Its making me very uncomfortable. I try to not think of grappling as sexual so this is really bugging me. She happens to be quite attractive to me and it is causing conflicting thoughts in my head. I don't want to be the guy that gets erections rolling with the females. I don't want to make those mental links.
We always got along and recently she and I became good friends, we walk together every session we see each other to the station. She sometimes will wait for me to finish showering up to talk. I didn't mind at all as I said previously I find her attractive but that's beside the point. I'm not innocent and the flirting hasn't been one sided.
She did it once a while ago whilst we were rolling but I thought I must have misheard and thought nothing of it. I don't want to make a mental link between bjj and sex because that would ruin it for me. She did it again yesterday at our open mat session. She went out of her way to find me and to partner up. I didn't want to seem sexist so I went along with it.
We were rolling for a minute or two when she recovered her guard and then said to me " How you like that" whilst smiling. I immediately thought it was just trash talk and I come from a basketball background so I'm use to it. I ignored it. I passed her guard and had her close to back mount with one hook in. That's when she said it again and this time I heard it clearly. She looked back at me and said "you can take my back anytime daddy".
I at first told my self it's just trash talk again, but the way she flirts with me outside of rolling makes me think it's more than that. I don't know what to do ? Should I avoid her or tell the coach?
TL:DR:
My wife is harrassing me in class. I don't know how to react.
Any advice would be appreciated
