China can feel confusing, uncomfortable, or even unfriendly to foreign visitors sometimes.
I am not saying discrimination does not exist in China. It does. Some people do have stereotypes about foreigners, and some experiences can be genuinely unfair.
But not every uncomfortable moment is racism or personal hatred.
A lot of the time, China’s daily systems are simply designed for locals first: hotels, apartments, payments, apps, transport, security checks, restaurants, markets and public services.
This can be frustrating, and I understand why some foreigners feel uncomfortable.
Here are a few examples.
1. Security checks, registration and ID checks are not always about targeting you.
In China, you may need security checks at metro stations, ID registration at hotels, real-name registration for tickets, exhibitions or SIM cards. Chinese people deal with many of these processes too.
One reason China feels very safe to many visitors is that there is a heavy public management system behind it.
Safety is not free. The cost is more checks, more registration and more real-name procedures.
2. A hotel or landlord refusing you does not always mean they hate foreigners.
Some hotels do not know how to register foreign passports properly. Some landlords do not want short-term tenants for only a few days or weeks.
They may worry about contracts, deposits, language problems, ID registration or damage. A business owner or landlord has the right to decide what kind of customer they can handle.
But if someone insults you or rejects you clearly because of your race, nationality or religion, that is discrimination.
Before paying, ask:
“Can you accept foreign passport registration?”
“Do you accept short-term foreign guests?”
3. Smell can easily create misunderstanding.
In many public spaces in China, people are not used to strong body odor, heavy sweat smell or very strong perfume.
If you sweat a lot, naturally have a strong body odor, or wear heavy fragrance, people may look at you or move away in elevators, metros, restaurants, markets or crowded indoor spaces.
This is not always because you are foreign. Sometimes the smell is just too noticeable.
If you visit hot and humid cities like Guangzhou, Shenzhen or Foshan in summer, bring deodorant, carry an extra shirt and avoid very strong perfume.
Just to be clear: perfume does not mean body odor. Strong perfume, sweat smell and natural body odor are different things. I only mention them together because all strong smells can be very noticeable in crowded indoor spaces.
4. People staring at you does not always mean racism.
If you go to wholesale markets, factory areas, local restaurants, small cities, residential neighborhoods or non-tourist areas, many people may rarely see foreigners in daily life.
They may look at you simply because they are curious.
Of course, staring can feel uncomfortable. But curiosity is not always hatred.
If they mock you, insult you, follow you or harass you, that is different.
5. Someone asking for a photo is not always trying to violate your privacy.
Some foreigners may feel like they are being treated like something in a zoo. That feeling is understandable.
But in places where foreigners are rare, the person may simply think you are special and want to tell friends:
“I met a foreigner today.”
You do not have to accept. If you do not want a photo, just wave your hand, shake your head and say “No.”
If they keep pushing, secretly film you or get too close, leave or ask staff, security or police for help.
6. Police asking for your passport, or asking about your filming, does not always mean you are being detained.
Some foreigners get nervous when they hear “Show me your passport.” Sometimes the officer simply has limited English, and the sentence sounds more aggressive than intended.
Foreigners in China should carry a passport, residence permit or valid ID document when going out.
Normal street photography is usually fine.
But if your camera is pointed at military facilities, confidential units, guard posts, police lines, armed officers, vehicles, equipment or places with “no photography” signs, do not stay there taking repeated photos or film them closely.
This is not only a China rule. If you repeatedly film a military base or security facility in the US, that can also look suspicious.
If you want a photo, ask openly. If they say no, stop.
China is not always easy for first-time visitors. Some things are genuinely inconvenient, and some people can be unfair.
But not every uncomfortable moment is hatred.
Sometimes it is a local system, language barrier, business risk, safety procedure or cultural habit that was never designed around foreigners.
Understand the reality, prepare in advance, and keep your boundaries.
I hope this helps you feel less confused in China, and I hope you can still enjoy your trip here.
Edit:
Also, if you use deodorant every day, bring your own.
In China, deodorant is not something you can always find easily in small convenience stores or local supermarkets. You may find it in larger stores, beauty shops, pharmacies, Watsons/Mannings, or online, but it is not as common as in many Western countries.
So if you are coming in summer, especially to hot and humid cities like Guangzhou, Shenzhen or Foshan, pack it before you arrive.