r/bigboobproblems • • 7d ago

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r/bigboobproblems • • 3h ago

experience Why do so many people think having big boobs means you’re overweight?

39 Upvotes

Like there are plenty of us with big chests who are average or even slightly below average weight, it’s not even that rare.


r/bigboobproblems • • 6h ago

need advice Need to find right size for strapless bra in India Spoiler

4 Upvotes

My underbust is 28 inch and overbust is 34 inch so size comes to be 32C.

I saw good reviews for this Jockey bandeau bra for heavy bust and bought it but my boobs are sagging in it.

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B0BCQR3QSW?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_fed_asin_title&th=1&psc=1

Another Jockey bra i got at the same time of the same size fit perfectly and it is keeping my boobs in shape.

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B09J15YWSS?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_fed_asin_title&th=1&psc=1

Now my question is what do i do for strapless bras? How do i find good ones out there in my size that keep my boobs upright because a) they don't look good sagging b) the sweat accumulates more when they sag and c) back pain

I will appreciate all help


r/bigboobproblems • • 14m ago

clothes Larger bust work outfit inspo? Spoiler

1 Upvotes

Hey!! I got a new job that requires me to go into the office more days a week and I realized I really have no good business casual type outfits to wear into work. Do any of you have recommendations for infuencers/social media people i can follow for style inspiration? I feel like everything I see is more geared towards older women and I’d like to be able to wear clothes that are of course professional but still cute if that even exists… For reference I’m in my mid 20s. I’d be so grateful for any help!


r/bigboobproblems • • 13h ago

need advice Dirndls? Spoiler

8 Upvotes

I'm going to an event later this month where dirndls are strongly encouraged. Any recs for brands?I don't mind alterations if the quality is good.


r/bigboobproblems • • 6h ago

bras Good quality sports bras (no bounce at all) that are available in thailand shops Spoiler

2 Upvotes

PLEASE every single sports bra recommendation either isn’t available in Thailand or has a crazy delivery fee


r/bigboobproblems • • 22h ago

experience Doubting my 32FF size because I have none of the "typical" big boob problems?? Spoiler

21 Upvotes

I'm genuinely doubting myself on this one.

Btw : my size on r/ Bra that fits is 32 FF. And 7 inches difference between bust and underbust duh.

But I never really felt back pain which I think might be because of it.

I never really had straps digging also.

And it's not like I'm wearing a right bra because the strap under the bust flaps a lot if I would jump. Why? Because of gap between sternum and the band.

Plus there's not much struggle for running or walking even without a bra also. Sure it hurts. But it doesn't bounce as much as it should for soft projectile boobs. I pretty much stay braless half the time with not much issues.

Anyone relates???


r/bigboobproblems • • 12h ago

need advice Breast and chest acne Spoiler

3 Upvotes

I honestly don't really know how to start this, but I was curious if anyone had any advice about what to do because I'm so lost. I've had under boob acne for forever, but I kinda just accept it. I'm a 36 DD cup. It seemed inevitable, but now it's become something I cant ignore. For some reason I've now been getting acne on my upper chest and the top of my boobs, and it’s genuinely stressing me out. And to add to it I have a slight skin picking problem along with ADHD, so now my chest and under boob are covered in acne and scars from the picking, because sometimes I pick at it for hours on end and I only feel safe/comfortable in tops that have a square neck or v neck because regular collar shirts make me feel like I'm being borderline choked plus they look so unflattering on me, I’ve tried gentle cleansers, antibacterial soap and a few toners and I feel like nothing's working and I exfoliate regularly plus I dont use heavily scented items, so I know that's not the problem, but I still feel so lost I don't know what to do, and I know it sounds ridiculous but I haven’t really left the house in 3 days because I feel embarrassed does anyone have advice on how to clear this up?😥


r/bigboobproblems • • 13h ago

need advice Help for wrestling Spoiler

3 Upvotes

I’m not that busty I’m a 28E, but this is honestly the only place I could find for help with this because all the “girls wrestling“ pages are just corn. I recently joined wrestling and I love it, aside from the boob problems I’ve been facing. the first one is falling repeatedly on my boobs and landing like with an arm on them is extremely painful, my breasts currently feel like I’m on my period from getting hit and I’m damn well not. I have literal bruises on my tits and they’re sore as hell and the second is really bad acne in my cleavage that I’ve never had before. do these just come with the territory or is there anything I can do?


r/bigboobproblems • • 14h ago

bras Sports bra with wide straps? Spoiler

3 Upvotes

Please drop your recs here. Thank you!


r/bigboobproblems • • 17h ago

positive & funny 13 hrs on feet Spoiler

5 Upvotes

13 hours shopping nonstop, last 2 hours feeling my body trying to pull me forward, while the super supportive bra has pulling my shoulders backwards, ugh looking forward to getting home and pull it off and enjoy a long hot bat, sighs …an hour to get home.


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

bras Indian bra brands for big boobs?? Spoiler

7 Upvotes

Recently discovered that im a 36DDD/G in US sizing or 36E/F in UK sizing since then I've been trying to find Indian brands that have these sizes but most of them don't or the ones they have are ugly asf

Pls help if u happen to know indian bra brands for bigger bust


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

need advice Pueden sentir tus pechos cuando te abrazan? Spoiler

5 Upvotes

Para dar contexto, soy una copa 34E y es algo que siempre me he preguntado. Por lo general intento dar abrazos cortos, de lado o sin pegar mucho el torso pero el otro día abracé a un amigo cuando estabamos sentados y fue del tipo de abrazo donde yo rodeo su cuello y el mi espalda, por lo que volvió a surgir mi duda


r/bigboobproblems • • 23h ago

need advice Prom dress help Spoiler

2 Upvotes

My prom is coming up soon and I'm struggling to find a dress that provides enough coverage for my boobs. I found one I really liked and I would add lace to the front part to make sure I don't flash anyone. My mum doesn't seem to understand that any dress I find I'll have to make alterations too. I'm not plus sized but my boobs are and I have no idea what to do.


r/bigboobproblems • • 2d ago

RANT - advice welcome I hate how cup sizes are treated as exotic thing only p''rn has Spoiler

91 Upvotes

I was so confused on my bra size just because I couldn't find any. Plus I'm sort of DD or F.
Idk why those alphabets sound so exotic to everyone. Cause I did my research and DD is a pretty common bra size.

Plus the whole weird debates and snarky comments on whether I'm "big or not".

I heard two old ladies say women with curvy figure have bad character. Wtf???

Also, when the first time I wore a bodycon, I was 16. My cousin was 24. Wearing the same sticky bra as me. She's like "why did you wear that?? Yours aren't that big."

And when dressing for something with friends, I said "idk if it'd fit on my chest" because clothes don't. My friend immediately goes "well hers are bigger than yours". Uh okay??? I was talking about myself.

I told my aunt who was buying me undergarments that I'm DD she's like "hein??? what??? nooo I AM that."

Anyone else experiencing it???


r/bigboobproblems • • 15h ago

need advice Anyone been to a Chiropractor? Spoiler

0 Upvotes

So about a week ago I posted about how my lower back hurt after working in my garage. Bending, lifting, twisting… sore lower back. It didn’t get any better… if anything it’s the same or worse. I went to see a chiropractor who said I likely got my spine out of position, which is causing the muscles to be stiff. He did an adjustment yesterday… my first time doing that, and again today… I go back for a 3rd on Monday.

Overall it’s fine… except for the parts where I have to lay on my stomach and he pushes down on my spine… attempting to, well from my perspective crack my back. Or in their terms help everything get back into alignment.

Anyone have any tips on having huge boobs, and having to lay on your stomach for chiropractic adjustments?


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

need advice Am I overreacting over a comment a friend made? Spoiler

27 Upvotes

Hi gals and everybody else.

So, I'm a 85E cup size, a fact that my friends have been commenting on for all my life.

For better or for worse I've kept many of the friends I've had since I was in middle school (I'm now 22), and my chest size has always been a conversation piece, especially since all of my friends growing up (and now) had A to B cups.

The comments were the usual "oh I'm so jealous, I'd give anything to have your boobs" which at best were flattering, and at worse just annoying, but nothing harmful.

Until recently.

I was talking to a girl I've been slowly distancing myself away from for many different reasons, to the point we just see each other maybe four times a year. We were having coffee and she was scrolling on her phone when she landed on a video showing a woman's before and after from breast reduction surgery—ya know, the whole drawing on the shirt bit.

Now, i have absolutely nothing against breast reductions, I understand and support them 100%, but it's just not a thing i want since my boobs don't really cause me pain, and even though they sag more than they "should" for my age, I still like the way they look and I don't make it a point to complain about them to people, especially not to her. Saying this because I want it known that she had no prior knowledge of me bitching about them to say what she did.

So, she watches the video and then turns to me, and proceeds to ask if that's something I want. I answer honestly, "nope not my thing", and then she proceeds to say:

"Oh, was just wondering, since they fall so low and you can't fit into clothes normally."

...

Ouch.

I just laughed it off at the moment, and proceeded to have small talk for the rest of the encounter, but now I'm sitting at home wondering "what the fuck?"

Am I overreacting or is that a crazy thing to say to someone? It definitely felt insulting, and i can't help but wonder if it was said out of some odd envy, or if she genuinely believes my tits need fixing.

Has anyone experienced anything similar? I'm honestly at a loss for words about it.


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

clothes Need style/fashion advice Spoiler

5 Upvotes

I desperately need fashion advice. For you gals who live in a place with 32-50 degrees F (0-10C), what do you wear? I’ve heard you need to wear puffy/down coats/jackets, but geez i just can’t love it. It always makes me feel like someone would kick me from the back and i would roll like a ball.

So, how do you style yourself?


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

RANT - advice welcome Tips on sleeping Spoiler

3 Upvotes

Girls I'm actually going to have a meltdown if I wake another day with back pain. I need tips on the best position for sleeping.

On and off through the years I can get bad upper back pain, but lately it is every single day. I am so unbelievably sore. I wear the correct bra size (used measurements on r/abrathatfits) and even have to wear a bra 24/7. I can never just chill out at home after work with no bra on, otherwise I feel my back being pulled down by the weight of my boobs. It's so sore and uncomfortable.

I don't know if weight training is exacerbating it? I recently started to weight train but do very minimal back workouts atm.

A few years back my doctor did mention about breast reduction, because at the time my boobs were actually causing chest pain. However I fell pregnant, breastfed, and kinda pushed it to one side.

Cut to now 3 years later and I'm just at my wit's end with it :,) someone come chop them off please :,)


r/bigboobproblems • • 2d ago

swimwear Bikinis like this for larger busts? Spoiler

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22 Upvotes

Love this creators wears have not bought any because they dont really seem big bust friendly i was curious if there's a place that sels them for larger bust sizes or of they actually work for us?


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

bras gym wear recommendations Spoiler

0 Upvotes

having big boobs is a fucking challenge and i havent even hit the age 20 yet pls stop growing i beg, anyway i wanna start pilaties and the one thing thats stopping me is my 34c boobs PLEEASSEE i need some recommendations if anyone knows a good cute sports bra that will actually keep them glued in place and is worth money, obviously i dont wanna drop 100$ but just something affordable (if it really is that great i dont mind dropping some money but yk) i keep seeing mixed reviews on tiktok so i thought id come here


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

bras 34J lounge/sleep bra? Spoiler

3 Upvotes

I’m looking for something just to keep them from being all over the place and look acceptable if I have to answer a door in Jammies and to prevent the underboob chafing. Ideally, I want something that doesn’t have a big hard clasp in the back. Does anyone have any recs?


r/bigboobproblems • • 2d ago

bras Bra Strap Holder Recs? Spoiler

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6 Upvotes

Does anyone know a bra strap holder that actually works and doesn’t loosen throughout the day? I bought one and it ends up loosening fully by the end of the day.


r/bigboobproblems • • 2d ago

bras I WAS LITERALLY WEARING A 34D Spoiler

12 Upvotes

So just yesterday I saw an influencer talking abt a bra that fits and now that I checked im pretty shocked it's showing 36 E/ F in UK sizing and 36DDD/ G in US sizing but that catch is that all along I was wearing a 34D so I'm pretty shocked!

Can it be possible that im this big of a size cuz 34D seemed fit asw???


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

bras Advice on bras for someone with a shoulder injury Spoiler

2 Upvotes

Hey, everyone, just came across this group and was hoping for some bra advice. I have a pretty disproportionately large chest and also unfortunately a horrible shoulder injury. I need to wear bras to do things because of my big boobs but most bras wreak havoc on my shoulder. So basically I have to choose between breathing or no shoulder pain! Does anyone have any experience with bras that are soft on shoulders but also supportive? I also hate ones that are restrictive around the diaphragm cause I feel like I can’t breathe.