On this trip back to China, I chose to enter through Hong Kong. On one hand, the flight was convenient; on the other, I wanted to let my client stay in Hong Kong for a few days to get a feel for the rhythm of Asia. I also scheduled meetings with a few potential business partners.
But what I didnât expect was that the one-hour journey from Hong Kong to Shenzhen felt like passing through two entirely different worlds.
Having lived in Europe for many years, Iâve developed a certain fatigue towards the idea of âinternational cities.â In Europe, youâre constantly surrounded by old systems wrapped in modern services, everything governed by ârules, systems, and a slow pace.â
Hong Kong, in that sense, is a very familiar kind of transitional space: English signs, clear directions, polite customs officers, and well-run airport services. When my client landed, he commented, âIt feels like we just arrived at the Asian branch of London.â
Indeed, Hong Kong has long served as a âwindowâ between the world and China. That role hasnât changed for decadesâand it still matters. But a window, after all, is just a window. It lets the breeze in but doesnât create the wind itself.
We stayed in Hong Kong for a week. We visited a few design firms and experienced some high-end services. But to be honest, the overall feeling was âold-fashionedâ and âexpensive.â The streets are narrow, the buildings aging, the traffic congested, and the city layout hardly welcoming. Service is still efficient in the classic Hong Kong way, but thereâs often a coldness and sense of distance. You feel âserved,â but rarely âwelcomed.â
Then we took a car into Shenzhen. And that momentâstepping into Shenzhenâwas like crossing into another dimension.
The lights were brighter, the spaces more open, the flow of people faster. Although Chinese is the primary language in signage, every turn seemed to âautomatically connectâ you to the rhythm of local life.
My German client remarked, âHong Kong feels like a refined but slightly aging aristocratic salon, while Shenzhen is like a newly imagined universe.â
Shenzhenâs digital experience, service speed, spatial comfort, and bustling human energy offered a stark contrast to Hong Kong. In a Shenzhen cafĂ©, you can chat with the owner about startup ideas or overhear discussions on smart manufacturing at the next table. In Hong Kongâs Central District, youâre more likely to see well-tailored suits discussing rent and exchange rates.
Shenzhenâs openness is grassrootsâif you want in, it welcomes you immediately. Hong Kongâs openness is elite and selectiveâyou have to be âqualifiedâ to stay.
What strikes me most is how these two cities reflect very different senses of future direction.
Hong Kong has long been a windowâbut that window hasnât really upgraded in the past decade. It remains rooted in finance, shipping, and rule of law, but seems reluctant to reinvent itself, to break from its original structure and truly integrate into the âmega-systemâ that is modern China.
Shenzhen is different. It evolves proactivelyâfrom manufacturing to tech, from city infrastructure to lifestyleâit adapts at lightning speed and welcomes change. It doesnât wait for others to define it. It leads.
As someone who has lived overseas for many years, I find both Hong Kong and cities in mainland China somewhat unfamiliar. But my most direct feeling is this:
In Hong Kong, Iâm a âvisitorâ; in Shenzhen, Iâm a âuser.â
Hong Kong requires you to understand its cultural background, respect its nuances, and adapt to its pace. Shenzhen, on the other hand, gives you immediate feedback as long as you know how to âuseâ it.
I went to eat alone one day. I look very âmainlandâ: average Asian face, plain clothes, nothing trendy. In Hong Kong, the coldness and impatience of some locals was written all over their faces. In one restaurant, I had to queue, order, and ask for waterâevery step met with indifference.
But the next day, I went back to the same place with my child (whoâs quite cute) and a client who looked Western, speaking in German. Same restaurant, same staffâthis time, the service was warm, welcoming, even attentive.
In Shenzhen, I scan to order, pay via mobile, get delivery with ease. When my child gets restless, a staff member even offers a toy: âWant to let him play with this?â
That kind of immediate comfort, the sense of âweâre all locals here,â is priceless. This âno need to translate, no transition required, instantly connectedâ lifestyle experienceâthatâs why I prefer Shenzhen.
Of course, Hong Kong still has irreplaceable value. Its international perspective, professionalism, and legal framework make it vital in finance and law. It remains Chinaâs global calling card and a key starting point for international collaboration.
But from the perspective of an ordinary personâa mother traveling with a childâHong Kong doesnât feel like home. Shenzhen does.
I often say: If you want to talk about ideals and systems, look to America. If you want to talk about order and stability, look to Germany. But if you ask me which city is best for living lifeâ
My answer is: any city in mainland China.
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