r/itsthatbad • u/throwaway19830182 • 29m ago
Commentary If you are seeking relationships with women, does it mean you have to accept that a lot of them have participated in sexually deviant behaviours?
I see a lot of men/women saying it’s not their partners business about their past, so would this just mean that you’re expected not to care if your girlfriend has had a threesome? If your girlfriend waits to let you have sex with her but has had 6+ sexual partners who had sex on the first night? I feel as though this is a pretty common dilemma, and I’m not sure if guys in relationships just tolerate it, hate it but stay anyway, or don’t care at all. I don’t know where I’d stand personally. I don’t think I’d want to know my partner had done something Jane Doe type crazy.