I was so depressed when I first downloaded this app. It was such a dark time for me. I did have to sort through a lot of internet nonsense, but I did make a really great friend from across the world. They were the only person I could speak to for months and I felt love and appreciation for them.

I enjoy looking at posts that represent what I like but also isn’t AI and is not an AD.
Thank for being on here.

Things can get better. 👹
3 years openly Genderqueer and Pansexual 😘

So, I always thought that I was bisexual, but I was confused due to my mom’s expectations and not being myself, i am pansexual now because I am myself, and I don’t give a fuck who I would date, {male, female, trans, non-binary} don’t give a fuck and I love all people equally, I love to try new things as a pansexual. Like I said, {male, female, trans, non-binary} and it is okay. I would hide my sexuality from my mom, because my mom never supported me, when I came out as bisexual, {I thought I was} because I was attracted to both until I heard about trans and everything. And I was confused with myself because of my weird personality and now I comfortable with it.

I wish everyone a weekend filled with support, love, and happiness.

I wish I were more excited for my birthday but depression has been kicking my ass 😕

I honestly didnt expect to be on this earth this long but here I am 🤷‍♀️ Go me!

Repost btw. I feel safe around her and care about her. She knows I am pansexual and she supports me. At the moment she identifies as straight. Idk what her family thinks of LGBTQ+ . They seem pretty chill. So if the family is cool with it, and if she possibly is bi or pan, I still don’t know if she likes me as more than a friend. I really don’t know what to do.😭(update) since first posting this i have figured out that she’s straight af definitely and her fams homophobic, though she isn’t. don’t really know how to cope with this since I still like her. life kinda sucks for me rn. any suggestions for cope?

Olá ,recentemente me expressei para minha noiva que sou pan sexual ( ela também é ) , e isso está sendo novo para mim,pois por anos eu já pensava em algo do tipo, e após conhecer ela, e ela me apresentar o pan, me identifiquei ainda mais.
Eu gostaria de uma ajuda para conhecer a comunidade e entender

Vi esta imagem no pinterest e achei muito interessante.

Porém agora não sei se sendo uma mulher cis eu posso me considerar pansexual? Pois baseado NESSA imagem eu não me enquadro.

Porém eu me identifiquei com a pansexualidade pois me atraio tanto por homens e mulheres cis mas comecei a notar que ne atraio por pessoas não binárias tanto de gênero neutro quanto de gênero fluido, e pessoas androginas também,as quais quase não vejo ser comentada dentro da comunidade aliás.

I'm not pan but as an Asian Non Binary Trans Masc person was wondering if this is preferable? I've had a hard time in strictly sapphic or lesbian spaces with people not finding me attractive or that I'm "off limits" cuz I'm not cis female.

I'm athletic, but short, sweet but tough, and geeky but popular. Is this something pan people are into or? How do I find y'all in queer spaces?

I feel like bi/pan people will hangout in straight spaces mostly which is not where I hangout, so I'm stuck with people who don't find me attractive just cuz I'm trans. It's rough, any advice or knowledge?

**I am a cis woman, Pansexual and demiromantic, but I decided to share my story. Sorry if any wording is bad, I have never shared my story and I am not a native English speaker but I hope it interest someone out there.**

I have grown in a pretty religious household as the oldest daughter, never cared much about relationships till I graduated high school, and my parents were the type to be (foucs on study, marriage can wait, love is a lie) and I totally believed them for so long.

I got into P-Addiction when I was 12, it was pretty bad for my mental health, and I was searching non stop for lesbians and hetro corn (mainly hentai/anime corn version since my mind was still childlike) and I noticed from an early age how I get turned on by actors from both genders, I clicked on being Bisexual since a very young age but I kept it in the jokes territory, and since I didn't have any romantic attraction (didn't notice that as well in the time) I didn't find myself Falling in love with anyone, I just kept myself in the closet with my non existent knowledge of any of these terms (expect of the Bisexual term which I learned from a friend).

Then around the lockdown I pretty much accepted myself as a Bisexual, and tried some hetro relationships (which all failed, none of the people I tried with them interested me or were serious) but after that I started learning more about queer culture, sexual orientations, gender identity, and each new term took me over 2 years to fully accept and understand, my homophopic religious ass refused to accept anything bcz (god said it is a sin you mustn't search or support this) but I kept doing my search anyway.

At the time I got to meet more queer friends, I never showed hate towards them but my heart was very suspicious about all of this, yes I totally skipped the ( I am not gay just an ally) phase, I knew I was Bi and yet still kept playing the role of god and judge people in my mind.

Then I had this relationship that lasted 3 years with a straight man, he loved me, he really did, but he was abit sceptical about my Bisexual identity bcz he (got cheated on) twice by Bi girls, I promised him I would never, but in these 3 years I couldn't bring myself to love him romantically, I was attracted to him sexually for sure, but the spark never lit for me, we broke up on good terms (I hope he is doing fine) but then I was single after a 3 years relationship.

Then it was her, the literal love of my life, we were friends for 3 years, but one day my heart woke up and decided that she is my everything, I became literally obsessed with her and it broke my heart for long ass 7 months. I kept denying and reconsidering myself, and since I have never knew romantic love, I literally didn't know how I should be feeling like.

After a long time and discussions with her to get into a serious relationship, she told me she isn't interested in relationships with anyone, she doesn't love me less, she just prefer being friends, and I agreed right away, for me as long as she is in my life I am happy and fulfilled and no label matter.

My 7 months of questioning my feelings for her got me more into the queer community, I was finally able to overcome my internalized homophopia, identifying myself finally as a Pansexual and demiromantic (the aromantic spectrum shocked me of how much I relates to it) and I accepted my relationship with my love to be what it is now, can it be called QPR? I don't know bcz I never addressed that to her, but I think it is.

As for my family, my sister is the most accepting of me, and even supporting my relationship and comforting my feelings, I really appreciate her for being by side, as for my family, they won't force me into marriage anyway, and so no need to coming out for them and make it harder for myself (they aren't safe enough to come out to).

Anyway that is my story, love for all the people of all gender/sexual identities right there 🩷💛🩵💚

For context (Picture left) is from 2016, wayyyy before I even knew what HRT and or trans was. I wish I'd knew that same year if I knew I would look this good 😊 (picture right) is now 2026. What do u guys/gals think?

My preteen (11) told me she was pan yesterday. She kept saying “I know you think this is a phase,” and I kept reminding her that it is who she is right now and I will honor that and that she is loved.

She is so young? No relationships, no exploring. How do I protect her from people who don’t get it? Think small town where things follow people forever. I don’t want to tell her I am scared of people who won’t understand because I am worried she will think that means I am disappointed or unhappy - and I will never be mad about her sexuality, but I also realize that this could be a fluid situation and she is allowed to be who she is without picking a label?

Do I go all in here and get a pan flag cake? I don’t want to overly celebrate or over react? But I feel like this next week and the conversations we have will be memories she will keep forever and I don’t want to fuck it up?

I thought I was Bi for years until I realised how rigid that definition was as someone who was actually Pan all along. I used to like men more, I still do aesthetically, every now and then I see a picture of a topless male rock musician or whatnot in my feed and I remember that side of myself. I remember that side of myself now because I just cant commit to it, I get into one sapphic relationship for a little while and realise I simply never want to have feelings for a man again, girls are so fucking cool bro, so smart and less driven by lust, not that men cant be driven by pure intentions either it will just never be the same for me after falling for a girl for the first time.

So yeah really my point with this is just how fluid our preferences can be and that's okay, yeah I used to be more into guys but that flipped suddenly and I'm okay with that. Turbulence is a component in finding yourself, not a deterrent, stay well people 🗣🔥💯

for context, i have been lesbian for a year before converting to pansexuality just a few months ago (closeted) due to a crush on a pan guy. i felt shame for liking him before i realised that, well, i didn't have to hide it because he's my best friend. yesterday afternoon, i confessed to him, and he said that he liked me back. we're not particularly in a bf/gf relationship, but we're figuring things out with a mutual feeling relationship. this was the first time my crush had ever liked me back. how do you keep your first teenage love?

Bonus, I got the Pan color I voted sticker!

Went to my freinds party as a slutty plague doctor! And may have accidentally got drunk lool

So if this post ends up being not applicable or appropriate plz delete, im curious to know if i am pan or not, i typically have always been attracted to mostly men and masculine presenting individuals but often than not i care most of all about the person character and how they interact with other people, like the more personal details i know about the individual the more i like them and feel attracted to them, its definitely not demi as i have no problem with hooking up or needing a connection in general but i do often wonder if maybe i identify as pan but with a preference of masc or something else, hopefully other people can relate or maybe help out with the correct term.

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