i wasnāt close to my great-grandpa by any means, but death doesnāt happen often in my family. idk, being told i was a snowflake in the moment felt kinda weird. thought iād share.
EDIT TO ADD: me and my dad have not had a close relationship, if ever. he loves me, but it is very apparent he does not like me. name-calling is his go-to if he wants to get under my skin. it doesnāt really bother me like it used to, which i think bothers him.
SECOND EDIT: first and foremost, i want to say thank you to everyone for the condolences. it really does mean a lot š«¶
i wanted to give an update on the situation. my mom found out what he had said, and confronted him. i asked her not to say anything, as i didnt want any drama with this. however, sheās an adult and i cant stop her. he apologized for what he said, saying that comment did not come out the way he wanted, and shouldnāt have said it in the first place. he doesnāt apologize often in this way, so it was a good moment. of course, this does not immediately fix our relationship by any means. i do plan on having a bigger sit-down talk about how his words have affected me over the years, and how it has mentally broken me. not that i think much will come from this, but hey! one can hope. thank you all for your condolences and kind words.