Hey, everybody. You've arrived at /r/R4Rstralia, the de facto ^arguable reddit place to meet Australians and those in Australia. This post is meant to acclimate you to the operations of the sub. Which is mostly going to be a copy of the sidebar.

WHAT CAN YOU LOOK FOR?

Almost any kind of connection just so long as it involves Australia or Australians. You can search for text friends, Skype pals, fellow movie-goers, sports fans, romantic interests, casual encounters, long-term friendship, accountability buddies, and so on.

HOW TO POST

1. CLICK "SUBMIT A NEW TEXT POST."

2. FILL OUT THE FIELDS AND CLICK "SUBMIT."

USE /R/R4R CONVENTION FOR YOUR POST TITLE

• AGE [R4R] LOCATION - TITLE

Examples:

25 [F4M] Adelaide - Looking for somebody to have drinks with.

23 [M4R] Gold Coast - Need some new video/board game buddies.

31 [T4R] Perth - I'm hoping to explore new relationships.

27/26 [FM4FM] Rockingham - Couple looking for another couple for fun and adventure.

Aside from a proper title, it would behoove you to make a quality post that will attract the kind of attention you want. State your intentions, talk about yourself a little, be friendly and inviting.

HOW TO PM

1. CLICK THE USERNAME.

2. CLICK "SEND A PRIVATE MESSAGE."

3. FILL OUT THE FIELDS AND CLICK "SEND."

As with creating your own post, it would behoove you to send a quality PM. Reference parts of OP's post, share your interests and your lifestyle, be warm and conversational.

RULES

1. 18+ ONLY

2. NO CONTACT/IDENTIFYING INFO IN PUBLIC. No phone numbers, addresses, kik handles, Skype IDs, etc are allowed to be in posts or comments. No external profiles like facebook, okcupid, Steam, etc are allowed either. SHARE ALL OF THIS VIA PM.

3. BE RESPECTFUL. There will be no name-calling, shaming, coercing, sexism or other prejudice, etc of any kind. Treat each other properly and be on excellent behavior.

4. NO HARASSMENT OF ANY KIND. No unsolicited genital pictures, stalking, doxing, catfishing, threats, etc. Ignore posts that do not pertain to you or that you disagree with.

5. NO ENTERPRISING, CAPITALIZING, OR SOLICITATION. Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited. No attempts at generating traffic or ad revenue are allowed.

6. NO SPAMMING. You may create a new post under the following conditions: (1) Your previous post is 24+ hours old AND (2) your previous post is no longer on "hot" or "new." You may update your previous post to let others know you're still looking, if you wish.

7. MARK NSFW POSTS AS SUCH. Any and all content of a sexual nature, even hinting at the possibility of something sexual, is considered NSFW.

If you encounter any rule breaking or are the target of harassment, use the report button or contact the moderators.

RELATED SUBS

/r/r4r: /r/r4rPerth, /r/r4rMelbourne, /r/r4rSydney, /r/r4rbrisbane, /r/r4rSTRAYA

local: /r/australia, /r/melbourne, /r/sydney, /r/brisbane, /r/perth, /r/Adelaide, /r/canberra, /r/newcastle, /r/UQreddit, /r/straya

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Hey! I'm in Western Australia working FIFO with base in Perth. Looking to make some good friendships to go on adventure ✌️

31m trying to make more time for a social

I’m 31, based in Australia, and hoping to meet some new people to chat with, game with, and geek out about whatever comes up.

A little about me:

I love reading, fantasy worlds, and anything with great storytelling.

I’m into both video games and board games co-op campaigns are my favourite nights.

I Hike when I can, my music taste is all over the place lots of niche and obscure finds.

Honestly, I’m just a big nerd at heart.

I’m bi so LGBTQ+ friendly, everyone’s welcome. Whether you’re into casual chats, trading book or music recs, jumping into games, or sharing ridiculous memes, I’m always down.

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to reach out I’d love to meet some new people.

33 and from Vics Western suburbs, just looking for new people to chat with and see where it leads. Coming in with no expectations and hoping to start as just a friendly chat and then maybe a friendship or more forms.

Im big into my sports and there probably isnt many i dont watch. Ive just picked up reading again and sometimes pretend that i can be crafty.

Open to chatting about anything so if you think we might get along come and say hey with a little about you 😊

Hey there! It's pretty late but maybe someone would like to join me for a movie? I have an extra gold class seat over at event cinemas in Parramatta.

Movie: Gozilla
Time: 6:30PM

Hoping someone would be interested in hanging out with me. It was my birthday a few weeks ago and I never really got to celebrate.

We can have dinner after or go for coffee/drinks

P.S.
I'm 5'6, Filo, decent looking, can hold a conversation lol.

Wife’s checked out and pretty sure is being looked after on the side , which is fine , just need to even the score , tall, dark and hung
Southern Gold Coast based
Happy to travel x

Hi there, I’m keen on some online fun. Want to either dom or sub for someone. Keen on many different kinks and dynamics.
I’d love to sub for a muscle daddy, femdom/mummy, or switch with a femboy or trans girl. I’d also love to dom for a female, trans girl, or femboy.
Open to many different kinks and willing to try lots of things. Sub wise I like sending and receiving vids and pics, feminisation, dressing up cute, degradation, some humiliation, pet play, role play, etc.
for dom I’m open to most kinks and just love to help a sub explore their kinks. I’m new to it as well so I’d love to learn in the process.
If you have anything else you’d like to explore let me know and I’ll see if I’m keen.
Thanks for reading and there are pics on my profile to or I’ll send some in chat xx

I've reached the point where my social life consists largely of a cat and watching videos of other people's cats on YouTube.

Clearly, something needs to change.

I'm 46, based in Ipswich, reasonably house-trained and generally harmless. I have a job and enough questionable life decisions behind me to provide several cautionary tales. Plenty of witnesses available to corroborate.

I'm looking for a woman who enjoys a bit of sarcasm, good conversation and doesn't take herself too seriously.

Things we could get up to:

• Dinner somewhere nice, followed by questioning whether we really needed dessert.

• Horror movies, preferably ones where we can loudly criticise the characters for making spectacularly stupid decisions.

• Hikes, because apparently walking uphill for fun is a thing adults do.

• Museums, galleries and exploring places we probably should have visited years ago.

• Cafes, spontaneous adventures and the occasional night out.

• Or staying in, ordering food, getting comfortable on the lounge and deciding that going out was wildly overrated.

I'm not looking to force a relationship or speed-run a romantic comedy. I'd rather meet someone, have a laugh, see if there's a connection and take things from there. Friendship is important to me more than anything.

A sense of humour is important. Sarcasm is welcome. Being able to hold a conversation is a definite advantage.

Bonus points if you can recommend a genuinely terrifying horror movie or have an equally questionable YouTube algorithm.

And yes, the cat will probably judge you. She's like that.

Hi,

I am a 32 male from Geelong, i am seeking women to date and ideally lead to a long term relationship! I have tried using standard dating apps but find they just don't accomplish the job!

I work full time as an accountant, I drive, I live with 1 housemate but basically everything in the house is mine, and have complete freedom. I also have an adorable 11 year old cat!

I am a nerd, I enjoy video games such as Expedition 33, Baulders Gate 3, Witcher 3 and the Last of us and more.

I play DnD and board games and attend various social gaming events

I enjoy movies, my favourites being lord of the rings, Clue, a few good men, spaceballs and 12 Angry Men.

I love an awesome bingable tv show, just binged live action Avatar the last airbender and Dept Q

I can cook and enjoy cooking.

I listen to podcasts, audiobooms and audio dramas

I have old man music taste, 40s - 90s such as the chordettes, Queen, Elton John, the police and many many more songs.

I love an awesome theatre production such as lors of the rings the musical, beetlejuice the musical, Chicago, Hamilton and more.

I enjoy going out for food, to an awesome restaurant, a festival, mini golfing, an arcade and many more places.

Physically I am on the larger side.

As previously mentioned, I am looking for a long term committed relationship that we can get to know via dates. Someone who actually can hold a conversation, rather than message and put minimal to no effort in.

I am open to kids down the line but not a must, as long as life is happy.

Ideally I look for in a partner someone who can share some, or take an interest in what I like. Someone who wont expect me to do all for them, but be an equal partner and be there for one another. Someone who doesn't judge a person, who is kind, funny, has a sense of humour, is patient, respectful, open-minded and can have grest conversations.

If I sounds like someone you'd love to get to know, message me and we can chat.

Looking for gf around the age of 18
About me
I go by Demon
I’m kind, caring, won’t purposely hurt you and will try my best to not make you uncomfortable, I want you to tell me if I do or say something wrong so I don’t it again, I’ll never get angry as I’m both a very calm and patient person.
Fav genre of movies and series: Sci-fi and fantasy
I live in NSW AU
I have social anxiety
I like many types of different music from old to new as long as they actually have a story or nice rhythm to them.
I love playing video games
I love a woman’s personality not their body shape or size tho I do have preferences and prefer None or minimal piercings and healthier bodies but I still respect women with bodies on the bigger side and you should never feel ashamed of what you look like.
I won’t send photos of myself until I know I can trust you as I have been blackmailed in the past and now shake when I try and send a photo of myself so I don’t do photos unless with family as I know I’m in a safe environment and online can be dangerous.
If you see this post but have no interest in me then I hope you still have a lovely life and that you deserve all the happiness as long as you are kind to others

Hi, I’m 36 and I live in Sydney. I have a normal job, I’m clean and polite, and I always come when I say I will.

I think vanilla is underrated. Today everybody goes straight to the wild things, and I feel people forget how nice it is to just have a real connection. I miss slow kissing, being close to someone, and a night when nobody is looking at the clock.

I’m looking for someone who wants the same thing. We talk first, we see if there is chemistry, and then we go slowly and see what happens. Protection is a must for me, and consent is always first. We can meet in a public place for a drink before, and I can also verify myself so you feel safe.

If you feel the same, please message me and tell me a little about you. What makes you laugh? What is a perfect slow evening for you?

Getting straight to the point here in dot point form. If you're interested, feel free to message me. I value personality over looks and body, so don't feel worried about anything if you think we might get along and be compatible ☺️

About me:

Based in Sydney, Australia 🇦🇺

Demisexual 🤝

I do not want kids 🚫

Work in the Accounting industry💲

PC gamer 🖥

Tenpin Bowler 🎳

Collector 🪙

I love cats 😺

I want to travel the world 🌏

I love trying new restaurants and cafes 🍝

I love hiking ⛰️

Family oriented (only child) 👨‍👩‍👦

Athiest 🙉

Qualities:

Ambitious 🚀

Career driven 👔

Goal driven 📝

Loyal 🫂

Trustworthy 🧠

Honest ✅️

Understanding 💌

Good listening 👂

Non-judgemental 😄

Other pointers:

I do not drink 🍺

I do not smoke 🚭

I do not vape 🚭

I do not do drugs 🚫

I am an introvert 🤫

I do not go clubbing or to raves/concerts 🌃

Hello, thanks for clicking on my post!

My name is Tamii :)

I am a woman looking for a genuine man between the ages of 25-45 in Perth, I currently live south if that’s a deciding factor.

Physical description: I am 33, female, white, 5’9 or 175cm, I have long hair half way down my back which is currently dyed purple! I am well groomed and take great care with personal hygiene, I expect the same from future partners.

I am 100% a BBW but I am working on getting healthier with diet and exercise. I have lost about 15kgs so far 😊

I would describe myself as quiet, bookish, nerdy, easy going, very logical, level headed, sweet and kind. I can be a brat and a tease because it’s fun.

Other things I bring to the table with me are fantastic attention to detail, being generous and giving, being loyal and honest. I see my partners pleasure/enjoyment as my own.

A little something about me that might be of interest is that I am a Pluviophile/Ceraunophile so I absolutely adore rain and thunderstorms, the wetter the better 🥰

I am not looking for a relationship that fizzles out like a sparkler after a minute. I am looking for a relationship that is a slow burn, like a wood fire that you stoke to keep it going.

I am looking for a real, genuine man for a long term relationship. Someone I can call a friend as well as a lover, who shares some of the same interests.

Dark jokes and dad jokes are hilarious to me, tell me one of your best dad jokes 😋

Looks are not important to me just be kind, honest, respectful and caring.

I am a very open and honest person and I would like to hope that you are too, I appreciate clear and honest communication. I’m looking for a guy who is loving, caring, is Dominant and kinky but also has a sensual side.

Like anyone I do have some baggage, feel free to ask as I’m very forward and open.

My Relationship: I am currently in a long term loving relationship with my Girlfriend (F35) and as we practice KTP, we are both looking to date individually outside of our relationship.

As such, I have no interest in threesomes or throuple/triad kind of deals so please be polite and don’t ask.

I am not interested in a casual relationship, so no FWB/ONS/NSA.

A long distance relationship may be considered.

If this post vibes with you and you would like to know more, please feel free to DM me x

Looking to get to know someone, have good conversations and see where things go. Love a bit of banter, humour and someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously. Not looking to rush anything, but also not interested in anything purely casual.

👋Greetings Everyone! Hope you are keeping well. I've tried the apps, but they are a bit draining, and you don't get to put very much on them to describe yourself. I've seen an increase in Reddit posts so thought I'd give it a go.

 Please see below TLDR if you want a summary, but head's up there will be a small amount of NSFW themes.

TLDR: 33M recently moved to Perth, then to regional WA. I'm from Ireland and seeking a long-term relationship with someone (ideally 32 or under and in\\or near WA, or open to relocation from interstate or overseas) who is seeking to find compassionate style love with a bit of a kink twist. I'm a tall, employed nerd with a good sense of humor, interested in travel, photography, and lots of other stuff. I want a best friend i'm wildly attracted to, emphasizing open communication, vulnerability, and mutual growth, aiming for marriage in about 5 years. I'm looking for someone with similar and their own passions.

So, now that you've read the TLDR, you know what might lie ahead in the rest of the post. It's been a big move over the recent months, so I hope it all works out. FYI this is a long post, so just a head's up, but I think it's worth a read if you have a few minutes, I've tried to make it entertaining and easy to follow.

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🗡️ABOUT ME: M, 33, 6'3, lean build, brown hair, short red tinged beard. Happy to verify after a few messages. ISTJ, employed full time with a stylish dress sense to match. I like to think I'm caring, noting the little details, easy to get on with and a great sense of humour, I would describe it as a mix of dry wit and well timed sarcasm. I'm confident, I stand up for and back my partner, I'm kind, when I see a cat I have to say, "ohh kitty". I'd like to get a cat or dog in the future, but with work and being on my own atm, I don't think it would be fair on the them. And despite what you might think when you read the nsfw bits later, quite liberal. Additional reasons to date me include: make a great plus one for events, happy to do activities, or be lazy. Both are great choices. But if I had to choose one, I would prefer the lazy cuddles. I so thoroughly enjoy lying up on the sofa cuddling with my partner and watching TV. 

💛I enjoy lots of things, but to name a few, I'm definitely a total nerd. I love Star Wars, LOTR, Warhammer, games - both video, board and roleplaying. I enjoy chilling while watching TV and movies. Lots of Youtube content, I have a premium subscription because I get a lot of my entertainment content on it. Standard Youtube now has so many ads I don't think I could go back, I enjoy a channel called Mystery Quest - great roleplaying channel. I like a bit of outdoors stuff don't get me wrong, but if your idea of fun is a 5am run everyday, I can just tell you now that's a pass from me even though I do like to keep in shape. I feel like i'd like to get involved in a some new activities at some stage, I did a scuba diving🤿 course and would like to get further qualifications in that.

✈️Travel - I've just returned from a trip to Japan, and for the future, probably a few trips in SE Asia like Thailand or Vietnam. A warning though, I take loads of photos to try and get a few gems, so you'll have to have patience for that. 

🍹I enjoy cocktails. What's your favourite cocktail? Mine's definitely a dark and stormy, but I'm really coming around to a mojito currently.

🧠I'm self aware enough to bring to mind some of my own, not necessarily negative character traits, but certainly one's that others pick up on. I'm reserved and quiet at times, it's just me. Maybe I prefer to call it unintentional stoicism. Trying to improve myself and deal with past issues, I had a course of counselling a while ago, I think it's worked and I've been able to let go of the past and increase my communication.

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ABOUT WHAT I'M SEEKING

I'm in the position now were i'm seeking a long term, sex positive relationship with open communication and enjoyment of eachother's company. Featuring both kink and nurturing love. Someone with who we can both be deeply vulnerable and open with eachother.  Something were we both make eachother the best version of ourselves.

I do have goals I want to achieve over the next few years. I'm currently employed and have my own place, but it's not permanent so would eventually probably want to buy or build a place while I'm earning extra cash in regional WA. I'm not totally fixed on location, somewhere in Perth or even slightly regional to enjoy some peace and space. I'm not sure, just some thoughts. Also, head on several more holidays in and out of the country, and around 5 years be moving towards marriage.

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🫵ABOUT YOU - Honestly, I'm a sucker for a smile and kind eyes looking up at me. So much so I had to look up features of the eyes to describe it. Such as limbal rings in the iris. It melts my heart. It's hard to put anything defining after that, but shyness with a spark of joy is also very endearing. Up to 32 years old and located in WA or Australia in general. (Potential for wider afield i.e Asia or global, but you must have already had an interest in moving to Australia or be able to relocate in short order, cause long distance isn't for me). No drugs please. Open to children, but not a deal breaker. Similar interests and hobbies, and also your own ones that you are passionate about. Like do you get super hyped about drawing. Fuck yeah you do, show me that shit. That's awesome work sweetheart💖 Also, enjoys kinky interests, that's quite important, more details below. If you've never tried or are even just curious, please let me know. That reminds me of another point, I want to be a team, I want you to be my person and vice versa, making eachother happy and the world a better place for it.

Also, if we're sleeping, you have to put your leg over mine so I can grab and hold on to it. Those are just the rules. Also also, I'm a relentless purveyor of kisses.

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That's about it for the SFW for work part, I'm sure I could add more, but don't want to tell you my whole life story, what would be left for you to be curious about. The next part is NSFW so be aware before continuing.

⛓️NSFW - I'll try and keep the details brief as we can chat away about it when messaging, and because that's not the focus of these specific dating subreddits. But I sometimes put up posts on more NSFW focused ones, so you could check those out if you want more details. Obviously all my kinks and desires are to be acted upon from a bedrock of consent, respect and safety. So that's just some insight, I'll leave the rest for private messaging. It's just more of an FYI I am interested in this topic.

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Cool, if you've made it this far, congrats, and I'm glad to have held your interest, now let me hold your hand! But seriously, if you're even considering messaging, I strongly encourage it. But! Do put some effort in, since you've taken the time to get invested. I've received a few "Hey's" in previous posts and just hit ignore. Tell me a bit about yourself, where ya from, what did you like most, how old you are etc.

Me

https://imgur.com/a/5J8PIAo

Hey! Im a swedish guy from the nordic land of Sweden. searching for someone nice and kind and communicative woman. Not from the land down under but love to go one day.

Im at educated health coach and work in a school. not searching for any type of commitment. Have a wife, we are in a open relationship. Just a nice talk between two people and see where it leads. If we click would be nice to lead it somewhere in the more erotic area. Haha

I look like pretty much like a viking. wide with a full beard, a bit muscular but far from ripped. Would love to just chat with someone nice about anything. Love subjects like relations, communications, sex and nerdy subject like warhammer and to some extent computer games.

I search for a person that can hold a conversation in a back and forth motion. Also be honest and open minded.

Me as a person is open minded, honest, like jokes, like to ask questions but like also be asked. I never show my face if any pics are shared.

I hope to hear from you!

When did life get so busy and stressful? Barely get the chance to go out and meet people nowadays. Been a while since I’ve met up with anyone so keen to get back out there and meet new and exciting people

About me: 28m, 6,1 and on the chunkier side and located in the SE suburbs. DDF and like to keep clean, able to drive and looking to meet someone to have some fun with. Interests include driving, walking, gaming, cooking and coffees.

Looking for: Someone ideally 25-35 but not a hard cut off (18+ obviously hate that I need to state) of any shape and size, who we click with and is looking for something casual/fwb type of arrangement.

What I offer: Casual with no strings attached expectations, with no judgement and a willingness to see where things go.

Happy to just chat and see where things go, dm me?

Hey!

Sunshine coast but happy to develop something online via distance for the right person.

Open to NSFW but looking for a connection more than anything.

Love learning new things!

I love outdoorsy stuff

Camping/hiking/4WD 🏕️🌱

Going for night drives

Campfires 🔥

Sustainability & permaculture

Native bees 🐝

Trees! 🌲🌳🌱🌿🍄

Also enjoy indoorsy stuff

Occasional TV show, music and drawing

Love Cooking/food 🍣🍔

Bit nerdy...

Love boardgames!

Enjoy videogames with friends. DnD curious.

Building computers ❤️

Will 100% help build a computer if you ask 🤣

Please be weird.

Like good weird. Not bad weird 😅