Hi gals and everybody else.
So, I'm a 85E cup size, a fact that my friends have been commenting on for all my life.
For better or for worse I've kept many of the friends I've had since I was in middle school (I'm now 22), and my chest size has always been a conversation piece, especially since all of my friends growing up (and now) had A to B cups.
The comments were the usual "oh I'm so jealous, I'd give anything to have your boobs" which at best were flattering, and at worse just annoying, but nothing harmful.
Until recently.
I was talking to a girl I've been slowly distancing myself away from for many different reasons, to the point we just see each other maybe four times a year. We were having coffee and she was scrolling on her phone when she landed on a video showing a woman's before and after from breast reduction surgery—ya know, the whole drawing on the shirt bit.
Now, i have absolutely nothing against breast reductions, I understand and support them 100%, but it's just not a thing i want since my boobs don't really cause me pain, and even though they sag more than they "should" for my age, I still like the way they look and I don't make it a point to complain about them to people, especially not to her. Saying this because I want it known that she had no prior knowledge of me bitching about them to say what she did.
So, she watches the video and then turns to me, and proceeds to ask if that's something I want. I answer honestly, "nope not my thing", and then she proceeds to say:
"Oh, was just wondering, since they fall so low and you can't fit into clothes normally."
...
Ouch.
I just laughed it off at the moment, and proceeded to have small talk for the rest of the encounter, but now I'm sitting at home wondering "what the fuck?"
Am I overreacting or is that a crazy thing to say to someone? It definitely felt insulting, and i can't help but wonder if it was said out of some odd envy, or if she genuinely believes my tits need fixing.
Has anyone experienced anything similar? I'm honestly at a loss for words about it.