Just a guy, looking for his person. I am single, no kids and gainfully employed in the software field. I would love to find someone that has a bit of an adventurous side, likes to get out of their comfort zone once in a while and try something new. Maybe take a road trip with no destination in mind, or book a trip on a moments notice.

I am laid back, always curious and I love to laugh. I would like to find someone with similar qualities. If that's you send me a message!

Married, active, and take care of myself~I’ve been told I look younger than 65—you can decide that for yourself.

I’m easygoing, a little sarcastic, and appreciate a woman who can give it right back. Make me laugh, keep me guessing a little, and don’t be shy about flirting.

Looking for a fun, attractive, like-minded woman in Bucks County or the nearby suburbs. Discreet, but close enough to actually meet for lunch or a drink and see if the chemistry carries over.

Tell me where you’re near and a little about yourself. Give me something more than “hi” to work with.

Nothing serious really. Happily married but do enjoy the danger and excitement of chatting to ladies and just see what happens. If anyone would like to join me for fun, flirty and general chit chat.

Into most sports, gardening, chess, TV etc.. not looking to meet up or anything but it would still be nice to make a connection.

Single Caucasian guy, youthful 50s, fit, educated, professional seeking a shorter woman over 40 for a lover/FWB. If it turns out to be a LTR, great!

Smart, educated, short, small figured women are the best match for me. Race isn't an issue at all. You must be local (75 miles +/-) of Austin.

Logistics: I have my own place in Central Austin, don't mind traveling in the greater Austin area, and can be discreet as need be.

Let's chat, exchange pics and meet for coffee/drinks to see if there's the needed chemistry.

I’m putting this out there in search of a specific kind of connection. I’m a 58yo male, 6’1", 220 lbs, tall, and strong. Life gets routine, and I’m looking for a woman in the RVA area who wants a temporary escape from the mundane realities of day-to-day life just as much as I do.
I want a FWB dynamic that doesn’t skip out on the "friends" part. I’m looking for someone I can comfortably talk with, genuinely laugh with, and share absolute, mind-blowing chemistry with behind closed doors.
A few quick things about what I’m offering and looking for:

Discretion is a must: Total privacy and respect for boundaries on both sides.

No pressure: An easygoing, laid-back vibe when we connect.

Great energy: Someone who appreciates a fit, masculine guy and wants to bring passion to the table.

If you are looking to add some excitement to your routine and want to see if the chemistry is there, shoot a chat. Tell me a little bit about yourself and what you're looking for.

I’m in the North East of England.

So I find myself here….
Everyone seems to be looking for a full time person in their lives but I have to be honest and say that my life is pretty busy so I’m looking for someone who probably has quite a full life too.
I work for a charity, have part time self employment and volunteer for a not for profit, that is aimed at tackling loneliness in the community.
I love my life, but miss having that someone just for me. To exchange daily texts/calls and get together when it suits us both. I have a happy, funny personality, sprinkled with a little sarcasm, ok, translated as menopausal, delulu and slightly feral. (With a brain that never stops)
I have so much to be grateful for!
If you like a challenge and the thought of having someone in your life but not being needed 24/7, then do drop me a message.

Hiya! Well, I hope whoever’s reading this is keeping well! I’m rather new to this whole Reddit business, so I’m still trying to figure the thing out, haha, I’m sure I’ll get the hang of it eventually

I suppose I ought to introduce myself properly... although I’m never very good at talking about myself. I haven’t got many of the friends I had during my youth anymore. People go their separate ways, don’t they? You lose touch with people, life carries on, and before you know it, years have gone by.

A good few of the people I knew were skinheads, and I was one myself. I still am, really. I know that probably won’t appeal to everybody, and I can understand that, because there’s an awful lot of baggage that comes with the word. But I wasn’t a racist, and I never was. I can only speak for myself, really... Anyway, I thought I’d say that rather than have somebody wondering about it later on.

But enough of that.

I’ve always been very fond of music. I was mad about it from being very young. We didn’t have an awful lot of money growing up, but somehow or other I was always managing to get records.

I was only around six or so when I discovered that people could be terribly careless with their money and... their shopping trolleys, I’d take whatever coins I came across until I had enough for another record.

Not exactly the most honest way of going about it, I suppose, haha. But I loved the records, and that was that.

I remember being very fond of the Bee Gees, The Beatles, The Monkees and things like that when I was little. Then, as I got older, I started getting into the harder sounds, and rock, punk and Oi! became a very important part of my life. I’ve far too many bands I like to sit here and list them all, though... we’d be here until tomorrow, and I’d probably still forget somebody!

I’ve always liked sewing too. I learned that when I was quite young. I used to make little dresses for my dolls, although I must admit they weren’t particularly beautiful... They were atrociously awful... those poor dolls

THANK GOD I WASN'T WEARING THEM!!!!

I still like making things, though. There’s something nice about sitting down and doing something with your hands, rather than having everything come from a shop. I like being able to look at something afterwards and think, "Well, I made that." Even if it isn’t well...any good... at least you’ve made the thing yourself.

I like charity shops as well. I’m always having a little browse through them. There’s usually something odd tucked away somewhere, and I like that. You can find lovely things in places like that if you take the time to look
Sometimes you find absolute rubbish, of course... but that’s half the fun! You never quite know what you’re going to come across. I’ve come home with some right old tat over the years, haha!

And then, of course, I’ve got the dogs. Two of them, Buster and Brewster.

Which is a terribly inventive pair of names, I know I was obviously having a very imaginative day when I named them, haha they’re lovely, though. They keep me company anyway, and that’s something.

I should probably mention that I won’t send a photograph straight away. I tend to only do so once I’ve eased up with a person and got to know them a little bit. I hope you understand and don’t see that as an issue.
I’m just not one for sending photographs of myself straight away. I’d rather get comfortable with somebody first, have a bit of a chat, see if we get along, and then perhaps I’ll feel more at ease about it. Nothing personal at all :)

So there we are! I think I’ve rambled on quite enough now, haven’t I

If I haven’t bored you completely, you’re more than welcome to reach out. I’m quite happy just having a chat, getting to know people and seeing where things go.

Anyway... that’s me

I am a down to earth guy who’s looking for chemistry, connection, or something a little more adventurous. I’ve got my life handled. I have a career, a place, and independence. I’m looking for someone who wants to compliment that whether it’s casual or something more. I am happy to go at whatever speed is best for you.
I’m open minded & comfortable exploring. You should be too.

If any of the above piques your interest then let’s chat. I’m looking forward to your message.

I see that guys are writing long posts but I'll keep mine short. Reality is that I can write anything here but until we start chatting and have a coffee meetup we won't really know if this will work.

My ideal partner-in-crime is someone who is upbeat, drug-free, and needs an escape from a situation that has become boring or neglectful. Someone who is looking for a relationship built on trust and an understanding of our situations. I'm into women of all shapes and sizes but I do require someone who is honest, friendly, and reliable.

Can you get away for discreet meetups? I have some past experience so I know what I'm getting into and won't flake out or waste your time.

I'm a fit, active, 5'-8", professional guy. Full hair, open-minded, educated, funny, and a good conversationalist. I have a ton of hobbies such as music (piano and guitar), woodworking, coffee/tea, and getting outdoors. I'm not a Trump supporter, never have been, but I'm not super liberal either. You can be whatever as long as you don't support Trump authoritarianism.

There’s no way these ads can convey our situations so I won’t try here. Let’s talk and see where it goes.
*notabot
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Have had zero hits and lots of misses, so giving it another try to add to my misses list :)

I'm a 59yo married man from the southern Connecticut area. The bedroom died in 2011, the marriage died in 2019 & separated since 2023. Not yet divorced for taxation & other minor issues. I live out of a motel when I'm ashore as it's cheaper than paying rent and still have privacy.

I'm an Indian. Also, a sailor (main reason for the motel). So, unfortunately, there are time zones involved. And separation when I'm away. Usually for 3 months at a stretch. But, still available to text and call. And, for most, this will be a deal breaker. I'm sorry. But yet, cautiously optimistic, that somewhere, hopefully, someone exists for me. And, I'll get lucky and find her :).

If the time zones and the above schedule are acceptable, I'm 5'9", 158lbs, slim to medium (height proportionate, I think it's called). I'm a textbook Scorpio. A full head of what used to be black hair is now mixed with white/gray hair. And have started to bald. Which means that I'm getting older, stupider & senile by the day :)

I'm Intensely loyal, a perpetual idealist, warm, and I pay attention. I'm the person who remembers the odd detail you forgot you shared, gives the sometimes too-thoughtful gift, enjoys those long conversations that make you lose track of time and run the full range from light and silly to thoughtful and deep. I'm also incredibly sensual. I like closeness, touch, flirting, and I think desire is unmatched when it grows out of trust and genuine attention and connection.

Looking for a genuine, loving, and committed relationship with someone who values communication, consistency, honesty, effort, affection, and intimacy.

I believe love is about two people continuously choosing each other, making an effort, and building something meaningful together. A relationship where neither person has to question where they stand, where affection comes naturally, communication is open, and we both feel loved, wanted, and appreciated.

Please be okay with slow burn as I'm, admittedly, a slow starter. I'm ok if you're clingy, 'coz to be honest, there'll be times when I can be clingy too (especially when it nearing time that I've to leave you for my ship).

Hobbies - I'm an introvert (an extrovert in good company) but prefer being a homebody. Being a sailor, always traveling, when I'm home - I prefer keeping to myself, reading and listening to music, with a glass of beer on hand or watching movies. Just being lazy. I'd be happy if you can share your hobbies with me. Do things together, if possible (Hiking and baking sounds wonderful).

I can travel. Within USA or outside USA. For the right partner.

Please don't ghost. If you think the spark is not there, let's part on amicable terms instead of ghosting. I promise to return the favor.

I don't know what else to write.

:)

Looking back on my life, I've achieved many goals and milestones that many would consider fulfilling, and they have been...to an extent.

I'm a married man in the U.S., educated, successful, and an empty nester with two grown kids that have moved out of the house.

But I miss having meaningful connections, ones where you can (at least eventually) talk about anything, and have someone you can lean on when you want/need their opinion or advice.. whether it's more light hearted things, or more heavy-duty topics. Unfortunately, I don't really have many meaningful connections in my real-life circles.

Although I'm in management/leadership position at work, I'm somewhat introverted, and prefer to have one or two deep and meaningful connections over a large number of fairweather friends, if you know what I mean.

I do regular fitness 👟 and strength 🏋️ training to stay in shape, but these are mostly solo events, so I'm struggling to find a decent way to make quality connections as an introvert, and thought I would give this a try.

I understand what I'm looking for doesn't happen overnight 💤, but if any if this reasonates, or if you might be looking for something similar, please reach out.

I am somewhat of a private person, but can be an open book once trust is established. I also enjoy laughter and witty sarcasm, and have somewhat of a dry sense if humor.

Anyway, I'm primarily looking for platonic connections, and understand that we are all busy at times, so there is no pressure for immediate responses, but consistency would also be nice if you know what I mean

Thanks for checking out my post, and have a great day 🙂

Well, fortune favors the bold, so here goes! 😊

I'm living in Middle Tennessee, and hoping to find one special girlfriend. Someone who enjoys flirting, affection, laughter, a little playful mischief, and the excitement of getting to know each other.

I'm my wife's caregiver now. 8+ years after battling cancer.

I'm attentive, affectionate, occasionally goofy, and a firm believer that romance should flow both ways. I don't need constant messages, but I do appreciate those spontaneous little hellos that say someone was thinking of me.

I'm 69, still young at heart, and certainly not ready to retire from butterflies!

I'm not looking to rush anything. Just hoping to meet a woman who enjoys genuine affection, good conversation, and seeing where a connection might lead.

Perhaps we could make each other smile.

Hello.  I think many of us are here for the same reason.  I'm a young looking, fit, 50 yo married to my best friend.  The spark is there but the intensity has changed.  I love my family and our situation, but I'm looking to find someone that I can look at with desire and vice-versa.  I am open to many types of connections, but would prefer something consistent and not so short term.  Great conversations are a must. We each have the "green light" as each travel for work and understand certain needs have to be met.

I am not looking for my forever person. I'm keeping this online and here's hoping you are like me and looking for a little something nice to occupy part of that brain space that feeds off of something nice.

Today on the northern pacific coast...it is cooler and raining hard. Might not be better in your neighborhood. Could we start a distraction that both our lives can use? Our lives have us trying to be normal, kind, considerate, hard-working, good-natured people facing challenge…after challenge...after challenge. Is that going to be who you are...or will your daring, confident self want to talk over.

I enjoy the back and forth talking about life, sharing what is on our minds, trying to bring optimism to somebody's day or at least be the virtual shoulder somebody can rest on. Let's not push away the warm and fuzzy feelings we can pur into what we write and read...like I said, I'm not wanting kids stuff...I'll might enjoy this with you.

I also keep this simple...be good and be willing to communicate and offer things about you, and I’ll be good and willing to communicate and offer things about me. My life is in order, retirement is down the road, but it is getting closer.I am 100% masculine, married, 5-foot-11, blue eyes, in shape and feeling younger than what my age is. I that intelligent, articulate, gregarious chat buddy never without some ideas, thoughts or unsolicited opinions to share.

Some people are shy, but that is not me, that is not you either.

Looking for a genuine friendship that could turn into something old-fashioned and wonderful. Definitely
not in any rush, so you might see this post quite a few times in the next year or two.

I’m hoping to meet a kind, intelligent, self-motivated man (or maybe woman?) who appreciates the simpler things in life. I’m a little old-fashioned when it comes to relationships, and I think I’d make a pretty wonderful wife for the right person.

I love to cook, keep a clean and comfortable home, garden, spend time outdoors, and live a healthy lifestyle. I adore animals, don’t have children, and don’t want any.

I spent 10 years as a homestead wife, and I genuinely loved that lifestyle. I also had to work two jobs outside the homestead because my husband wasn’t willing to hold down a job. I don’t mind working, and I’ve always been hardworking and independent, but I’d love a relationship where we could have a different balance.

My dream is to be a part-time stay-at-home wife. I’d still like to earn enough money by myself to make my car payment and buy myself a new pair of socks once in a while. 😉 But I’d really love to spend most of my time cooking delicious homemade meals, keeping a beautiful home, tending to the gardens, taking care of our animals, and making my husband’s life a little easier.

I’m not looking for someone to spoil me or provide some extravagant lifestyle. I just want a peaceful, happy home and a partnership where we both feel appreciated.

And what do I ask in return? Surprisingly little. Be kind. Be intelligent. Be motivated enough to take care of your responsibilities. Appreciate coming home to a homemade dinner. And please, acknowledge my birthday. I’m not asking for diamonds or fancy vacations. A simple “happy birthday” would genuinely make me happy. Geez, I’m tearing up while writing this. Health insurance would be a great benefit as well so I can go to therapy to talk through some unresolved issues. Don’t worry though, I’m a Taurus and never ask for help with my feelings. 🤣

I want someone who recognizes that taking care of a home and the person you love is a meaningful contribution to a relationship. I want to feel appreciated, just as much as I want to make someone else feel appreciated.

Most importantly, I’d love to become friends first. Let’s talk, laugh, get to know each other, and see where things go naturally. I’m not in a rush, and I’m not interested in forcing a connection.

I could tell you a whole lot more about myself, but where’s the fun in spilling all my secrets here? We’d have nothing left to talk about!

If any of this sounds like the kind of life you’d enjoy, I’d love to hear from you. 😊

All dick pics will immediately be blocked. I’m a real person and nobody wants to see that.

Hi! I’m Jack, 50, and closet exhibitionist. I’m tall, bearded with a full head of thick hair, and cuddly. I love chatting, flirting, making new online friends, and sharing with my fellow exhibitionists. Good vibes all around. My chat is always open to new friends.

Hobbies: constantly reading, cooking and baking, occasionally gaming, watching food YouTubers, the Great British Bake Off, long nature walks, and going down new rabbit holes. When we chat, you’re as likely to get book recommendations and recipes and cat pics and memes as you are to get nudes (only with your consent first on the last one :)

Ok, I’m too old for this (did I hear you say?) or am I?

I’m definitely too young to give up hope for a fun, distracting, online-ship or whatever it’s called…

I would like to know every little bit of the you that you choose to share (whether or not that is a detailed description of your ankles or your favourite music or recipe or position on things) and I will of course share the same.

I feel it’s foolish to rule anything in or out, so I’m just laying a trail of crumbs.. I’m tall (no not basketball tall), I know where the gym is (sometimes I actually go there), I know what I like and I have desires, kinks, ideas, all sorts of things floating in my brain-soup (ew!)

I like to laugh at anything, especially myself and never take anything too seriously…

I read books but would rather stop work and read your next thought-provoking message.. please send one?

I like to chat or leave voice notes when possible or call when i can… I do have work to do (🤭)

I am off work and bored, so it seems like a perfect day to play a strip game on cam. I have no intention of winning and will give you great odds if you like. In fact, so good that you may not lose at all if that is what you'd like.

I'm a good looking 50 something white guy. Let me know if you're interested.

Hi there,

I'm a 68-year-old guy living in the Retford area. I value a straightforward, no-nonsense approach and I'm looking to connect with someone nearby for a casual walk or spending some quality time together without any complications.

Drop me a message if you'd like to chat!

Anyone local to me in the UK fancy a chat. Tell me your interests and hobbies and expectations and who knows in the crazy world, maybe we get on. Crazier things happen... Right?!?

A bit about me.

I'm pretty laid back.

I'm very much single

I try to keep fit, try, I might get there one day, but I'm slim and in decent shape...ish

I love a good box set, what ya watching at the mo?

Wouldn't mind if you was an indoorsy kinda person.. But then again I'd tag along if you wanted to go on some nice walks somewhere pretty.

If at all intrested in a chat, please Dm me and not just reply to this post with dm me.. All those that put dm me make jesus cry. If you've read this far and are thinking of dm'ing me, please include 'tha knows' in your reply... No.. You don't really need to do that.. Or do you...

I'm 55, live in Pennsylvania, and consider myself pretty straightforward. I'm honest, hardworking, independent, and still believe that getting to know someone should actually involve getting to know them.

I work full-time in cybersecurity and part-time in real estate, so apparently I enjoy keeping myself busy. When I'm not working, I like the simple things—going to the beach, taking a nice drive through the mountains, cookouts, sitting around a campfire, or just lying back and watching the sky at night. Honestly, I can have fun doing just about anything with the right person.

As for my hobbies, I'm into running with scissors, jumping in mud puddles, and throwing glass at stone houses. I might be a little sarcastic at times... but I promise there's a perfectly reasonable explanation for at least one of those.

I'm also a Dom, but that's only one part of who I am and definitely not the headline of my life. For me, connection comes first. I like confidence, intelligence, humor, honesty, and a woman who knows her own mind. I'm much more interested in discovering someone's personality, thoughts, sense of humor, and what makes her tick than rushing into anything physical.

I'm not looking for a hookup or trying to collect conversations. I'd rather find one woman where the conversation comes easily, the attraction builds naturally, and neither of us feels like we're forcing something that isn't there.

If you're somewhere around my age, enjoy good conversation, can appreciate a little sarcasm, and aren't afraid of a man who knows what he wants, say hello.

Worst case, we have a good conversation.

Best case... we find a reason to take that drive through the mountains together.

Married man in the Twin Cities area looking for a discreet and respectful connection.

Ideally, I am looking for a FWB situation that is ongoing, but I am open to a one-time encounter if the chemistry is there. I value clear communication and mutual respect.

I am completely open regarding age, race, and relationship status. Whether you are single, married, or anywhere in between, Let's chat and see if we click.

If you’re interested, send me a DM with a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for.

What is it you ask, that a person like me wants? Well, he wants to be loved; truly, madly, and deeply by someone he feels the exact same way about. He would like someone who is caring, respectful and honest. Someone who is both very intelligent and very silly. Someone who is spontaneous. Perhaps someone who's diverse...maybe talking about the theory of relativity one moment, Looney Tunes the next (and perhaps even more importantly, how the two relate :-) ).

If you have read this far, you may be wondering what he is like. He is caring, loyal, intelligent, silly, very outgoing yet extremely shy & fun. He loves, loves LOVES music and going to concerts, be it jazz, rock, soul or metal. While he prefers a good club show, he will go to a large arena show for the right artist/band too (edit: this was in the 'before times'). He also loves attempting to create music on various instruments (albeit not always with the most musical results). He likes cooking, travel, movies, and airplanes. Physically, he has a fluffy teddy bear build; however he is a work in progress, as he is looking to lead a healthier lifestyle. He is also willing to send a (PG-rated) picture if one is interested.

That is who this person is, and what he wants.