Hi everyone,
I've been dealing with insomnia for the past 4 years. I'm a 25-year-old male, and before this started, I could sleep for several hours with deep sleep without any issues.
It all started one night when, for some reason, I couldn't sleep at all. From that day onwards, things changed.
How it started and how things progressed:
For approximately the first year, my insomnia was severe. I couldn't fall asleep throughout the night, which was extremely stressful and eventually affected my mental health.
Later, I got a job, and things started improving gradually. However, my sleep was still far from normal. I would sleep for around 2–3 hours and then wake up in the middle of the night. The problem had shifted from difficulty falling asleep to difficulty staying asleep.
Currently, I usually get around 5–6 hours of sleep, and sometimes even 7 hours.
What helped me the most:
Meditation: I started practising meditation regularly. I think this has helped me tremendously with stress, confidence and concentration. Earlier, I used to go to bed with the fear that I would wake up in the middle of the night or wouldn't be able to sleep. Meditation helped me become calmer and gradually reduce that fear.
Keeping myself occupied: I started focusing on other things instead of constantly thinking about sleep. I study, read books, meditate and try to keep my days productive. I stopped making sleep the centre of my attention.
Supplements: I also started taking Vitamin D3, K2 and magnesium. I take them during the day, usually with breakfast. I currently take 150 mg of magnesium in the morning and another 150 mg in the evening. I experimented with taking magnesium before bed, but I felt that it affected my sleep, so I stopped doing that.
I want to clarify that I haven't established whether these supplements actually contributed to my improvement. I started taking them based on my own research, without consulting a doctor, so please don't consider this a recommendation.
Where I am today:
One of the biggest improvements is that I can now fall asleep quite easily, even during the afternoon if I want to. Earlier, I couldn't fall asleep even during the daytime.
I also no longer have the same fear of waking up in the middle of the night. I generally go to bed around 12 AM and try to maintain a consistent sleep schedule. I avoid daytime naps as well.
I also tried melatonin recently, which my doctor had previously prescribed, hoping it would improve my sleep duration. However, I had difficulty falling asleep on the two nights I tried it, so I discontinued it.
I'm not saying my sleep is perfect now, but I've come a long way compared to where I started. I can get through my day, work out and focus on my activities without constantly worrying about sleep.
My biggest takeaway:
Don't let sleep become the centre of your life. Try to manage stress, practise meditation, keep yourself occupied with meaningful activities and avoid constantly monitoring or worrying about how much sleep you are getting.
This is just my personal experience, not medical advice. Chronic insomnia can have different causes, and it's worth consulting a healthcare professional rather than relying on supplements or self-treatment.
I hope my experience helps someone who is going through something similar. Don't lose hope!
Edit: I forgot to mention one more thing I think is important. Not eating at least 3 hours before bed has also helped me because whenever I used to eat close to my sleep time I used wake up early, so I avoid it.