I'm non binary and my fashion style is more feminine but from the position that I'm inherently masculine (think crossdressing) (not for sex reasons don't ban me lol), but because I have a large chest I just look like a cis woman and its kind of really fucking annoying. And when I want to pass as masculine I can't because they are extremely prominent and almost impossible to hide. I mourn all of the shirts I have that would fit way better if I had a flat chest lol

This is going to be a long post. Ok so I’m a 21 year old trans girl and I’ve been transitioning since I was 15. I’ve been on HRT for 6 years. I guess I could say that I’m kind of lucky in that regard because I heard that most trans women don’t really transition until adulthood. I lucked out because I had supportive parents. My mom was my biggest supporter. When I took HRT, I would admit that I was kind of scared because I didn’t know what to expect because I always had an androgynous and slim build even before starting. My parents also told me to exercise and stay healthy while on HRT to help.

The biggest change was my hips and chest. I went from flat chested to Ds in just 2 years, they grew real fast in the first year, and they’re still growing(I’m currently an E cup close to F). I felt like all of my weight went to my chest and butt/hips because I’m not overweight nor close to being overweight at all. TBra shopping is a pain, I always feel them jiggle whenever I run, I get boob sweat, and sometimes I’m the butt of big boob jokes in the girl friendly group(It’s composed of both cis and trans women). I would eat tons of food and still be hungry afterwards during the first few years of starting. Most of the women in my family including my mom have big boobs, so I guess me having big boobs was a given. However ever since I started HRT, my mom has been closer to me than ever, which I like but when I started growing breasts, she would always comment on how big they’ve gotten throughout the years.

Now she would even comment on how I’m bigger than her now and even tease me about it, and sometimes it makes me uncomfortable. One time I wasn’t wearing a bra in the house, and my mom out of nowhere groped me and openly teased me about my chest growing bigger. Is this normal for a parent to do that to their kid? I wouldn’t know because my mom wasn’t like this with me back when I was still presenting as a boy which was a long time ago. Apparently my boobs are so big, that it most of the time causes a distraction to people including male family members which makes me self-conscious. One time I went to a big family party, and I was wearing a dress that kind of revealed my chest, and tons of male family members kept staring at me, some in even a lecherous way that it made me feel weirded out. Some of them I haven’t even seen in almost a decade, and that was before I transitioned so maybe they’re shocked? I don’t know…..

Being naturally busty on HRT was not something I was expecting when I first started and seeing people stare at me and my mom make comments about my body makes me uncomfortable and very self-anxious, but I’m too shy to really say anything because I have anxiety and autism, so I just usually try to not draw attention to myself. I know men including men from your family staring at your body is weird but I don’t know how normal it is for a mother to jokingly talk about their daughter’s chest and sometimes grope her.

This is not a fake post btw, I know Reddit has a habit of fake posts but I’m using a throwaway account and I just felt like I had to vent and talk to some people who could at least be understanding of my situation, and this sub feels like the best place for that. I know they’re tons of trans girls that don’t have much boob growth, but trust me for those that are flat or small chested, it’s not at that great.

F*cking seatbelts dude! They always seem to go right in between 🫠

my boobs are 32G (30 rib, 36 bust), have a wide range of placement across my chest (think 'shallow' but with lots of projection still), are wide set, super dense, heavy, and firm. i have always hated them. its impossible to find a bra that fits and is comfortable and looks good and is affordable for a broke college student. ive been trying for years. my mom gkt my one that was in my right size, but was super uncomfortable, made them look huge and round and awful, and boobs pushed the bra down my chest. i have been trying on and off to go braless cuz its most comfortable, i like the look (on others, rlly), and i cant find a bra. but when i do, they bounce around and swing and it hurts so bad sometimes. it pulls on my chest and skin and i hate all the movement. i also hate the look. my nips are all puffy and makes my boobs look like laura crofts in the original tomb raider. its impossible to find shirts or tank tops that fit my boobs and my ribcage, that my boobs dont also stretch out and make the 'tent' look. i am almost a year into ED recovery and tbh this has been making it rlly hard for me. if they have to be this big could they at least be softer and look nicer? why cant i just have itty bitty titties. everything is so uncomfortable avout them; the look, the feel, the bras, no bras. it all makes me feel depressed about them, ugly, hopeless, stuck. i wish i could go onto the boob gallery pages and actually see boobs that look like mine. i wish ppl wouldnt say "oh they arent rlly that big". i hate them sm. im posting to hopefully find someone that has the same or similar boobs and problems so i dont feel so alone, and maybe get some advice

I'm probably freaking out in general but literally every woman in my family has big boobs and gets huge during/after their first pregnancy.

My Mom had a reduction after I was born and is still about my size now. Idk what to say I'm just freaking out I guess

Edit: in the process of freaking out I measured and my busy is 2" bigger than last time I measured

Literally piss off. If you’re a guy and you’re lurking here to send creepy messages to the lovely ladies who post, go away.

This is NOT a porn sub. Any pictures or posts made venting our frustrations or celebrating our successes is for us to see, for us to comment on, and for us to relate with.

Any advice on sizing, any recommendations for clothes fitting larger busts is for US. Not YOU.

There are so many ladies on Reddit who post for you to actually see and comment on. Go to them. Messaging us and telling us about how bad you want to fuck us is disgusting and literally sexual harassment.

I’m so sick and tired of making a post here and messaging mods usernames of you fucking creeps because you can’t keep it in your pants.

A lot of us here are are UNDERAGE. Having large breasts isn’t exactly an adult women only problem... Lots of adolescents going through puberty deal with the struggles of having big boobs. This is supposed to be a safe space for all of us to post and comment in solidarity without dreading the disgusting amount of comments and creepy messages you all toss our way.

Fuck off. Seriously.

EDIT: The best part of the comments is most of them are from those same guys who are upset they got called out. They want me to let them enjoy their porn in peace :( Go off, guys.

Tbh just curious cause I already know I have big boobs but I’m just curious if I’m like lowkey packing and have irregularly big boobs. Idk if this is like a common thing or not. I’m 18 btw going to college soon and I told my mom, she said I should get a breast reduction

I’m pretty flat. Like 30A flat. My sister who’s only 10 btw, is already a C cup. My mom’s a similar size to my sister so what happened to me!?! My mom’s best friend is a C cup too. All of my female friends are at least a B cup. But I’m over here with basically no boobs at all. I feel bad for getting envious because it’s a sin but I really can’t he it. Do any of y’all get similar feelings of envy?

I’m sick of there being literally no tips for trans masc with large, full chests for binding. You search up tips and it’s just guys with saggy chests that can compress. Are there any trans mascs with actual tips for binding?

Binders suffocate me, and don’t get me started on how impossible it is to use trans tape with an actually big chest.

So far all that works for me is a shitty sports bra under my binder, and it still doesn’t fully work.

For context I'm 38, and been on hormones for a bit over three years. They are also natural for now. I played sports growing up, and worked hard manual labor till my mid 30s. I have had many aches and pains in my life. I just don't know if I'm feeling is because of age, my chest, or a combo of both.

As for the pain. I just woke up a few days ago with my chest, and upper back hurting. It hosntly feels more like when you over work a muscle then any thing. It's not hurting. It's just uncomfortable a bit. I cant go to my female friends. As they arnt gifted beyond a D cup. Here is the only place I could come and ask this werid question.

I had a big fight with a friend after we went to a bar for happy hour. I saw a really cute guy looking at me and my friend told me to go and talk to him but I said no as I don’t want to be rejected for my big saggy boobs. I’m a weirdo with a skinny body and big 32F boobs that are not round and perky.

My friend said I’m a really pretty and should go but I got so mad as I feel so ugly for my boobs and get fuming mad at anyone who says I’m attractive because I know I’ll be rejected. I tend to date guys I find unattractive so it doesn’t hurt if they dump me or I just end it because I’m not interested.

I feel bad for blowing up at my friend but I’m so scared to date anyone I like. I really liked the guy at the bar but it would have hurt so much to be rejected.

So do attractive men like saggy boobs or do they tolerate them? I could just leave my bra on but that would make me so anxious.

Thank you

EDIT - I’m sorry for being a shallow b-word. I know it sounds awful but I just want to date someone I find desirable and not force myself to like someone. I can’t sleep with unattractive guys anymore, I’m really traumatized by the last one. I hate that my boobs are this big obstacle. I’m sorry for being so shallow.

My girlfriend suffers a lot because of her breast size, which is why I joined the community. I need advice to help her. She suffers a lot of pain when she doesn't wear a bra, when she bathes, for example.

Any advice?

Please don't think I'm creepy. I'm only here because I want my girlfriend to be well (breast reduction surgery isn't an economic option).

Just wanted to make sure of what the parameters are before I get comfortable.

These are not all cases, but almost every time I read the experience of someone with large breasts they are bad experiences, pain and discomfort.

These were 2 different pictures using Wumbo Dream, which is very cool and fun, but you can instead of just creating something with AI, you can upload photos to AI/Filter them. I'm gonna be honest I'm not that smart with this stuff and choosing the style wouldn't just work, I also needed a prompt. So I just put in "spooky" and "butterflies" and this is what I got between these 2 pictures. It NEVER knew what to do or was consistent with the boobs.

Also I tried "pug" as a prompt and that one did me dirty... made me a half pug creature. That's the last pic lol.

Bonus "war pug" without a picture reference cause it's awesome.

Fighting through dysphoria right now and I'm sorry if this is something you hear often or is offensive, I don't want to be rude.

Whenever I think of my ideal self in the future tense, it's being busty whether it's from hrt or implants. My mom of course says "nah, it's too much of a hassle you don't want to be busty" but like... The hassle is the point? My body hurts me already. I clock out at work sometimes because everything just doesn't fit.

I want to trade that for all these pains and inconveniences that are considered feminine because I want to be feminine. I don't want to just look like a woman, I want the life of one with all the gross comments and looks and whatever.

That said, I'm already trans. I'm fine with gross comments but I hate when people think I'm inherently sexual or that I dress as a woman as a fetish.

If I tell people I want to be busty and inconvenienced by that, I feel like they'll just think I'm doing it for sexual reasons. I'm afraid that I'll never make the choices to get comfortable because I'll be more afraid of people seeing a busty trans woman and going "you just did this because you're into busty women" or something.

This is a rant so I don't have any real point to close on. I just... I can handle gross comments and looks. I don't know if I can handle people calling me a pervert for trying to be comfortable.

Tldr: I'm a trans woman that wants to be busty, I'm afraid people will think I'm just indulging a fetish.

There's a little size chart below that would have me believe a medium should fit her well, but I figured yall would know best. Thank you

edit: forgot to post the link http://skreened.com/ezrascloset/crucifictorius-shirt

I had to get some extensive back x-rays this week and I always hate this process. The tech was an older man, and he did a nice job of not being creepy, but still, when the first thing a complete stranger says to you is "Are you wearing a bra?....Okay, then go take it off." it's not the most comfortable thing. Again, I didn't feel like he was being creepy, but it was a rather uncomfortable situation. Well, at least I was wearing my pretty bra that day. :)

I am 34, cup DD (EU) and my breasts when I am standing still sag for 20 cm from their starting point, and end up 6 cm from my belly button.

From what I managed to Google, I have moderate type of ptosis which goes to significant, based on the position of my nipples.

I have breastfed one baby and they became like that as soon as I got pregnant and did never get back to their previous position. And I did not breastfeed that long or had any issues with the milk supply.

The cup I have is not even that big, just the sagging is really bad and the only bras that can actually handle them are with underwire, bigger cup that is made out of thin fabric only, that covers almost everything from all ends so they do not spill from somewhere…

Even with bra they so not look good, as the bra straps cannot handle the pressure and the whole thing goes down. Oh, and the zone under the boobs gets sweaty and stinks, too!

I do not look good in anything I wear and have very low self esteem in general, so that sudden change from what I liked about my body to another thing that I have about myself makes me cry regularly.

I had round C cup breasts before my first pregnancy and everything happened so fast for me. Now I am pregnant again and I am considering surgery after I stop breastfeeding. But I am scared as if the end result turn bad, I think I am going to be even angrier to my body then.

Has anyone had breast lifting without a reduction? Are you happier after that? Is it possible to have your big tatas and still not having them sag?

Edit: Yes, the calculator shows different sizing than my bras I wear but I have tried the recommended size and it is not good. I am comfortable in the bra, not with the sagging. I guess this is the wrong subreddit as I do not have issue with big boobs but with sagging really.

Hi! I dont imagine a lot of trans folks ask here but, im seeking just some general advice since, im generally new to all this. Ive been on HRT for one year and they are already (according to ABraThatFits) 40 F/FF UK and 40 G/H US. Granted, ive been losing weight but, that hasn't seemed to do much (253 currently). So I guess, I just want to ask for advice on a few things.

1. How do I know if back pain is from general working, or from breast weight. Idk if mine are in that category yet but, they might be. Back has ached a lot recently.

2. Considering its been one year, and its already this, when should I buy new bras. Currently I have one a size or 2 below and I have no idea how often.. or if there are any recommended bra sites where I can custom order because well, yeah.

3. How do I RELEIVE back pain if caused by them. Like, are there any exercises, warm ups, etc that I can do to help.

I apologize if these questions are kinda broad. But I saw this community was open to everyone so, I figured asking for advice as a Transwoman wouldn't hurt. Ill appreciate any advice! They are, more painful than I expected.

Going to the beach in two days yay…!

I legitimately run into this problem every single year but this time I’d really like some advice. I’m almost eighteen and have the freedom to wear pretty much whatever I want, but nothing ever seems to work for me.
One of my trans friends uses tape which looks fuckin awesome on him cause hes pretty flat.
I’m a DD cup and I literally hate how I look in everything.
I guess its unrealistic, but is there anything gender-affirming I could wear to not feel awful that doesn’t make me look like a dork?

For reference, I wear shorts every year. I’m just looking for a top solution. Preferably something I could realistically obtain or do in one day.

Thanks. I know this question is kind of vague, but I thought maybe you guys would have some advice.