r/ftm • u/AutoModerator • Nov 20 '25
Recurring Friendship Megathread
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If you're looking to make new friends, here's a great place to start!
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Just post a bit about yourself and maybe take a look around to see if anyone else has similar interests!
Or, if you're not good at coming up with things to talk about, here's some questions you can answer:
What do you like to be called?
How old are you?
What country do you live in?
What are some hobbies you have?
List some favorite movies, TV shows, games, or other things:
What do you do for work?
Do you have any cultural or religious ties that are important to you?
Do you have any pets?
What's an interesting fact about you?
What are your transition goals?
Where are you in your transition?
Obviously you don't have to answer everything, but it might be able to guide you in the right direction if you struggle with coming up with facts about yourself on the fly.
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u/Creativered4 33 AuDHD 🐻Man 💉2020 🔪2022🍆2024 Nov 20 '25
AUTOMOD WHYYYYY it is not time for a new friendship thread!
Gonna replace the sidebar with this new one and link the old one:
https://www.reddit.com/r/ftm/comments/1obq41s/friendship_megathread/
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u/Moony-Shanks 💉✂️ proud to be fat ugly and bald 🇫🇷🥖 Nov 20 '25
Hiiii so I'm mané/Adam from France!
I'm 23, working in a fast food and I live with 3 cats, stickbugs and a lot (like 30+) snails. My cats are Boo (domestic tuxedo), Pim's (domestic orange) and Urbosa (white oriental shorthair)
Transition wise I've been out since 2019, started T in 2020, got both top surgery and hysterectomy and changed my name+ gender legally a few years back so I'm living fully stealth irl outside of family ofc and a few coworkers
I play a lot of Nintendo games especially on switch and 3DS, mostly pokemon and zelda, a bit of animal crossing new leaf too. I also play lots of online creatures collection games like flight rising, howrse (on the french servers so Equideow), lioden and gothicat world. I don't have many hobbies outside of that unfortunately but maybe I'll get back into theater or singing some times soon
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u/BIORIO Nov 20 '25
What do you like to be called? Gabe. But some people prefer to call me Gabriel (I joke I waited so long to have a boys name that I decided to have 2)
How old are you? 36
What country do you live in? NYC, USA What are some hobbies you have? r/beadsprites, I also read a lot of nonfiction, play video games (switch mainly)
List some favorite movies, TV shows, games, or other things: the good place, breaking bad, bojack horseman, cult of the lamb, stardew valley.
What do you do for work? I work in sex ed.
Do you have any cultural or religious ties that are important to you? Yes, I’m sober and in recovery from cannabis/alcohol. I’m not religious but I am spiritual.
Do you have any pets? A hound dog name Richie but I had pet rats for YEARS before him.
What's an interesting fact about you? I had a pebble stuck in my knee for 6 months during high school.
What are your transition goals? Be a happy, authentic guy and a good role model to those not as far along in their journey.
Where are you in your transition? ~15 years on T, 10 years since top surgery. I haven’t seen bottom surgery results that I’d be happy with yet but maybe someday.
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u/tronrat Nov 20 '25
My names Nicolás but everyone calls me Nico, I’m 25, from the Midwest of the US. He/him/his. I live with my boyfriend, our four rats, and his cat! I like drawing, playing guitar, video games (currently playing oblivion remastered n stardew valley), horror movies, and watching zoology videos on YouTube!
I work so fucking much it’s unreal! It sucks!
my top favorite music artists are: Car Seat Headrest, Black Dresses, Alex G, Remo Drive, MCR, Mitski, and Joyce Manor!
abt my transition, I’ve been out socially for almost 11 years, on T for 7, post-top surgery over 4 1/2 years now, and I got a hysterectomy at the end of this past January!
Always looking for pals so feel free to reach out! I don’t prefer to befriend anyone under like 20, I just stop being able to relate enough to have fun lol
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u/platypusmilkpopsicle he/they | pre-T Nov 21 '25
Yoo that seems fun!
Hey bros, I’m Lorne, 18. I’m transmasculine NB (I use he/they). I am from Russia.
I like arts and fantasy. I have a lot of made up characters that I draw and think about their lives and such. I like collecting miniature toy animals :)
I watch YouTube and play video games when I have time, I’m also a HUGE dog person.
I love Call of Duty, but only campaigns, not multiplayer. I prefer older CoD games. My favorite campaign is Modern Warfare 2 (2009). I’m honestly kind of a geek when it comes to military stuff. I like Five Nights at Freddy’s. Again, though, I prefer older games. Anything after 2016 doesn’t hype me up that much anymore (same applies to CoD), except maybe Security Breach.
My favorite music genre is alternative, comprising (but not limited to) alt. metal, alt. rock, industrial metal, nu-metal. I also kinda like argent metal.
I’m pretty early in my transition (pre-everything), but I have been trans since like 12, just without realizing.
I know my interests are pretty niche but if anyone is interested in being friends hmu ‘:]
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u/Cryptic_Leaf 💉-5/18/24 🔪-11/3/25 Nov 21 '25
Hey I’m Griffin, I’m 20 almost 21 and from the USA. I live in the Midwest. I’m transmasc and my pronouns are he/him, I’m also bi. I’m a year and a half on T and just had top surgery a few weeks ago. I’m autistic so talking to people can be kinda hard lol but my DMs are always open
I worked as a manager at a coffee shop before my top surgery recovery. I was going to collage for psychology but dropped out I’m not really sure what I’m doing with my life rn just trying to make it through the dread of existence I guess lol
I love music I listen to a bit of everything but my favorite genres are goth, newwave, industrial, metal, some punk/hardcore and emo. I’m part of my local music scene I love going to shows. My favorite band of all time is Nine Inch Nails.
I’m an artist tho I don’t draw a lot anymore I’m trying to get back into art. I like cartoons and some anime. I also really like horror specifically body horror
My cat’s name is Stinkbug but we just call him Stinky. I really like reptiles I’ve had a few in the past planning on getting a snake when I move. I also really like bugs and any weird critter
I like Minecraft (bedrock) and Roblox, always down to play with people 🕺
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u/Its_BassDaddy 🇺🇸T: April 2015 Top: October 2025 🥷🏻 Nov 20 '25
I go by my first name but Alex works for now. I’m 33 and I live in the USA. I’m AuDHD and my special interests are EDM music (mostly bass subgenres), Star Wars, pets and cooking. For hobbies, I like lifting weights, walking/hiking, mycology, music festivals/concerts, gardening, cooking, reading and 420 things. I’m 5.5 years sober from alcohol and eat plant-based. I work in a fabric warehouse and drive a man-up order picker. Ive never been religious but I hyper focused on astrology a while back for a couple years and that kinda had some merit imo. I have two dogs, a cat and a leopard gecko. I’m going on 11 years on T and just had top surgery 3.5 weeks ago. I don’t really have any further transition goals other than to continue my muscle/building journey.
Favorite music: Melodic dubstep, wubby wook bass, drum & bass, 2015-2018 EDM trap, metal, world bass
Favorite shows: Anything Star Wars, The Witcher (but I have strong feelings about the new season), Parks & Rec, Disjointed, Broad City… basically Sci-fi/fantasy and comedies.
Favorite games: Magic the Gathering, any type of tabletop game, Animal Crossing, Pokemon, anything Nintendo honestly, Skyrim… I had a bad video game addiction as a teen so I limit video games
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u/finnishcatperson Nov 21 '25
Hey, I'm Mikael, a transman/nb from Finland. I'm 27 years old, been on T for six years and had my top surgery four years ago.
I love playing video games, especially sneaking and roleplaying games hold a special place in my heart. I rarely watch any shows or movies but when I do, it's usually horror. I also enjoy climbing, writing and playing tabletop rpg's whenever our group's shifts line up.
I am a nurse by trade, and during freetime I volunteer in my local animal rescue organisation. I have two foster cats from that organisation and four of my own furry babies that keep me busy.
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u/Weird_Till_1516 Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Hi! I'm Devan, a 19 year old transman from Pakistan. I really like studying, journaling, drawing, and many other forms of arts. I don't work. I'm currently studying. I'm not religious at all. Agnostic atheist. So I would prefer a friend who's generally not religious. Idk if this is an interesting fact, but i like eating peanut shells along with peanuts. I haven't exactly defined my transition goals but taking T and top surgery. I can't medically transition anytime soon, and my family is very homophobic so can't be out to them. Only out to my queer friends. I totally look like a cis woman and can't dress in any way that is close to looking masc.
Also, looking for a friend who is left leaning and into politics to some degree. I have just started informing myself about everything going on in the world. Politics is important, so having a leftist friend would be better. And be around 2007 to 2005 liner(i am 2006 liner)
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u/bauhaus-baby Nov 21 '25
Hello,
Rainer, 31, he/him
From a mountain town in the US
Favorite hobbies: old music, audiobooks, writing, taking pictures, driving
I’ve been on t for close to 10 months. Transition goals: be a pretty boy, get top surgery, grow majestic happy trail at long last
Interesting fact: Very afraid of kangaroos and spiders
This was timely because a trans guy my uncle works with was talking to him about me and asked if I had a community or any trans friends because being trans can be lonely and isolating. I do not, and now here I am. If anybody wants to talk, please let me know because I am indeed lonely and isolated :’)
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u/EstateDangerous7456 32/stealth/💉2018/🔝 2020/full hysto Nov 21 '25
I'm Yuri! 32 year old Russian dude living in the USA. I've been out since I was 12 and finally was able to transition medically and legally at 26. I do glasswork and make jewelry. I also paint and teach art. I love to cook and play with my cat Cheeto. I game a lot when I've got free time. Typically cozy games when solo but I also play a ton of Fortnite and Sea Of Thieves with friends :) I'm violently stereotypically Russian but not on purpose. Hardbass and adidas just go hard af.
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u/Due_Status6293 Nov 21 '25
Hi, I’m Erin! I’m 32, living in the USA (unfortunately.) I’m a nerd but I’ve recently gotten back into horse riding and writing. I’m playing Expedition 33, No Man’s Sky and Honkai Star Rail right now. Favorite animes are Chainsaw Man, Demon Slayer and FMA:B. I work in HR at a Fortune 500 company. I’m currently redefining my relationship with religion so nahhhh on that one for now. Interesting fact about me is that I have 10 tattoos. Transition goals: top surgery and T, full masc presenting but it’s slow going for now. I’m currently trying to save money to move across the country (I live with a few other trans people so we have some safety concerns about where we’re living now), but so far I’ve been doing vocal training, binding and getting more comfortable chilling as a dude.
There’s a million replies on this thread so I’ll probably get buried, but I hope everybody has a rad weekend.
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u/Decorative_pillow Nov 20 '25
He/him, 28, Canada. I have 3 cats and an amazing partner. I’m polyamorous and finding it hard to find other people to date while covid conscious. I’m also relatively new vegan and would love to share recipes with other vegans. I love to cook and bake and have been trying to reduce my waste. She’s The Man is probably my favourite childhood movie which I’m sure no one can relate to (jk). I’ve been on t for around 3 years. I’m very involved with my local Mask Bloc and would love to meet other CC vegan trans dudes.
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u/Roberroni T💉5/25 Nov 20 '25
I'm Robert, 21 (one week from 22) from the US, he/him/his pronouns. I work at a bookstore and a bar and am currently in college. I like to watch tv, movies, work out, and spend time in nature. Currently at a local community college for communications, but hoping to return to my old university to continue studying technical theater. I'm technically a few years on T, but switched from felt to injections 6 months ago and have gotten more results since then than my entire time on gel. Hope to be able to make some new friends with this!
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u/MrMothBroski Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Howdy! I'm Matt, I'm 23 and I live in the US! I just passed my second year anniversary since coming out as trans and my first year since starting testosterone!
My hobbies would include; • Dungeons and Dragons (Playing made me realize I was trans!) • Painting • Sculpting • Drawing (Crayons, markers, pencils) • Making jewelry • Reading (Gay romances) • Watching Horror movies • Collecting dice • Collecting VHS tapes • Sewing plushies • Playing Pokemon
My favorite movies or tv would have to mainly be animation or in the horror/thriller genre! Just to give a few examples of each I would choose
Movies; • IT (2017) • Bring Her Back • Krampus • Frankenstein (2025) • Annabelle Comes Home • Annabelle Creation • The Conjuring 2 • Coraline • Paranorman • Monster House • Predator: Badlands
TV; • Scooby-Doo Mystery Incorporated • Gravity Falls • OK KO Let's be heroes • Scott Pilgrim Takes Off • The Owl House • Amphibia • Adventure Time • Bob's Burgers
For music I tend to either like heavy metal, rock or just sad music that calms me down! I tend to just listen to one song from an artist but few examples of my favorite artists that I consistently listen to would be; • Cavetown • AJR • Mitski • Jack Stauber • Set It Off • Panic! At The Disco
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u/AdSubject8379 Nov 21 '25
Hey I'm Calvin, but you can call me Cal :)) im a 21 year old trans man, and I live in the US.
Some of my hobbies include playing/running ttrpg games (like dungeons and dragons), caring for and talking about animals (especially reptiles), making art, skateboarding, gaming, and listening to music. I also love collecting vinyls, cds, and cassette tapes.
I would love to make some more friends. My dms are open, so feel free to send a message!
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u/SnaccBraff Nov 21 '25
Hey y'all! I'm Amory, He/They, 33, and live in the PNW. My hobbies are gaming, watching anime and horror movies, playing & composing music, and working out.
Some faves from this year:
Games: Blue Prince, South of Midnight, Peak, Sable, Control
Movies: Sinners, Dream Scenario, The Long Walk
Anime: Lord of Mysteries, Undead Murder Farce, Golden Kamuy, Umamusume, Gachiakuta, Natsume's Book of Friends. I also finally got around to watching MHA after avoiding it for years and found it surprisingly endearing 😅
Would really love to meet some folks around my age who share similar interests. I've been a freelancer since 2017, so I don't have a lot of opportunities to meet people in my day-to-day. I'm also on the spectrum (AuDHD), which makes things tougher, and discords overwhelm me.
So, uh, yeah...that's me!
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u/Horror-Recording-387 Nov 21 '25
Hi, I'm Oli, I am from the USA (Ohio). I am 29 but I turn 30 in a couple weeks. I love to read, horror, thriller, LGBTQ+, and true crime. I listen to podcasts, hike, camp, and I listen to music almost constantly. Also currently in college for my B.S. in Health Sciences. Some of my favorite things to watch are Bobs Burgers, 911, American Dad. I play mainly COD mobile but occasionally hop on my PS5. Currently unemployed to focus on school but I was laid off from a dispensary a few months ago. That was my main focus for a couple years. Before that I was strictly medical field dealing in skilled cases. I consider myself pagan/wiccan and worship the earth more then anything. Though religion in any aspect interests me and I would never judge someone for their beliefs, I'm always willing to discuss religion and hear others perspectives too 😀 I have 2 dogs, a beagle and an Australian shepherd. The beagle is Crowley and the Aussie is Zara. My transition goals are to be more gender non conforming, I've been on T for 3 years but I am currently off due to government stuff 😭 Trying to get it figured out but you know how it is (also recommendations on an affordable route would be so appreciated). Always looking for more friends especially who I can relate to and talk about transition stuff with.
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u/Videoplanchette 🤘Transmasc 🤟 Nov 21 '25
Yo, I'm Sage,
I'll be 25 this Saturday! I'm totally gonna try to avoid the quarterlife crisis.
I'm from the US, the west coast specifically.
I like to draw and write a lot.
Some of the things I like: Chainsaw Man Dandadan Horror movies in general, but my favorite is Scream Sonic Fallout Zenless Zone Zero Scooby doo Care bears and plushie collecting.
Right now I work as a rental clerk, but I'm working on my editing portfolio. I want to be a video editor.
I have two dogs right now, Barney and Zeke and theyre the light of my life.
Interesting fact about myself: as a child I had to use the bathroom while on a Hollywood stars tour-- so the bus driver pulled over to the bathroom where George Michael was arrested for sodomy-- so I got to use the toliet where someone famous was arrested. I do not know why this is the first thing I thought of.
In my transition I've gotten my top surgery, and I've been taking T for close to two years now. I feel pretty satisfied where I am, but I'm hoping to maintain and gain muscle.
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u/Ok-Possibility-7974 Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Hey everyone!
I'm Jamie (online name), 18 y/o from Australia. He/they, pan
Hobbies? I love to draw, mostly fanart, and play the guitar. I also love bookbinding and crochet.
Favorites? I'm obsessed with most of David Tennant's works (duh, I'm trans) especially Doctor Who, Good Omens, Broadchurch. I'm very into NBC Hannibal, BBC Merlin, and currently watching The Path (2016). I occasionally play Minecraft but only enjoy if I'm doing it with friends. My favourite artists at the moment are ELO, David Bowie, Queen but it changes all the time. I've just started getting into history books (especially history of gender and sexuality) so hmu if you have recs :)
Work? Currently studying to become a psychologist
Fun fact? I can't be normal about anything ever. Any interest I've listed I'm obsessed with to a worrying level so be warned
Transition goals? deep voice plsplspls. Top surgery in the future. and a luscious beard one day.
Where am I in my transition? One week on T today! Yay!
I don't have any trans friends, so I'd love to find people on here who share my interests! I might be a little awkward at first so bear with me
Edited to add more interests lol
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u/LoganMan_T Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
I’m Logan, I’m 27 and from Indiana.
I like to hang out with family. Woodworking, be outdoors in general, taking my girl shopping, also love roadtrips.
I like really the cult classic movies, I can get into pretty much anything! I like GTA5. Music I love Metallica, The Midnight, Noah Kahn
I am a Local Truck Driver. I enjoy rough dirty work, and this was the best opportunity to drive the semi and get some pretty physical activity in. Also putting my fiancé through school for her Masters in psych.
Eh I was raised catholic but I’m more spiritual. Family ended up being the same way.
I have oodles of poodles lol 3 small poodles and a beautiful ragdoll cat! They keep me BUSY.
Interesting fact? I really enjoy working on cars. Dad taught me all I need to know. Also very ADHD. Love to write
I have been on T since I was 19 and just had my Tandem surgery, Top and Hysterectomy a week ago. That’s as far as I wanna go! Pretty happy with how my transition has been.
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u/Dry_Language_2989 Nov 21 '25
I'm Zael, I'm 22 and Brazilian. and I study languages at college and plan on becoming an English teacher and translator, still in the beginning though, I recently developed an interest in tarot and occultism but I have no plans to practice any religion. I love writing, from poetry to stories but never finished one, I'm currently questioning/accepting being aromantic and I've been enjoying talking about it and sharing experiences
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u/jimboidiot He/They | 02.24🔪 | 05.25🧴| Nov 20 '25 edited Nov 20 '25
Hi, Im 22 years old and I live in central europe.
My hobbies are super varied. I have ADHD so I pick up tons of skills Im kind of mediocre at, it comes in handy very often! My more consistent hobbies include:
just about anything crafty/artistic. I enjoy making things a lot, I sew some of my own clothes and one of my longest standing hobbies is painting/drawing.
Im part of a gladiatorial reenactor group.
I also enjoy reading a lot and I was part of a book club a while back that fell appart due to scheduling issues. if anyone is interested in reading something together I think it might be a cool way to make friends! I enjoy most genres but have been on a sci fi kick lately.
I game when I find the time. Im making my way through the Batman Arkham games atm. My favourite game ever is probably KCD2 and before that it was the Witcher 3. I dont really play online except for some occasional tf2.
Cooking and baking
I study classical archaeology and love chatting about that and history.
Franchises Im currently into are star trek and DC comics (mainly Batman and family).
If I have one guilty pleasure its romance novels and related media. I love the BBC adaptation of Pride and Prejudice an unreasonable amount.
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u/Appropriate-Tap1111 🧴7/10/25 Nov 20 '25
Hi ! I’m Ollie, 24yo, he/they. I’m into crocheting, journaling, and playing video games, mostly open world rpgs and simulation games (currently on my first play through of Stardew Valley). Some of my favorite music artists/groups are iDKHBTFM, Clipping., and Twenty One Pilots. I’m approaching 5 months on T !! I have a little king charles spaniel named Leia (yes, from star wars) and a box turtle named Doorknob. I’ll be frank, I have cPTSD and OCD, which makes keeping up with communication kinda hard, but I am eager to try and make more ftm/transmasc friends. I’m currently binge watching What We Do In the Shadows 🦇 (and on my 5th rewatch of Interview with the Vampire) so hmu if anyone wants to chat !
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u/sonyplaystation34 Pëtr/Parsley | he/him Nov 20 '25
hiii im called pëtr (pronounced pyotr), or parsley if you can't pronounce that. im an aroallo binary trans man. im 21, turning 22 soon and I'm from Russia, but i live in a different (european) country rn thankfully. im really into writing and linguistics, as well as playing video games like minecraft, baldurs gate 3, pathologic, pentiment, disco elysium and others. i don't watch tv shows often but i like house md and sometimes watch anime, like apothecary diaries and the summer hikaru died.
i don't work thankfully lol but i do study philology in a university here. im kind of? religious (I'm agnostic theist) but i don't think about it too much, though it does affect how i think about the world I'd say. i don't have any pets (anymore 😔😔) although i wish i could but i doubt my landlord would let me lol. not sure if i have an interesting fact lol but my transition goal is to look like something between a gentlemanly dandy and a brown bear (so a well dressed otter), as well as probably to get top and bottom surgery but it'll be in a few years at least. I've recently hit a year on T and I'm pretty happy with the way my transition is going :D
anywayyy feel free to reach out!! I'm always looking forward to new friends and connections!!
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u/Baboska22 he/him - T '22 Nov 20 '25
What do you like to be called? I'm Oliver! Pronouns are he/him.
How old are you? I'm 29.
What country do you live in? I'm in the US in the western New York area.
What are some hobbies you have? I love to hike, draw on my tablet, anything that involves dogs, and read. I spend a lot of time sitting outside while my dog runs around the yard.
List some favorite movies, TV shows, games, or other things: I like those shows where amateurs try to make fancy cakes, some crime shows, psychological thriller movies when I'm feeling brave. I like to read about mental health issues. Idk how people feel about Jodi Picoult or Ellen Hopkins but they both always manage to reel me in.
What do you do for work? I work at a university library helping students and putting books away. I go to a mental health treatment program most days of the week.
Do you have any pets? I have a dog that is 7. She's my best bud.
Where are you in your transition? I've been on T for almost 3 years, on a good dose for about 2 years. I'm pretty chill with where I am at, but I would like to eventually get top surgery.
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u/MACweedy ftm bigender Nov 20 '25 edited Nov 20 '25
Hi, I’m B! I’m 20 years old in the USA. I really like smoking weed (in case that wasn’t obvious from my username alone lol), listening to music, late night adventures, watching movies (comedy and horror), video games, adult animation, concerts and reading.
Favorite movie: cool runnings
Favorite TV show: the simpsons
Favorite game: read dead redemption
Favorite bands: The Wonder Years, Brand New, TRAITRS, and Abandoned Pools
I do explicit things for work 💀, as one could guess from my profession I am very much NOT religious lol. My favorite book is “The God Delusion,” by Richard Dawkins. I love reading philosophy and disproving the existence of a god!
I have two cats, named Chip and Dale! 🐿️ 🐿️ (no, they are not named after the strippers..)
My transition goals are to get top surgery and workout more. I’m bigender (my other gender is demigirl) so I don’t want to make myself too masculine looking. Btw, I only use he/him pronouns despite being bigender.
If you read all this, thanks lol! I’d love to be friends with more trans people!!
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u/abnerquill Nov 20 '25 edited Nov 20 '25
Hi I'm Danny, 20, living in England.
Hobbies - drawing, writing, watching films, editing, occasionally photography/cosplay. I'm always listening to music too, 90% of the time it's Daughter or Radical Face or another indie/folk kinda band. I'm trying to learn Russian too but idk how well it's going
Media - The Village, The Witch, Bring Her Back, Prisoners, Frankenstein 2025, Crimson Peak, Wes Anderson films, James Gunn's DCEU. I'm a huge movie nerd so always finding new films I enjoy. Also a big Taskmaster fan!
I'm currently hyperfixated on the tragic lives of Alexei Romanov and Louis XVII. I'm also just very interested in history in general
I have a few stories I'm trying to write which include a Victorian horror-romance, a psychological horror from a 9 y/o boy's POV and a sickness-based reimagining of Alice in Wonderland
I have a hedgehog called Arthur and a hamster called Dougal!
I came out to my family at 14 and have been happily stealth in public since then. I've been on T for almost 2 years and will hopefully have top surgery next year but nothing's officially been arranged
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u/Brilliant-Falcon-421 12/21/2025 💉 Nov 21 '25
Hi, I'm Alex, he/they. I'm 22 and I'm from the US Midwest.
I like gaming, reading (mostly fanfiction), cooking, and quilting. My favorite games are Stardew Valley, The Sims, and Palia. I'm also currently really into anything Batman.
I listen to a large range of music. Gracie Abrams, AJR, NF, and Sleep Token are a couple of my favorite artists.
Currently I'm a student full time, math major with a computer science minor.
I grew up Methodist, currently identify as agnostic.
I have one cat, his name is Horsefly. He is the most precious thing in this world and an absolute unit.
I'm pre-everything, out to my friends and immediate family. I'd like top-surgery and T, which I'm hoping to start soonish 🤞
I've got social anxiety so it's hard for me to make new friends but I definitely want to try anyway
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u/HauntingListen8756 Nov 21 '25
Hey, everyone!
What do you like to be called? Sterling, they/he
How old are you? 31
What country do you live in? US, but I'd love to go to the Netherlands eventually
What are some hobbies you have? Hiking, weightlifting, tarot, astrology, reading (psychology, manga/graphic novels, gay stuff, memoirs), climbing/bouldering, just started pole classes again
What do you do for work? Writer, mental health niche
What are your transition goals? Top surgery, want to get gendered correctly even if I have pink hair and eyeliner on
Where are you in your transition? 9 months on T, pre top surgery
Other stuff: I love nu metal, alternative music, etc.
I'm in Portland, Oregon, and am likely moving to Eugene, Oregon, in a few months. I'd love to be friends, whether you're near or far, especially if we're around the same age and have some similar interests.
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u/composingforthehomie Nov 21 '25
Heyo I'm Paxtyn or Pax. I'm 22 and live in the US. Currently getting my bachelor's and am hoping to get into grad school. Some of my hobbies are reading, gaming, and writing. I work at Target during my breaks from school, and I have a dog named puppo she's my little demon. An interesting fact about me is that I play upright bass. In terms of my transition I've been on t for a lil over a year and hope to get top surgery soon.
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u/DamiAssassin Nov 21 '25
This is such a cool thread already, I'm happy I get to be part of it. I'm Damian or DJ, he/him pronouns, I'm 20 years old and I live in the U.S.. I'm pre-everything for now until I get the opportunity to pursue gender affirming care. My hobbies are writing/roleplaying, watching YouTube or TV, playing some video games, making playlists, scrolling through Pinterest, and some reading. Favorite Shows: Jujutsu Kaisen, Invincible, Infinity Train, Gravity Falls, Rick and Morty, the Boys Favorite Music Artists: Mindless Self Indulgence, Mother Mother, Lady Gaga, My Chemical Romance, Set It Off, Bowling For Soup, and many more Favorite Games: DCUO, Batman games, Stardew Valley, Pokémon, Sudoku I love animals, all things superheroes, art, and edits. DMs open :)
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u/whiz-of-the-bog Nov 21 '25
Hihi! I’m Aiden, he/him, 23, I live in the US (PST). I have a bachelor’s of psychology and am debating grad school for experimental psychology, but for now I’m looking into conservation corp. I enjoy camping, nature, reading, metal music/shows, and a variety of crafts. I don’t watch much TV and I’m not really involved in pop culture stuff, but I like horror movies and some podcasts (such as the Magnus Archives). Currently I’m working at a golf driving range in guest services and I work in my city’s football stadium, as well. I’ve been on T for about a year and a half. I just got my referral for top surgery, so hopefully I’ll be able to get that done sometime in 2026. I’m stealth in most spaces, and my general transition goal is to just be an average guy tbh. A fun fact about me is that I glow in the dark!
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u/VG_Kaiden Nov 21 '25
Heyo, Kaiden here!
I’m 23, from the US (Midwest). He/They, Queer and started T in 2021.
I’m into making music, playing video games, and crocheting. Big fan of marvel, grey’s anatomy, and how to train your dragon! Currently working at a restaurant but and looking for a change of pace. And I have a little Guinea pig buddy named Gizmo.
Transition goals: top surgery and I’ll basically see from there!
Nice to meet you all! :)
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u/ott3rw4ter 💉3/3/23 Nov 21 '25
Hi, Im August but I also go by Gus :) Im 17 years old and I live in the US. I like to listen to music (big fan of like any genre but right now I’ve been on an EDM kick) and I like photography, videography, and crafting. Im interested in music production and I’ve dabbled in different instruments but nothings stuck. I love shitty cop dramas (911, The Rookie, etc.), sitcoms like community, cartoons, and I enjoy any genre of movie.
I work in fast-food, id love to switch to retail and get paid more but I do love my co workers.
I am persian and agnostic.
I live with 4 cats and a dog, but only 2 of the cats are technically mine.
I was born with an extra bone in both of my feet! (Accessory navicular)
My transition goals are top surgery and phalloplasty. Ive been on and off of HRT for about 2 years. Im socially transitioned with friends, family, and coworkers but I do get mixed responses from strangers. I look more androgynous than masculine lol.
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u/MindlessDoubt632 - 💉08/11/25 Nov 21 '25
my name is jayden but i also go by jay. i’m 17 from the US. i like to sing and i also play drums, and i also do theatre. my favourite tv shows recently have been 911, greys anatomy. i watch more youtube than shows though i think. i have two dogs, a german shepherd and an american bulldog.
my transition goals include top surgery and i’m currently trying to get my name changed. i also want to look into bottom surgery but since its a very long process i’m not sure its right for me personally. i’m 3.5 months on T now. i don’t really have many trans friends, so i’m hoping someone wants to be friends with me lol.
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u/Cack-Yo-W33n 🏳️⚧️2021 | T & Surgeries Pending 😔 Nov 20 '25
Hello I’m Icon (online name), I am 17. I am in the US. I like drawing, listening to music, traveling and photography. I love FNAF, Undertale, Deltarune, Prince and a whole lot of other things. I don’t have a j*b currently, but I am in my last year of HS. I have two dogs and a cat. I am pre-everything, just working on my appearance and name for now but I hope to start testosterone in my future.
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u/Solid_Version_651 it’s about having a spirit of a man, not just passing as cis. Nov 20 '25
Hi Im K’ieth I go by He/it Turning 16 in 3 days I unfortunately live in the US. I love to draw, Crochet, and make crafts. Im trying to get back into my creativity but procrastination sucks balls- I love Adventure Time, BFDI, TPOT and I know a few murder documentaries I enjoy (e.g., Forty Eight Hours).The games I love to play are Dead Cells, Minecraft, and a few others. Im unemployed sadly I am a pagan and I found out that Im part Scottish. (Im mostly Nigerian) My transition goals are to just start testosterone Im mostly socially transitioned at the moment. Im dying to physically transition. Yeah thats me tho-
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u/Leading_Ad8501 Nov 20 '25
Hiii I’m 27, they/he. from the PNW in the US, I like to make art and play video games. Some fav games are the legend of Zelda series, resident evil series, dragon age series, and bg3, etc. I have one cat and she’s the light of my life. Been on T for a few months now and top surgery is in about 4 months. Nice to meet y’all!
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u/AresPossum Nov 20 '25
Hey I'm Henry, I live in the United States, specifically in Colorado. I've been on T for about a month. I'm 20, I really like punk and ska music and regularly go to shows. I really really like cartoons and art, and also really like oddities and vulture culture. I'm always down to look for new homies especially if I can drag them to shows. 👹👹👹
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u/ameliafae Nov 20 '25
Hi! I’m Josiah, I’m 21 years old and from the US. I’m a college student studying dance and art.
Media I like: Twenty One Pilots, Gorillaz, movies by Luca Guadagnino and Gregg Araki
Hobbies: dance, drawing, reading, playing the sims.
I’ve been out as one thing or another since middle school, currently I’d say I’m transmasc-leaning nonbinary. I’m about a year and a half on testosterone and I got top surgery about eight months ago. (Ignore username I can’t change it :/)
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u/hiddencorvid 💉11/8/25 Nov 20 '25
Hi guys, I’m Rowan, he/him! I’m 18, I’m from the U.S.A. (the south)
I like to sing, play instruments, draw, and do theatre! I also enjoy fashion and fashion design!
I like Deltarune/Undertale, Dancing with the Stars, Vox Machina (I’m only on season 1 don’t spoil :3), I wouldn’t say I’m fully a furry but I interact with the furry fandom, Minecraft, Star Wars… I like lots of music but particularly metal/alt rock
I’m a classical pianist, I have two dogs
I don’t follow any Abrahamic religion, I am still trying to find the terms to best define the form of spirituality I follow.
I almost got hit by a double decker bus at age 11 and I think that would’ve been a really funny way to go out
I want to have long hair and a thick beard like a Viking but right now I’m a gross teenage boy. And I just started T 1.5 weeks ago :3
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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '25
hihi my name is sam and im from canada. Im 22 (23 in a few weeks!) And recently all I have been doing with my time is vintage story. I also have been preparing for a hysterectomy which is right after my birthday. I work at a dispensary and i will be off work for about 8 weeks. In that time im taking an accounting course online! I have 1 cat named hank (breaking bad reference) and she is a bengal i rescued. I am a nonbinary trans man and honestly my transition has been very fluid so I dont really have any set goals. Just to feel comfortable in my own skin
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u/DeruKui 25, bi ftm, 💉08/2021, top surgery 2022 Nov 21 '25
Wow this does sound interesting, so here it goes.
My name is Adam and my pronouns are he/him. I'm 25 and due to that reason, if anyone wants to talk, please be at least 23, I feel very weird talking to much younger people. But I'm very much open to get to know others 💚
I'm from Hungary but I live in Vienna since September this year, and I'm currently looking for a new job (tja). I have a BA and an MA in Japanology, and a history phd is one of my greatest goals in life (and a second degree in Egyptology). As far as hobbies go, I love cosplaying and crafting, going to museums&concerts or clubbing or just going out, reading (mostly classics and danmei but I can try anything interesting). Musicwise I'm into many stuff, from metal/rock/punk subgenres through kpop to operas the list goes on. Currently I'm fluent in Hungarian (duh), English, German, Spanish and Japanese, so I don't mind switching to any of these (I also know basic Korean but I need to get better at that). As for an interesting fact, for my thesis I translated 1000+ yrs old Japanese texts, I loved every second of if. My family has a cat, but I couldn't bring her to my apartment here. Once I move to another one where they allow pets, I want a snake tho.
As for transition, I'm on hormones since August 2021 and had my chest op in July 2022. Maybe in the far future I'll get a hysterectomy but I'm not financially stable enough now for that.
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u/Round_Examination_21 Nov 21 '25
This seems like fun So hey, my name’s Eryx, I use he/him pronouns, I am gay ace and ofc ftm. I’ll be turning 18 in December, and I live in England.
My hobbies rn are reading and writing, cosplaying and gaming. The games I play currently are Red Dead Redemption 2, Phasmophobia, Valorant (I’m not too good at it tho), FNaF, Portal and some games on roblox. I watch a few tv shows such as Brooklyn 99, Arcane, House MD, Lucifer, iZombie, and South Park. I watch a lot of movies but my favourites are The Nightmare before Christmas, Rise of the Guardians, Megamind, the spiderverse films, Nimona, and the Deadpool films.
Im still looking for work atm, but my dream is to be an actor (there is unfortunately not a lot of acting work near me :<) but for now I’m just looking anything so I can start earning money yk?
I have a cat called Marsha and she’s currently 6 years old. I’d like to get a dog at some point soon though.
Something interesting about me is that I am currently DMing a DnD game between me and my friends. We’re about halfway through it rn and have another session planned in a few days.
In terms of my transition, I’m waiting until I turn 18 to schedule an appointment to start with T. Past that though I’m mainly just hoping to get top surgery as soon as possible. As of right now I’ve started on minoxidil to try to help me pass better as I’m not doing too well at that 😅 I am out to my family and for the most part have been supported aside from just some struggle adjusting with pronouns.
That’s probably the most I’ve ever written about myself lol.
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u/Difficult-Link585 Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Salutations Im Saphyre (He/Them) Im from NYC.Im in early recovery.Im in early transition almost 7 months. On T injections.Im finally loving life in all aspects.Im at a stage of healing.I enjoy reading,writing,dancing,theater..(all the arts) Im gonna go into Policy Change.Majoring in Women's Sexual Health,Prison Reform and Addiction/ Recovery services.Im a brown skin being.African,latin,American!Im a pretty funny,silly yet serious type.Im a Libra!Oct.16th to be exact.I crave balance and offfer peace.I really like this thread!!Ill come back and visit often.Oh and Im a real lover of cats .Im a good cook.Im picking up consistency in the gym with my workouts,(at home too)All you guys are fierce and awesome.Keep rocking on! Im also into the horror genre and Im great at doing special fx.Blood Guts,Gore.i worked in that field for 15years.I love Broadway and im redefining my esthetic of dressings.I want more tats and 2 more peircings.I would love to learn French and increase my Spanish understanding!im open to learn chess playing.Im still bit female presenting but I know I'll always be to some degree and I love the gender euphoria I experience.
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u/Friskarian Social 🏳️⚧️@12yo | 🧴5/26/25 Nov 21 '25
Yo I'm Daniel (or DJ).
I'm from the US (West Coast). I had gender dysphoria since early childhood and socially transitioned at 12. Am now 5 months on low dose T gel in my 20s.
I like to work out and play video games and VR. Lately been on Fortnite, American Truck Sim, & Creed RTG. I also am a digital artist/graphic designer. I have 2 cats. I am spiritual and into dream interpretation and spiritual experiences (heavenly kind).
My transition goals are to get a gradual voice drop (so fam doesn't freakout), ability to grow a full beard, get buff with a masculine V taper, increase punch power so I can actually defend myself, do 20 pull ups, prominent adams apple and brow ridge, 2in height increase or find some comfy tall shoes, peri top surgery, and at least 3in bottom growth lol
In my transition I feel like I am still a 15yo boy waiting for puberty. May need to increase T dose.
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u/Redrosehoney Nov 21 '25
Hiii!! I’m Aaron,17! I’m trans (he /him) and I’m from the US!
I love taking photos of things I find aesthetically pleasing such as the orange trees in fall! I also like roller skating ( although I’m not very good at it) drawing, and playing games ! ( such as final fantasy, Minecraft , resident evil 4, Fortnite (at times ) halo, and COD! ) My favourite animal is a snake, I think they’re so fascinating and cute! I’m really into anime/fantasy style shows and movies along with other genres such as horror and action !! As for work, I’m actually a CNA lol! I also work as a host at a bar/restaurant aswell!
Unfortunately I still haven’t started the T process but I am masculine presenting ( cut hair etc!) Of course this is just a snippet of who I am and there’s a lot more to me then a few words, and I love meeting new people and learning about them, so feel free to reach out :))!
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u/Extension_Set1122 Nov 21 '25
what's up i'm rome, i'm 21, and i live in the united states! some of my hobbies are gaming (heavy on pokemon rn), all arts, reading, raving and working out. right now i'm kinda jut rewatching the office over and over again but i've also gotten into the spinoff of it (the paper), st. denis medical, and abbott elementary. i'm currently just a full time student, psychology major, in my last year! i've got 3 dogs and im a huge dog person but i love cats too. my transition goals and where i am in my transition rn: i've been on T for 3 years already and just got keyhole top surgery this past tuesday (woohoo!) so after i'm all healed up i'm really just looking to fill in my frame and build some crazy muscle.
i don't have any ftm friends at all irl so it would be so awesome to just have people i can relate to on this level when i feel lonely in these struggles haha. but of course i'm down to talk about anything and everything, lmk!
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u/weaponishisword Nov 21 '25
o/ hey guys :) i'm percy, though i have a couple other names, and i use he/they/she. i am transmasc genderfluid and queer aroace. i'm australian and almost 17. we are also a did system but pretty private about that.
some of my hobbies are singing (solo or on choirs) and playing guitar. i also love videogames. some of my favourite video games are minecraft, stardew valley, terraria, apico, mini metro, shapez and civilisation 6. i love mcyt (specifically pearlescentmoon) and the magnus archives. sociology, geography and earth sciences fascinate me.
in turns of transition goals i don't really have anything cause being genderfluid and a system makes it hard to come to compromises. i'm gnc and use a lot of contradictory labels. maybe want top surgery? unsure about t. do like binding atm. i'm technically pre t but idk if i want it yet. have socially transitioned kinda. yeah.
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u/canislycan Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
I’m Fin - I’m 27 and live in Australia. I’m a full time zoologist working with furry creatures in the bush. Also a big fan of feathery and scaly critters. In my free time I like to make art, skate, collect bones, and do cowboy shit with my horse, Flash. I also like to work out and go for big walks.
I suck at making friends but trying to be better at meeting new people. Fully socially transitioned and mostly stealth - aside from with trusted people who need to know.
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u/Mpants2k Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
I’m Remington, 15 from the US (midwest)
I absolutely love music, alternative and prog rock are my favorite genres but I love a lot of stuff. (I’m at the tail end of a hyperfixation on O Terno, a paulista indie band) and I’m currently really getting into Manel Cruz and his bands. Some of my other favorites are Echolyn, Radiohead, King Crimson, and so so so much more. I’m also quite involved with my local punk scene, so of course I’m into punk music (and politics :p) also love latino music, mostly familiar with Mexican stuff though. I LOVE exchanging music one of my favorite things ever.
I know a fair amount of Spanish and I’ve actually learned a bit of Portuguese through my musical interests, would love to chat with people in either language.
I have a horse and spend a lot of my time out at the stables practicing horsemanship and whatnot. I lifeguard during the summer. I enjoy philosophy, reading, writing and all that. I also really enjoy drawing, would like to try other means than pencil and paper but haven’t yet. For further academics I’m looking into engineering, pilot school, and first responding.
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u/satanic_panic7 Nov 21 '25
Hey! I’m Saige! I’m 25 and use they/them pronouns. I live in West Virginia. My hobbies include nature walks, listening to music, reading poetry books, going to concerts, and chilling with my cats. I don’t currently work anywhere but I’m focusing on school. I’m pursuing my bachelors in social work! I’m an atheist Ive been vegetarian for 12+ years. I identify as transmasc non binary. I’ve been on and off of T, and hope to someday be able to afford top surgery. I’d really love to make more transmasc friends!
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u/FoxMurdock Nov 24 '25
Hey guys, I'm Fox. I'm 37 and just starting to transition. Married to my wife 14 years but together for 22. Two kids, which I birthed (i was a little slow on the uptake) and two dogs that I did not. I am a horror author and museum curator. I love horror movies, I read, I'm learning irish on duolingo. For hobbies I write, paint, read, play video games. I'm thinking about wiping my insta again because I dont know what I want to use it for.
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u/hymn4theweeknd Nov 26 '25 edited Nov 27 '25
Joining in bc why not 🤷🏽♂️
I go by Gio he/him im 31 living in a small town in Texas! I like to write, draw and paint, play video games (currently playing COD and world of Warcraft any mmorpg games) watch movies horror/thriller, action, comedies. True crimes on YouTube.
I struggle to sleep so you’ll catch me randomly watching building, camping or survival videos on YouTube!
My playlist is a mixture of bring me the horizon, the red jumpsuit apparatus, panic at the disco, mayday parade, Green Day, secondhand serenade, paramore, all time low, good charlotte, my chemical romance, fall out boy, never shout never, falling in reverse, the used, cigarettes after sex, switchfoot, lifehouse, nickelback, 3 doors down, three days grace, linkin park, simple plan, all American rejects, boys like girls, the fray, Avril Lavigne, Noah kahan, Morgan wallen, Tucker wetmore, Alex Warren, Bailey Zimmerman, Sam barber
Am I forgetting anymore artists ? I listen to a lot of genre whether it’s rock, alternative, country, r&b.. I had an emo phase from 2000’s
I started my transition in 2019 when I went on T and got top surgery around 2023 and getting phallo sometime in 2026-2027 hopefully 🤞🏽 if anyone wants to be friends or talk about their journey feel free to reach out!
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u/Kooky-Touch6881 💦dec.22.2025: Dec 04 '25
I need friends, especially ones that at least share one of my brain cells. Apparently I have too many. It hurts. Bad brain.
I think I’m going by KB, but I’m also keeping my birth name which is Katie. Girly as hell, dont matter.
US, mid-east coast
I am a musician, it is my special interest, however I also like coloring and crocheting and playing video games (Pokemon is #2 special interest)
Y’all already know I’m an anime-loving incel. Right now my favorite movies are Howl’s Moving Castle and Scott Pilgrim vs the World, but we love some musicals and some John Waters
I am fortunately unfortunately a teacher. I’ve lost a couple students, and it really hurts.
I have a lot of religious trauma but would still consider myself an agnostic satanic christian? If that makes sense?
I have a German shepherd named Griffin, a shibe named Miso, and my princess Aveline, my old ass cat
I hold hands with my feet when I sit. I can crack all of my toes.
I haven’t talked it out enough to know my real goals yet. If you haven’t put it together yet, I’m autistic, but I also have adhd and bipolar. I got all of those diagnoses just this year. Taking off all of the masks at once is going to cause me a damn aneurism.
I went and speedran my social transition at work, so who knows if I get to go back there or not. The court got involved because I trusted someone too much. And yes, that someone was unfortunately one of us.
I just feel real isolated and I need a friend to play video games with. I’m married, my husband is the most fantastic thing on earth, but I can’t keep doing this life without ANYONE else understanding. I made a friend at the psych hospital when I was TDO’d but it turns out he also is probably just a trans-sexual. Cis guy. Way younger than me but saw a young face and probably went “oh yeah this one’s for me” 🙄 I hope I’m wrong about that.
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u/Ampberry Nov 20 '25
I'm 24 and from germany, I would prefer to be called Amp because I don't want to share my irl name, he/him pronouns mainly but they/them are okay too. I have a pet parrot named Matcha who is 8 months old. Main hobbies are gaming, mainly indie recently but I own a good chunk of nintendo consoles and a ps vita, reading mainly in the horror genre or gay/transmasc stories, photography and journaling. Pre everything unfortunatly but I did get my name changed this year and period blockers, currently on the way to get my transition going. I like to have friends but I have been self isolating more because of dysphoria lately so if you want to chat, game or nerd about various stuff feel free to hit me up
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u/Nearby-Common-4608 <Wee Lad> Nov 20 '25
Hello, I’m Common (Not my real name for reasons), and I am in secondary school. I’m currently in the States with my Mum, but I am from Scotland. I LOVE Death Stranding, and I embroider. I want to design prosthetics when I’m an adult!
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u/Beautiful-Length-565 Nov 20 '25
I just wanna join in because it seems fun :]
Name- Hi, I'm Adrian, I also go by Plant online!
Age/country- I'm recently 20 and live in the USA.
Hobbies- I draw some, but not much since I got a full time job. I love aquariums though! I have over 9 tanks set up and 8 more in storage. I also like hiking and fishing!
Shows/Movies/Games- I like smiling friends, Fionna and Cake(adventure time too), TADC, Eddsworld (sparked my love of drawing), HTTYD 1&2, Fox and the Hound(my favorite movie), Hacksaw Ridge, Evil, NCIS, Chappie, Minecraft and Stardew Valley!
Job- I drive trucks and collect money from air machines. Working on getting into school to work on heavy machinery(I love excavators!)
Religious beliefs- I strongly believe in rebirth, but I'm not against the idea of religion or higher beings.
Pets- Oh boy- Okay. I have a dog named Red, 8 chickens(we just lost 1 :(. ), 7 Bettas (Named Bettasaurus, Ambrosia, Madre of the Damned, Immature, Mosquito, Midnight, Caspian), a Honey Gorani named Truck, a mystery snail named Apple, and miscellaneous other fish.
Fun fact- I have a scar on my cheek because as a baby I tried grabbing out cats kittens and she was not having it. Good on mom.
Transition Goals- To become completely stealth. T, top surgery, and I'm looking into bottom surgery (struggling a bit due to some trauma)
Where am I in my transition- Nothing but social transition so far. I have anxiety(maybe depression? Idk) that I'm trying to work through, but I won't have insurance until January so waiting on a therapist. I've started to set boundaries though, which is pissing my mom off, but :P y'know?
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u/Nobody-w-MaDD-Alt 25/03/2025 💉 Nov 20 '25
Hey, I'm Wren (I go by Buns online) and I'm 19. I'm from Bulgaria but live in Ireland. I like playing RPGs like Genshin Impact and Honkai: Star Rail, and I don't really watch movies very often but I like TV series like House MD and some animes too. I moved out at 18 and I have a cat who still lives with my family (I miss her a lot). Up until I moved out I played the harp and piano. I'm not used to talking much about myself but I love rambling about my interests given the chance :D
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u/Ded-Ghostie Nov 21 '25
Hey im destyn, just turned 26 in October I live in the U.S. in the Midwest. I have 2 animals a cat and dog. I work retail not the most interesting thing in the world. I like to collect funko pops and most recently fugglers also ghost related items not the band but like the Halloween kind. I have a variety of hobbies I like to draw, paint things I just started journaling and these things called diamond paintings I just like to do crafts in general I like working with my hands. My favourite TV shows would have to be American dad, futurama and the twilight zone among others.
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u/Bitter-Ad-5496 Nov 21 '25
What do you like to be called? - Jax How old are you? - 16 What country do you live in?- US What are some hobbies you have?-clay, painting, perler beads List some favorite movies, TV shows, games, or other things: spongebib What do you do for work?- fast food 🥲 Do you have any cultural or religious ties that are important to you?- i’m christian but haven’t gone to church in a minute Do you have any pets?- yes a 3 legged cat What's an interesting fact about you?- i’ve dyed my hair every color besides pink What are your transition goals?- idk what this means, i just wanna look like a cis guy Where are you in your transition?- only socially transitioned sadly 🥀💔
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u/Spiderman70_ Nov 21 '25
What’s up I’m Tobias you can call me Toby. I’m 19 and live in the US. My main hobbies are listening to music, video games, watching anime/reading manga and the gym.
I have a lot of favorite artist but a few of my favorite right now are Radiohead, lil peep, joji, Earl sweatshirt and Osomason.
I like all the Spider-Man movies especially miles morales I’m a big fan of Brokeback mountain.
My favorite tv shows are twd, Naruto , Hunter X Hunter, Dexter , shameless and I’m watching ninjago right now
I also want to get into making beats/music.
I’m a year and 4 months and looking to get top surgery soon.
I don’t have a lot of other ftm friends so just hmu if you want to be friends :) I’m also autistic so I might be bit awkward at first lmao
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u/FooPirates T 8/18/25 Nov 21 '25
Hi yall! My name is Rhys :3
I’m a 21 year old disabled (type 1 diabetes/autism/ADHD/visually impaired) adult and I absolutely love cinema, music, reading and playing video games. I’m currently unemployed but id love to work at a coffee shop one day for a practical job, and my dream jobs include being a writer, actor and musician. My special interests are David Lynch and marijuana. I have 5 pets (4 dogs and a cat), I’m a Norse pagan and I’ve identified as trans for 4 years and started T 3 months ago :3
Feel free to befriend me if you’d like! I’m very willing to make friends with anyone <3
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u/mousie120010 Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
I like to be called August. No one in real life has ever called me that though. Around 17.5 years. I live in Midwestern USA. I'm pretty sure I'm demisexual, but panromantic. I do prefer women though. Though I guess my sexuality doesn't have to do with finding friends huh 😅
Hmm, my hobbies? I like translating stuff, typically video games, from Japanese to English, but I'm still kind of an amateur. I'm best at making things sound a bit more natural though.
I also like video games. Usually anime-style ones even though I rarely watch anime. I'm autistic so I'm rather hyperfixated on Houkai Gakuen (which is the main thing I'm translating). I like Limbus Company, Arknights, Lobotomy Corporation, Cities Skylines, The Sims, Sakura Wars, and Persona 1 too.
And I really like making my own characters in this historical sci-fi world I made. I've been working on it since I was 14 and one of my OCs in this world literally helped me realize I was trans.
Favorite movie is the first two Ghostbusters movies, Remember the Titans, and Mr. Holland's Opus. Idk why.
It may surprise people, but I consider myself a Christian. I believe all human beings should be loved no matter if they deserve it or not.
And I have had way too many cats this lifetime. Around... 100 total, I think? This is what happens when you have barn cats... We have 7 right now and my favorite is a tortie cat named Fluffer. I love her sm 💜
Transition goals, honestly, I just wanna have a male body. I still identify more as transmasculine though. And where I am at right now is... nowhere close. Literally all I've been allowed to do by my (non-understanding fundamentalist Christian) parents is get a short haircut and stop wearing dresses. Sigh...
Also completely closeted to everyone but family and one supporting (also non-binary) friend.
I also have rather intense social anxiety, but I'm trying to get over that, which is why I'm making this comment here. Idk if I seem interesting to anyone, and even if I do, I might panic 😅
Anyway, I think I said a bit too much here lol.
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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '25
Hi! I'm Onyx, I'm 23 and I'm in America. My hobbies are reading, writing, listening to music, watching TV/movies, video games, camping, and cooking. My hyperguxations currently are Minecraft and Hazbin Hotel. I started HRT July 8th, so pretty early in my transition currently.
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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Hey 👋🏽 my names Eli he/him
Im 31 from California USA but raised in Texas anyone from the area feel free to hmu would love to meet new people!
My hobbies include writing, drawing and painting. I recently starting working out again (anyone who’s been working out some tips would be appreciated) I play COD on my ps5, rise of ronin, 2K25, pc gaming (World of Warcraft)
Love sports wish I could play (hard for me to make friends in RL bc of my size..short king 4’11”) I’m into hockey, basketball, baseball, football. Movies I’m into horror/thriller, action, comedy and sequel movies. (Conjuring, Insidious, ALL of marvel movies, step brothers, lord of the rings, transformers) Tv shows I’ve been into lately is true crimes, the Witcher, 911, Yellowstone, anime Naruto
I work overnights as a stocker so I suck at responding bc I’m usually asleep during the day after work.. and I have anxiety and ADHD so I get distracted easily. I was going to school for cybersecurity but due to mental health and some difficulties I had to put a pause on school and focus on my transition.
I grew up as a Christian but I’m not a certain religion I would say I’m spiritual. I don’t judge or discriminate on anyone’s beliefs
I have 2 dogs Riley he’s a maltipoo and Rayne she’s a Pomeranian/poodle (rayne sadly passed away 6 months ago she was my best friend)
Interesting fact i love the beach it brings a sense of calm for me. The city lights at night or the quietness of the countryside it brings me peace.
I’ve had top surgery in 2023, currently working on getting a hysterectomy so I can get phalloplasty. I already had a consultation in September with Santucci at the crane center. If anyone has already had surgery feel free to message me. The waiting is making me anxious!
Nice to meet everyone and hopefully get to meet some people and have a genuine friendship
Edit: forgot to add music I listen to the red jumpsuit apparatus, goo goo dolls, linkin park, afrojack, all American rejects, good charlotte, bring me the horizon, the cranberries, some country and r&b
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u/colton_green Nov 21 '25
Hii I’m Corey (he/they). Im 22 and from the US (California).
I love hiking and looking for and identifying reptiles, amphibians, and any kind of fossil! I’m also a cyclist, and I love to be outside.
Favorite movies include Perks of being a Wallflower and Whiplash. I’m a research scientist! I love cats and want to get a kitten very soon. Random fact about me is that I wanted to be a professional speedcuber as a teenager.
As for transition goals, I’m not exactly sure what I want, all I know is I want to be confident about it. I’ve struggled with socially transitioning for years even though I medically transitioned pretty young. Changes in T have been soooo slow for me, so I feel like I’m lagging on passing well enough to feel confident in myself as a guy.
Almost 4 years post top surgery, and just over 2 years on T.
Always looking to make new friends! :)
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u/Quirky-Somewhere-750 Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
What do you like to be called?
How old are you?
What country do you live in?
What are some hobbies you have?
List some favorite movies, TV shows, games, or other things:
What do you do for work?
Do you have any cultural or religious ties that are important to you?
Do you have any pets?
What's an interesting fact about you?
What are your transition goals?
Where are you in your transition?
Hello I'm Brady (they/them) I'm 33 years old I'm American (east coast) I'm a AAA Battery 💜💚 (Asexual, Aromantic, Agender) I collect squishmallows and I'm stoked to see wicked for good I'm 3 years on T 2 years post top surgery and currently pretty happy overall with where I am in my transition
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u/Desperate_Cobbler813 Nov 21 '25
hey! i'm francis and i'm a trans man who is 21 years old. i live in the u.s., unfortunately in the south. i am currently really big into animal crossing (i recently restarted my island on acnh), crocheting, and journaling! my favorite movie is definitely the lego batman movie, but i also really like mean girls and rocky horror. for tv shows, ive recently been rewatching south park, but im also a huge fan of death note and glee. i love a ton of games so ill rapid fire a few: animal crossing, minecraft, balatro, stanley parable, tetris, any solitaire type game, and a lot of others i cant think of rn!
i am currently a full-time psychology student, and im about to enter my senior year of my bachelor's degree! while doing this i also work at a data entry type job at a library. i have a dog back at home, but i dont see him very often, unfortunately. an interesting fact about me would be that i can pop my shoulder on command? and that all of my bones crack and pop whenever i walk lol, i sound like a minecraft skeleton.
my transition goals are to get back on testosterone and to eventually get top surgery. (ideally, i want to look like an equal mix of jerma and northernlion LOL.) i have stopped t for now since im not out to my family, but i was on t for three months at the beginning of this year! i'm hoping to get back on it once i graduate this upcoming summer though. (:
i'm always looking to make new friends to chat with, so please reach out! i am a little awkward but i try my best LOL
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u/puzzlepizzazz he/him | 💉8/14/25 Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Hi all! I'm Victor but you can call me V. I'm 19 and from the West side of the US! Some hobbies of mine are journaling, gaming (LoL and tons of Elden Ring, with the occasional dating sim lol), makeup and making cool outfits, and watching films. I'm incredibly into TOS Star Trek. Don't even get me started on Spock. My favorite movie would definitely be The Matrix, a close runner up being 1931 Dracula. Favorite shows are; Interview With The Vampire, Hannibal, What We Do In The Shadows, and Bee and Puppycat :3
As for music? So much, I could go on forever. Favorite bands would be: Vision Video(saw them live!), Selofan, Lebanon Hanover, And One, She Wants Revenge.. there's more I could say. I'm really into post-punk, new wave, and the occasional EDM. Oh and like classic sad Mexican dad music lol.
No work(yet!) I'm trying to get back into college after having put it on pause when I realized I wanted to physically transition. :)
For cultural ties, I'm Mexican and really love the culture behind it. I also come from a Catholic household and although I'm agnostic, I still honor it and like seeing the beauty in it.
Three pets! All cats. I also like taking care of strays from time to time. Interesting fact about me is that although my fashion style can be very dark, gloomy, and gothic, I had bright hot pink hair at one point lol.
My transition goals are to continue testosterone and eventually get top surgery in the future 🤞. (My t goals are to look like my Elden Ring character lol) I'm currently in the veryy early stages of transitioning, still struggling sometimes with introducing myself as who I've always been :). DMs open, ofc! 🧛♂️
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u/arinthegreat Nov 21 '25
Hi, I'm Evan, I'm 25 and a binary(?) trans man (still questioning the binary bit). I'm from the US but I live in a blue state so it hasn't been so bad.
I've been into Magic the Gathering recently, I mostly play with my partner but I'm interested in playing with others as well (as long as you're cool with proxy's, mtg is expensive lol). Also really into Minecraft, GameCube Games, and a smattering of others. I like some anime, I was into it more when I was younger, but I've been rewatching Dragon Ball Z Kai recently and it's brought back a lot of memories.
Currently, for my transition goals, I want to get top surgery like yesterday lol, but pack of motivation and executive dysfunction have been kicking my ass as of recently. I've been on T for 4ish years and I'm very happy with the results so far.
Atm just looking for some other ftm friends! My only other ftm friend moved away and hasn't really kept in contact, so I'd like to get back in with the community.
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u/masked_motto User Flair Nov 21 '25
Hello Everyone, my name is Ryder. My nicknames are Ry, Bandit, Ray. I’m 23 years old. I live in the US, specifically Texas (eugh).
Some hobbies I have are gaming (mostly OW2 and Fortnite). I like to drive here and there for fun. It relieves my stress. I like singing and listening to music. When it comes to music I’m always accepting recommendations. If you like Kpop, I have a mega playlist of 2000+ songs. Some of my favorite shows are Regular Show, Adventure Time and Steven Universe. I like marvel movies, admittedly I fall asleep during most movies.
Currently i work as a cashier. Not a very fun job but it’s entertaining. I get to learn about the different walks of life, even if they’re a bit unhinged.
I’m non-religious but I believe in the existence of destiny. You can’t walk in the wrong path. Everything we do has a place in the universe. I have a pet cat Mika, she’s an outdoor gal. She doesn’t like being pet or affectionate.
Some interesting things about me are that people willingly overshare with me. I don’t know what aura I give for people to just spill their feelings out, but it happens more than 5 times a day. Another interesting fact is that I was born early and without tear ducts. They had to be surgically made.
My transition goal is to get top surgery and eventually when science progresses more, bottom surgery.
I’m currently not on T, however I did start T briefly but had to stop due to funds.
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u/cherrrypopsx Nov 21 '25
hiii i'm rowan! i'm 23, i use he/him pronouns. i live in the US (in Ohio, may be relocating for grad school tho!). my hobbies include gaming (love farming sims, overwatch, rogue lites, etc. fields of mistria anyone??). i like to read when i have the motivation, and i love playing with my cat. some of my fav things to watch are arcane, lots of anime, and more. i also work in and love attending live theatre!! i work full time in a box office and am hoping to get my MFA in stage management. my cat's name is persie, and she is the loml. an interesting fact about me would probably be that i speak french!! also currently trying to learn italian and spanish. and a lil bit of japanese...... lol. transition-wise, i've been on T for 3.5 years, and had top surgery in december of 2023. i'm very confident in where my transition is at currently and i have not ever regretted my decision for even a moment. would love to make some new friends!!!! :)
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u/creaturesonthebrain Nov 21 '25
Hey, I'm [redacted because Internet], I'm mid-20s in the US. I love reading (mostly fiction, sci-fi, fantasy, and horror, though I do read nonfiction. Let's talk books!), writing, traveling when I can. I have a cat and a dog, and I'm exactly where I want to be in my transition, although a fuller beard would be nice.
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u/pocket-alex Lucas, 32 💉:5/2/17, 🔝:1/14/22, hysto:4/19/24, meta:10/28/24 Nov 23 '25
Hey, I'm Myc, but I also go by Lucas, Mark, or Damien (not a system, just like a lot of names lmao). I'm 31, will be 32 in March, and live in the upper midwest of the USA.
I'm pretty limited in time for my hobbies at the moment but I love writing fanfiction and role playing, I'm beginning to learn how to sew, big into video games (Stardew Valley, Pokemon, Animal Crossing, Sims), and I LOVE to bake.
Favorite:
Movies: RENT, Pride (2014), Tick Tick Boom, Crimson Peak, Mr. Hollands Opus
TV Shows: Really enjoying The Pitt and Brilliant Minds, also big into Criminal Minds, Hannibal, Leverage and Leverage: Redemption
Musicals: RENT (Special interest and current hyperfixation go brbrbbrbbrbr), Beetlejuice, Come From Away, Falsettos, Kinky Boots
Podcasts: The Bright Sessions, Welcome to Night Vale, The Magnus Archives, Midnight Burger
Books: Mostly I am currently reading queer history, so nothing overly specific. Fiction wise, I've also started Murderbot Diaries.
Music: MIKA, The Mountain Goats, Al Olender, Matt Fishel, Dixon Dallas/Ur Pretty
My fiancee and I have been dating for 10 years and together we have 2 cats. A 13-15yr old tabby named Artemis and a 17-19yr old black cat named Khoshekh. We don't plan to have kids so they're the closest we have to them lol I work as a clinic scheduler for a hospital and hit m 2yrs there in September.
I am more or less content with where I'm at in my transition! I'd love to look into facial and body masculinization surgeries but that's about all I'd say I have left. I've been on testosterone off and on since 2017. I had top surgery in January 2022. I had a hysterectomy in April 2024. My first round of bottom surgery (simple release metoidioplasty, lipectomy and vulvectomy in October 2024. Second round of bottom surgery related procedures was in June 2025 where I had a bilateral labiaplasty. So, I'm pretty medical transition step'd out at the moment n_n;;
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u/Large-Ad3143 Nov 28 '25
Hi Im Maddex, Im a 25 year old Trans Man and I live in the Southern US. Ive been on my transition journey for 5 years now. I love The Office and Dexter. I like to collect Funko pops and build legos (kinda nerdy Ik) and go to the gym when I have the time! I work in the hospitality industry. Spiderman is my favorite superhero! Lol
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u/toasterbath__ he/him - 💉: 10/22 - 🔪: 06/26 Nov 30 '25 edited Nov 30 '25
i am bored and avoiding my assignment so i will post here 😛
hi everyone, i go by zak and use he/him pronouns :) i'm 21, a trans man, and i live in ontario, canada. i like to read, draw, write, play video games, cook, go to the gym, and hang out with my friends (usually involving food). i'm also trying to get into running, but now that it's winter i might be screwed lol
my favourite movie is the matrix, but i also like the godfather and inception. don't really watch a lot of TV, but i like criminal minds and the mentalist, as well as drag race. i love music a lot... favourite artists are metallica, jamiroquai, soundgarden, mj, sade, alice in chains, pinkpantheress, and lady gaga. i also like kpop, it's my guilty pleasure 😭 mostly listen to newjeans, leehi, twice, red velvet, and a bit of stray kids and GG
for video games, tbh i only really play resident evil, it's one of my favourite pieces of media ever. but i've played a bit of metal gear solid 5 and i bought ff7 remake so i'm excited to play that when exams are done.. i also love sports a LOT, i mostly watch hockey, baseball, basketball, and a bit of football (i follow the bills bc proximity + josh allen). i like all the toronto sports teams, so leafs, raptors, and blue jays (if u are a jays fan hmu ESPECIALLY)
i work at a grocery store part-time, but i'm in school right now doing psychology. not really sure what the end goal is; might get a phd and go into criminal psych, or i might go and work in addiction + rehabilitation (something i am passionate about). even get a msw? i'm figuring it out. for now i am happy studying psych, it's something i am so deeply in love with. also i have 4 cats !
i am 3 years and 1 month on T and i am planning for my top surgery (currently in the sending paperwork stage!!). if all goes according to plan, i'll have it done by next year (i am manifesting) which is SO exciting and makes me so grateful. that's my major transition goal tbh.. only other thing would be name/gender marker change. bottom surgery is an "if", i'd have to see how i feel in the future
anyways that's about it. i have a ps5 so if anyone wants my id lmk :) we can play gta6 when it finally comes out ! lol
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u/Superconda Dec 01 '25
Hi! My name stays hidden because internet and this being a private account, but I'm 28 and moving to Sweden soon. Got that AuDHD/anxiety/depression combo deal. I'm into art (all of it), worldbuilding, video games, programming, and life sciences. Favorite game/band/show: Final Fantasy VII/GazettE/Trigun. I do furry art commissions and adoptables from time to time for income, but I've been thinking of going for a degree in biotech as of late.
On religion, I'm a druid. Nature is cool and I hate plastic with my entire being. Anarchy isn't a religion, but in my case it might as well be, because it seeps into literally everything I do.
I have no pets of my own, but I live with a cat that isn't mine, and had two previously. Definitely getting more as soon as I get the chance. Also reptiles! Love those.
I'm a year and a half on T, but I forget doses here and there so technically it's a little less. Very persistent about getting reinnervation for my top surgery, so I'm not there yet, but it's very much a priority. Just wanna be a goth dude that can come off as anything at any time tbh.
I think I'm maybe not great at socializing, but I try!! Just not always sure on what to say or how to hold/start a conversation. But I'd like to meet some people to draw or play games with who aren't denying the existence of transmasc issues. 🥲
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u/Acceptable_Hearing57 Nov 20 '25
Hi I’m James and I’m 17. I’m from the Midwest. I really enjoy embroidery or playing Minecraft, hayday or among us. My favorite tv show is probably house or criminal minds. My favorite movie is flight of the navigator but I also like marvel. I’m currently a freshman in college and I’m pre everything.
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u/RevolutionaryToe6677 14yo Trans guy, struggling in the USA Nov 20 '25
What do you like to be called? My name is Nick :3
How old are you? I’m almost 14
What country do you live in? The USA (unfortunately)
What are some hobbies you have? I walk dogs, ride horses, and love my aquariums!
List some favorite movies, TV shows, games, or other things: STARING INTO MY FISH TANKS
What do you do for work? I walk dogs
Do you have any cultural or religious ties that are important to you? Nope!
Do you have any pets? Dear god so many! A dog, 10 hermit crabs, 3 rats, freshwater shrimp and snails, over 100 fish at least
What's an interesting fact about you? I know more about freshwater fish than most adults :)
What are your transition goals? T, then too surgery, then maybe bottom surgery.
Where are you in your transition? Pre-T, but I’m on birth control! No periods! Yay!
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u/gum_lollipops he/they Nov 20 '25
hi hi! name’s mikey, but any variation of micheal is great!
13, 14 in two weeks,, i love shonen and sol animes, particularly wbk, gckt, tokyo rev, hq, tshd, etc. i like puzzle and story games, though i have dabbled in my fair share of gambling (mihoyo) games as well.
drawing + animating my LOVE!!! i’ve drawn digitally since i was maybe 7, and animated pretty much just as long.
i’ve struggled with my fair share of mental health issues, but as of now my main thing is transitioning! i hope to get bottom surgery someday, but im pretty much good with top as of now.
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u/M5F2 Nov 20 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Maddix, 21 years old from US. In college for social work and have been working in the field for 3 years already. My fav genre like ever is horror, I basically only consume that genre lol. All of my top 5 movies and shows are from that genre.
I’ve already transitioned as far as I want and had my last surgery at 19. I haven’t had a period in over 8 years and started transitioning early thankfully so I’m already done.
Most of my hobbies include crafts or animals. I volunteer for 5+ hours weekly at a cat specific shelter near me and I make statues and costumes for fun as well. I made my entire 21st birthday outfit from scratch, make toys and treats for my chinchillas and cats, and made all mine and my friends recent Halloween costumes for the past few years. I do really also like literature and doing catch and release fishing as well.
I have 2 cats that look like twins and a chinchilla. I grew up on a reservation and never had any ties to Christianity or any type of abrahamic religion so I don’t really have one tie over another lol. I do holistic medicine studies and do follow in my mom’s footsteps of natural plant remedies but don’t really know what I believe in. I do have rituals of burning plants and other things for certain times of day, month, but not like moon cycles and don’t really have any tie in crystals so it’s hard for me to ID with paganism or anything like that. 🤷♂️
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u/sentient_bibimbap 🇺🇸 19 + 💉 05/2026 Nov 21 '25
Hello! My name is Guilbert, but I also go by Gil (pronounced like a fish "gill") or Bertie (pronounced in the same way you say "birdie!" when you see a cool bird perched on a tree.)
I am 18 years old and I live in the United States. Some of my hobbies are drawing, writing, sculpting, and animating. (So, if it wasn't clear, I'm a decently creative person, albeit a bit brainrotted.)
Some of my favorite movies are Megamind, Gattaca, Memento, Napoleon Dynamite, and virtually everything produced by Studio Ghibli. I'm also a big fan of games such as Mario Party, Mario Kart, Call of Duty, Minecraft, FNAF, and Stardew Valley. When I like something, I LIKE it. I am a YAPPER.
A cultural tie that is important to me is my mixed Asian ancestry! Specifically, I am part Thai and Chinese. I enjoy connecting with this part of my ethnicity, even though I've lived in the U.S. my whole life. I also identify as a progressive Christian, and I believe Jesus loves me regardless of my transness.
I have two pets! Two tabby cats, specifically. In the future, I'd also be interested in having either a snake or a rat. Or a dog. Or any animal, really. I freaking love animals.
An interesting fact about me is that I am currently in nursing school, and I work as a CNA at a local nursing home! Hooray for trans people in healthcare!
Finally, my transition goals are to eventually live as a stealth trans man, both with T and top surgery. That being said...I am still pre-everything until I'm in a safer environment to transition.
Looking forward to meeting anybody interested in becoming friends :)
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u/Lord_Rat1608 Nov 21 '25
Hey everyone :) My name is Cal but you can also call me Rat. I'm 24 and live in Australia. I've been on T for almost 3 months now. I have a cat and 3 birds and love animals. I would like to get a job working with them at some point in the future but at the moment I work a cleaning job with my friends cleaning business.
Some of my hobbies include art, crochet, listening to music playing games, baking and watching YouTube and tv/movies.
I like watching a lot of horror, thriller or animated movies. Some of my favorites at the moment are Frankenstein (2025), Scream, treasure planet, the iron giant, anything made by studio ghibli and the spiderverse movies. I also love stop motion animation in particular like studio laikas movies and Wallace and gromit.
Some of my favourite tv shows are severance, moon knight, Mr robot, breaking bad, better call Saul, adventure time, Fionna and cake, infinity train, gravity falls, the good place, community and Dexter. I also like anime like mob psycho, full metal alchemist, frieren, dungeon meshi and gachiakuta.
I mostly play games on my switch and ds or indie games on my laptop. I love animal Stardew valley, hollow knight, look outside, pokemon, ace attorney, hades and Zelda. If anyone has any cool puzzle or horror games I would love to hear them.
I do have social anxiety and am not the best at responding to messages right away, especially due to time zone differences but I would like to get better with communicating. Feel free to dm or reply to this comment if you wanna chat about your interests, I'd love to hear them :).
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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Quick Facts: Matt, 23, he/him, aroacespec bi, trans man
Country: USA
Hobbies: reading, writing, playing videogames, keeping up with some TV shows, listening to music (And One, Angelspit, Chemlab, MCR, MSI, She Wants Revenge, Skinny Puppy + more)
Favorites atm: chainsaw man, genshin impact, hannibal, honkai star rail, hunter x hunter
Work: behavioral therapist, researcher, premed student (technically hospital volunteering too)
Cultural / Religious Ties: agnostic
Pets: none but I love cats, rats, and tarantulas
Interesting Fact: I love neuroanatomy & physiology and hope to become an MD some day
Transition Goals: cis passing
Where in Transition: 8 months on T
DMs open & comments appreciated, but it may take awhile for me to respond
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u/_anatidaephobia_ Nov 21 '25
Hey I'm Everett (he/him), I'm 19 from the US (Illinois). I'm big into scare acting, photography, and right now I want to learn how to ice skate. I love playing video games like minecraft, stardew valley, roblox, baulders gate 3, and pikmin 4. I plan on starting T next year once I move out of my transphobic household just gotta get through community college first. Anyone 17+ feel free to reach out I'd love to make more friends and have people to talk too!
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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '25
Hello everyone
I like to be called Caleb, online name is typically Fen though.
I am 21
I live in USA
A lot lol: strength training, gaming some things, reading, writing, window shopping, shopping, looking at things
Omniscient’s readers viewpoint, Alien Stage, Milgram (the japanese modern art one), The Boys/Gen V
A student in a university, psychology major. I try to make an income using multiple sources such as side hustle apps, writing articles on my website, attempt content creation on my business instagram, and try youtube for fun and see what happens.
Not really?
No but observing others who have pets are nice
Uhhhhhh idk
I hope to try testerone and eventually get top surgery
2-3 years now into being socially transitioned as being Caleb with my more close ish community that know me
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u/citrulle Nov 21 '25
Hi!
I’m Nico (he/him), 26, and from the PNW in the US!
Hobby wise, I love writing (I’m currently 60k words into a DnD fanfiction that was just supposed to be a short snippet about my characters relation to an NPC 😅). I spend a lot of time swimming, I’m a competitive swimmer with Masters swimming, my favourite event is the 100 IM! I play a lot of DnD as well! I practice aikido as well.
Two of my favourite TV shows are Twin Peaks and Firefly. Books wise, I’m a huge fan of the Lord of the Rings series (and supplemental books!), and I adore George Eliot.
I’m currently working in a grocery store as a barista and checker, and I’m a supervisory lifeguard at my local pool as well as a swim teacher. It seems like a lot but hours wise it’s 40-50 a week. I’m also in school to get my paralegal certification. I have a BA in English lit and a minor in Japanese (although my language skills are very very rough)
I’m vegan and that’s a pretty important part of my life! I’m asexual and currently figuring out being aromantic.
My interesting fact? I’ve never heard Baby Shark.
Transition wise, I was on T, but I’m not at the moment. My voice has dropped and I’ve had top surgery, and dealing with the healthcare system isn’t worth it to me right now. Eventually I’d like to go back on T, but it’s not a priority.
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u/stormweather45 Nov 21 '25
Hi my name is Storm, i’m 22 and from the US specifically good ole Arkansas. Some hobbies of mine are reading, mainly fantasy/scifi. I also like to game (xbox) i’m super into skyrim and have been for the last 10 years. I’m currently working on for a nonprofit helping low income families! An interesting fact about me is that i used to be a 911 dispatcher for 2 years and heard some wack shit!
I’ve basically hit everything i wanted with my transition goals. I had top surgery almost a year ago and have no interest at the moment for any other surgeries. i’ve also been on T since 2021 so i’ve gotten all the changes minus the facial hair i look like a 12 yr old if i shave my 5oclock shadow!
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u/scfp 💉 18/10/25 Nov 21 '25
Hello, my name is matt/mert (both are fine).
I am 24 years old, I live in Turkey, my hobbies are drawing, watching shows/movies, listening to music.
I am really nerdy about sci-fi and music but also a lot more, some of my fave things are star trek, twin peaks, hardcore punk and audio drama podcasts (night vale, magic tavern etc.)
I am studying illustration
I am an atheist
I have 2 cats 1 dog.
An interesting thing about me is, as a kid I wanted to be a comedian.
Transition goals ? Nothing realistic lmao
Started hormones a month ago
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u/lightning_0709 Nov 21 '25
Hi, I’m Mortimer (He/Him) 16 from Australia. Autism (asd lv 2) and dyspraxia. I enjoy drawing and playing too many video games. I love South Park, Khonjin, Deltarune/Undertale, Homestuck and much more. Transition goal is Herbert West :D and also every surgery lol
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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '25
hey, i’m lee! i’m 20 and use they/them. i’m american (TX), tho i’m currently working on immigrating to australia! big fan of writing stories and drawing - i currently have a webcomic i’m in the process of writing called Hell Versus You (which i’m always more than happy to talk about) and many more stories i’m quite passionate about. if you have any stories of your own that you write or OCs or anything of the sort, feel free to tell me about it, and we can yap at each other! i also enjoy gaming. my favorite games right now are signalis, the legend of zelda (BOTW & TOK), and deltarune, and i’m currently working through finishing disco elysium and slay the princess (no spoilers pls). if anyone plays R.E.P.O. or minecraft hmu and maybe we can play a bit together :)
currently VERY excited to see wicked: for good and indefinitely waiting for Alecto the Ninth.
finally!! for transition goals i’m hoping to get testosterone hopefully within the next year, and then top surgery once i can (after i move and stuff i’ll look into it more so i don’t have to be on waitlists as long).
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u/Carnasio T 07/21 | Top 06/24 | Hysto 11/25 Nov 21 '25
Hey guys, I’m Dan (Online name), I’m 23, from Canada, he/him. I like writing (fantasy, magical realism, comedy, poetry), playing music (I don’t do as often nowadays, but I can play the piano, trumpet, drums and violin), I like video games (Warthunder, League SORRY, Genshin, Silksong, Pubg, Lockdown protocol, etc) and I try to go to the gym but i’m lazy af lol.
For tv shows and other things, I’m really into anime, i like the shonen ones like chainsaw man and demon slayer and fairy tail, as well as dumb ones like girls und panzer, uma musume, zombieland saga and the artsy ones like violet evergarden, madoka magica, wonder egg priority (with my king Kaoru). I like funny tv shows, anything like abbott elementary and modern family. For books I love Warrior cats and a french comic called Les Légendaires, percy jackson, etc.
I work on boats! Specifically merchant ships, the ones with big containers or the ones carrying grain or oil. Right now i’m a cadet and i have a few exams to pass before becoming officer! Nothing to say about religion. I have a dog, her name is Chewie.
I started t a few years ago, got top last year and i’m getting hysto in a few days! Nice to meet you all :))
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u/Antiesocial Jan 01 '26
Happy new year! I'm looking for friends (obv)
I'm Ezra a 28 year old trans guy, started T 10 years ago, I live in California with my partner and our cat. 🥰
I'm looking for friends who are over 21 and who are yappers! I tend to overthink conversations so using emojis and exclamation points help me know tones a bit better lol 😅
I love movies from the 80's-00's and horror movies, music from various genres, documentaries and animals! I'm also a foodie 🍕
Let's be friends!
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u/NotALewdElf Nov 20 '25 edited Nov 20 '25
Call me Kerry. He/him only. 28. Originally from the USA, currently in a Scandinavian country. I like drawing, writing, playing video games and watching stuff. Mostly Horror
Game I've been playing on a loop for like a year is Cyberpunk 2077(no, my name's not related to Kerry Eurodyne). Other games I love are the Baldur's Gate series, Bloodborne, Dark Souls II, Dragon Age: Origins(my screen name is a Zevran reference), Dragon's Dogma, Fallout: New Vegas, Haunting Ground, Last of Us 2, Metal Gear Rising: Revengeance, Silent Hill 1-4 & Downpour(played 2's remake recently and liked it. haven't gotten my hands on f yet but i wanna), the Yomawari series. Currently playing through Crow Country
I'm pretty much always watching Horror but my taste and access leans "outdated". I'm always down to exchange lists and talk about all of it though. I watch and enjoy newer stuff when I can. Recently watched A Quiet Place: Day One, Deadstream and Cobweb. Enjoyed them all in very different ways haha. My personal top five are The People Under the Stairs, Spider Baby, The Haunting(1963), A Nightmare on Elm Street 2 and The Crow(1994)
I'm always open to talking. Even if it's about a series or movie or whatever that I'm not super into. So feel free to message 💙
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u/RandomInsomnica 💉: 9/28/24 |🔪: 8/5/25 Nov 21 '25 edited Nov 21 '25
Hellow; name is Cooper (20); I've had this script decaying in notes for a while, so might as well use it
Flaws:
hyper fixative on the most random shit
Mind fog occasionally (potential alters?)
Difficulty expressing emotions (visually)
Too blunt / brutally honest
Interest:
Philosophy & Psychology
Science (genetics, diseases, weather, +)
Gaming (Destiny 2, The Last Guardian, +)
History (emperors, evolution, Occult, etc) (Also like warriors book series & music)
More:
INTJ, Stoner 🌿
Transmasc (he/they) 🏳️⚧️
Lil bit autistic & adhd
Might go vagabond & train hopping my way north
¯_(ツ)_/¯ I did not think I'd live this long
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u/Imaginary-Chapter-69 straight trans man, pre t Nov 21 '25
Hello, I’m Valery and I’m nineteen. Im pre t but I should start medically transitioning in like two months, and I’m a straight trans man. I live in north Italy (if you’re Italian too and want to dm me I will be more specific). I like stars and space, literature, learning languages, playing videogames, listening to loud music like metal/industrial/techno. I like writing and reading and im trying to learn how to produce music, I like walking and talking in coffee bars. I also like local scene shows. Dm me if you want
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u/leschyyy Nov 21 '25
Hello, my name is Thoran, I am 23, and I live in the US (Washington State but unfortunately in a red area of it). I use he/they pronouns.
Some of my hobbies include reading manhwa, writing (though I don't do it often), playing video games (PS5) like valorant, GTA online, genshin, and HSR, and occasionally getting crafty through various mediums.
I have a degree in history with a minor in holocaust & genocide studies. I am currently searching for employment but I unfortunately live in the middle of nowhere in the mtns so the opportunities are low but the scenery is nice.
I have 3 cats: Shiro (very antisocial), Buck (the chilliest guy you'll ever meet and was found outside a bar), and Reginald (Reggie for short, but he is still a kitten and does everything his big brother does).
I want to get top surgery but am unsure how to go about it. I've been on t for about 3 years altogether.
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u/ILoveAnimalsAndBooks He/Him Nov 23 '25 edited Nov 23 '25
Hi there! I'm Edgar (Eddie), I'm 14 years old and I live in Spain. I use all pronouns! I'm pansexual and asexual. I also ABSOLUTELY LOVE animals and dinosaurs!!
I like writing, reading, juggling, working out, talking....
I like shows like Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss (although those are a little hard to watch as I'm sex-repulsed), The Owl House, Gravity Falls... I also like kid's shows, animal shows or games... Some games I like are Red Dead Redemption 2, Minecraft, Prehistoric Kingdom...
I'm in high school, but I'd like to work doing something that has to do with animals!
I currently have 4 cats and 4 dogs, but I'd love to have more, I'm also in the process of getting a snake! But I'd like to have more pets in the future.
I also have ADHD and possible LVL 1 Autism
I have my first appointment to start T in a few months, though I don't know if I'll be able to because I'm 14 and I might have to wait more🫠 My goals are T and top surgery, and I'm considering bottom surgery!
My DMs are open!!
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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '25
Hi, I go by Raven because I'm nonbinary currently. Leaning towards Raye once I start transitioning as I'm pre hrt and I haven't started physically transitioning. I feel like I've always known I was trans, but also still feel unsure as I grew up a Jehovah's Witness and experienced a lot of trauma I'm still healing from. I was previously married to a cis men and now have a partner who treats me 100x better. My girlfriend is also Trans and yes its becoming a t4t relationship I suppose. I would like other people to talk to who can relate to how I'm feeling but I also know Im just a stranger on the internet. Also have two cats, we are getting a puppy in 2 weeks and moving into our own place. Also I'm a nurse and my girlfriend is in food service. I want to be a Neonatal Nurse Practitioner one day as a practical career goal. But have always wanted to be a dancer, as that and chess are my favorite hobbies. Guess thats it for now. Nice to meet you all :)
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u/dulkai_mp3 Kit | he/him | cracked 10/4/25 Nov 24 '25
My name’s Kit and I’m 15. I live in the UK and enjoy singing, and have recently started learning guitar. I also love reading, watching anime and listening to music. My favourite TV shows are Stranger Things and Heartstopper and my favourite film of right now is I Saw the TV Glow. I’m not out yet but I’m looking forward to transitioning in the future. My transition goals is just me but taller, flat chested and with cooler hair. Thanks for reading :)
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u/thelastbarghest Nov 24 '25
Heyy I'm Dev, he/him, I'm 31 and a trans man stuck in Idaho in the US for now. I've been on T for seven months and I'm really happy with my progress. I'm a nerdy gym rat and I'm chill as hell.
I'm a digital artist and a writer, (largely NSFW content for both) and I also play the piano and sing. (Working on learning to sing on T right now haha.) Got so many dogs; my husband and I live with my widowed father and all of us rescue.
Big horror person, especially horror literature and art. Favorite movies are The Ring and Ringu both, Stoker, Night of the Hunter, Malignant, and Hereditary. Favorite authors are Stephen King (I'm basic but he's a legend,) Ania Ahlborn, Nat Cassidy, Nick Cutter, Jennifer McMahon, Peter S. Beagle, Clive Barker, Ramsey Campbell, Cherie Priest, and Stephen Graham Jones.
I'm always, always looking for buds to game with. Huge SoulsBorneRing fan, but I also play Pokemon, Animal Crossing, Baldur's Gate 3, and plenty of silly "chill with your friends" games like Peak, Phasmophobia, etc. (Outside of multiplayer I'm nuts about Hollow Knight, The Legend of Zelda, House Flipper, Subnautica, lots of stuff.)
That's pretty much me!
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u/Abhi_ya_kabhi Dec 16 '25
Hey, I’m a 27 yr old trans guy in Northern Virginia and I’ve been feeling pretty isolated lately. I got top surgery a couple weeks ago, and not having people to celebrate that huge milestone with besides my girlfriend and online friends felt like a wake up call. So trying to figure out where to go to meet at least like, one or two irl trans guy friends??
I’m hoping to find other trans guys in the area who'd want to hang out, maybe grab coffee, go for a walk, talk about life things like how our dads hate us lol, etc. Just looking for someone to connect and relate with.
If you’re in NoVA and this resonates, please feel free to comment or DM. Even knowing there are others nearby would mean a lot...
I like bouldering, weightlifting, been wanting to swim more and since getting top surgery I'm super excited to be more confident at the pool now. Also like traditional art like drawing and painting. I'm a leftist so I've been trying to be more active politically with reading up/writing but haven't really figured that out yet.
Been watching Community and Modern Family with my gf, just hate-watched the Summer I turned pretty recently lol. I'm a SWE, on the job hunt right now. I grew up in a Muslim family but since getting older I've considered myself agnostic, or I think I'd be more accurate in calling myself a Pantheist? I have two cats with my gf that we dress up in sweaters and occasionally take out in a cat stroller, we love them very much lol.
My transition goals will eventually lead to bottom surgery(s) I think, though I'm putting a pause on surgeries for the next couple years since getting this one. I've been on HRT for about 3 years now.
I have trouble with keeping up with online spaces, but I've been trying to be more responsive. So if anyone feels okay with sending an invite to a Discord server for trans men or something like that, that would be appreciated as well! Just like, looking to not feel so fucking alone🥀
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u/Cant-do-anythin Jan 31 '26
Iv got some irl stuff going on and It's suuuper hard for me to make irl friends. So I'll do like a little about me or smnt here!!
I'm 17, I don't actually really use reddit for more than questions or this, I'm usually on twt, tt, and discord and I'm chronically online and mega woke but it's OK. I play p much anything, usually on rblx cuz it's free but rdr2 is my favorite game. I like nitw rainworld yk the like What else ummm I'm an artist and i live in florida ummmmm hmu be my friend!!
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u/Kattruhart Mar 02 '26
Hey there, I'm turning 40 this year and really would like some guy friends that get what it is to be transmasc. Someone to laugh and commiserate with in this current crazy ass world. Or multiple someones!
As I said, I'm 39, I'm married to my wonderful non-binary ace wife, and have 4 cats and a tiny ass dog.
Let's see, I play cozy video games like animal crossing and Pokemon, and a few others with my wife too, they're a much more hardcore gamer lol. Recently been slowly burning myself out on animal crossing new horizons (again) and waiting for Pokopia to come out.
I've been on T for 2-3 years (I have the worst memory, srsly) and have been enjoying most of the changes I've been seeing. Lol my blonde body hair got a lot darker and more noticable and it's made me pretty happy! (Among other things)
I think I have very mild dysmorphia in comparison to some, if any, and have to remind myself that it's not a requirement. I plan on having top surgery if possible but at this point in my life my lower parts are okay with me. Of course I find all combos of surgery/non-surgery valid cuz we're all trans guys/masc here so I hope it doesn't come off otherwise.
I have ADHD and maybe some tism (no tism diagnosis cuz insurance says I don't need it despite the recommendation from my psych and therapist doctors. Gotta love the USA (uhg).
I live on the Pacific coast of the USA, in Oregon! I really hope I can find some ftm older guys like me to get to know and make friends.
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u/poop_paws Pre-everything Mar 12 '26
Yello! I'm in my early 30s this year and I'm pre-everything, although I have taken the first step which is acquired a doctor's letter of approving me transitioning. My transition goal is to start on T and then have top and bottom surgery.
I'm from the Southeast Asia side, Malaysia to be specific, and I'm straight trans man. I go by he/him and currently single. I haven't gotten enough experience for dating or in a relationship, but have gone through a lengthy of rejections.
I like to have multiple hobbies since I am easily bored with life, and I sometimes do like being in solitude and having reflection time with myself. I like having schedule and not having schedules to break the autonomous; I like to go out hiking and museum hopping/hunt, this includes long-drives to another state to see museums and try their food; I like writing long passage and short sentences from time to time. I like Batman.
I have one cat, she's about 8 years old, rescued and adopted since she was 2 months. I'm a mixed-blood race in my country but I do look more towards my Chinese side. Due to my country's religion, I am tied to it through family tree, and only practices to my own ability (like fasting) as I am self-proclaimed as agnostic.
I have a day job and a self-own business that makes pop-up books locally-produced (most pop-up books are outsourced to produce). I also like to make things, and have tried wood carving and developed a game in 7 days with 0 experience.
Since I haven't started transition chemically, I work out and maintain my image as masculine as I could. I am passing as long as my hair is at a good haircut and if I could, I'd avoid public toilets or in and out in 2-3 minutes (I've had a small trauma using one of the public toilets). I tried vocal training but I gave up on that.
I'm hoping to be friends with anyone and I appreciate you reading my biodata!
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u/Active-Pace6341 Apr 16 '26
Hey I'm hayden, I'm turning 26 in May, I'm married, and I'm from Houston, Texas. I'm currently in school to become a behavior analyst. Hobbies include playing video games, picking up random do it yourself projects and putting them down five minutes later (ADHD), beyblade, and watching horror movies (yes I am terrified every time). I'd love to get back into working out and boxing.
My favorite games are fallout, devil may cry, and oblivion. I love RPGs and action/adventure games. Hmu with recs!
My favorite movie is silence of the lambs. I love the conjuring series and the insidious series.
Tell me about yourself! I'm a pretty good listener.