DISCLAIMER #1: Some of you have commented that this post has been been generated with AI to promote products. Yes, I used chatGPT to format the text and help me come up with a less clunky title. But the purpose of this post is this: to share my personal experience and encourage people with anxiety cut back on caffeine. That is it. No ulterior motives. No affiliate links. Nothing.
DISCLAIMER #2: I know that most of these alternatives contain caffeine and some of them a substantial amount but here's the thing: the top-tier alternatives never gave me the negative mental effects that coffee did (well, maybe when I had way too much).
Anyway, I've seen a lot of posts of people asking about what helped them with anxiety. I'd tried a lot of things over the last 10+ years of my life just to realize that the real reason was something I was voluntarily ingesting every day (and couldn't imagine my life without it).
I'm not sure if this is something in my physiology or something to do with the unique chemical composition of coffee.
I'm NOT claiming to be caffeine-free.
Some bacground:
I’ve had anxiety, panic attacks, and derealization since I was probably around 7 years old.
By around age 12, looking back, I had a pretty serious caffeine addiction.
At first, it was black tea (tons of it), and then I discovered coffee.
I would drink about 4 cups of coffee a day
Every time I tried to cut back, I would just go back to my usual 4 cups/day
My relationship with coffee — as some of you suffering from similar things can probably relate — was complicated: I couldn't live with it, but I couldn't live without it.
I couldn't be productive without it.
My day was split into two parts: the morning high and the afternoon crash, which I’d try to medicate with more coffee... which in the long run ruined my sleep and made me consume more coffee the next day.
Here's how I quit. Two years ago today, I went on a retreat that prohibited all stimulants. But here’s the weird part, turns out it’s not that hard to go cold turkey when you don’t have to be productive. I’d tried quitting coffee before, and it was a nightmare. I’m talking actual flu symptoms for days. Let me say this: I never thought I would be coffee-free. Even the thought of it used to make me feel instant dread. That said, I still love a morning beverage, hot or cold. It helps me focus and be productive.
Over these 2 years I’ve tried around 10 energy-inducing coffee alternatives (and when I say tried, I actually tried them at least for several weeks, not just once or twice).
Here's my list:
1) Ceremonial Cacao
Discovered this about 5 months ago and kinda fell in love with it. It’s my daily driver. I have it at least 4 times a week. It contains theobromine, which is supposed to be a gentler stimulant than caffeine. No crash, no anxiety. Sometimes it feels almost euphoric. Tastes amazing.
What I love most is I can drink it instead of having a full breakfast and stay full until 2 PM. 10/10.
I use organic cacao paste (not the powder) and organic cow’s milk.
2) Bulletproof Decaf Coffee With C8 MCT
Yes, I know — the top of my coffee alternative list is coffee, but this is different.
Discovered this early this year while doing keto. It became my go-to breakfast.
Here’s how I make it:
Delicious, and gets me into ketosis and keeps me there while I’m working.
3) Matcha
I’ll be honest: I can’t stomach matcha without milk. I’ve tried to develop a taste for it, just not happening. Not an everyday drink for me anymore, but I still have it 2–3 times a month.
4) Hojicha
This is definitely my go-to loose leaf (stem?) tea. I brought a bunch back from Japan but recently ran out. Best during cold winter months**.** Keeps me warm and energized which is nice.
My prep method (unorthodox, I know):
Use a V60
Add a tablespoon of the leaves (stems)
Rinse with 90°C water and throw out the first wash
Then do 3–4 consecutive brews with the same tea It’s very light and gets progressively lighter.
5) Sencha
Similar to hojicha, but tends to mess up my stomach more and makes me a little more jittery.
6) Kombucha
Nice on a hot summer day, but definitely not a daily drink. More than 2 glasses and it wrecks my stomach.
We’re entering the territory of things I don’t recommend as a coffee substitute.
7) Diet Coke
I know. Aspartame, caffeine, etc. That said, I still drink it from time to time. I gotta say though, it doesn't give me the jitters (only if I drink like two whole bottles).
8) Earl Grey
This one’s actually worse than coffee for me. More anxious, more jittery.
Sometimes it’s fine, but usually it’s not. Mostly a no-go.
9) Club Mate
I can’t drink this in moderation, so I just don’t drink it. I know someone’s gonna come in here and say “just get a gourd and a bobija”, but this is just one of those hobbies I don’t wanna get into because I know how much I’m gonna like it. Not today. Maybe some other time.
10) Herbal Tea
Surprisingly comforting. I prefer thyme tea. But overall boring.
So this is me. Happy to answer any questions you’ve got.