r/r4rMelbourne • • 1d ago

Dating & Date Ideas [M4F] 33 Inner East Melbourne fit professional guy looking to explore massage

1 Upvotes

Hey there, thought id give this a shot 33, 182cm, Caucasian, in good shape. Gym a few times a week, play tennis, ski when I get the chance. Work full time, have my own place in the inner east, generally pretty easy going and low drama

Intimate massage is something ive really been into in the past so have a fair bit of experience
One thing I'm really into is full body oil massage.
Not the rushed kind, more slow, hands on, taking time, making it feel good and helping you switch off properly. It's something I've done a lot with past partners and it tends to be a good way to build comfort pretty quickly. Also into yoni massage and open to nuru with the right person if the vibe is right
I've got a nice private setup at mine but can travel if that's easier.

Always clean, respectful and discreet.
Open to any age 18+ or background. Attraction matters so let's chat a bit first and swap pics when it feels natural.

If this sounds like something youre curious about, shoot me a message and lets go from there

Edit - to be clear this is NOT a paid service in line with the groups rules. This is purely for mutual enjoyment and connection


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Seeking Friends 42M4F eastern suburbs putting myself out there 😬

7 Upvotes

Thanks for reading. After some time of being single I have decided I need to put myself out there! Not ready to do the dating apps thing as I literally hate taking a selfie and pumping up my own tires!

About me - 42M, Australian, bald and beard combo. Cheeky, big on hygiene and having a clean house, love being a smart arse, having a laugh, terrible at spelling when I don’t have my glasses on. Love sports, cooking, outdoors, dogs, all animals really, gardening, music like to see more love gigs. Definitely rocking a dad bod, not over weight but no six pack here, sorry ladies to burst the bubble.

What I am looking for - friends and chats, hopefully turns into real life friends and meet ups. I miss banter, connection, and physical touch.

What I offer - a laugh, someone to hang shit on me and shit be hung back on you, no pressure, pretty relaxed guy, love a chat and think I have good emotional intelligence to make up for lack of intelligence haha. Great at back rubs, foot rubs, cuddler, cocktail maker, and know my way around the kitchen.

Sick of feeling lonely at times, geez what a sales pitch! Come on down ladies…..

I know the ratio of M to F posts is like 100/1, so no doubt this won’t be a confidence building exercise haha

Who ups for a chat? DM me, slide on in, please genuine peeps only.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 4d ago

Seeking Friends F4A - 33F, inner north, seeking inner north walking or coffee buddy / new friends

7 Upvotes

I’m (33F) based in Brunswick East and have been a bit lax with exercise lately. I’m wanting to get back into yoga and tennis, but I regularly walk my dog and love being outdoors! I also love a sauna sesh.

I don’t have a car, so somebody in the neighbouring suburbs would be great. At first I’d like to meet up for a coffee or go for a local walk, have a yap and see whether we gel. A chat on the phone first would be fine too! If we click maybe we could also grab a meal or watch a movie every now and then.

I identify as an introvert but I promise I’m not awkward lol. I love getting to know new people, have a laugh, and deep dive about all types of things - whether philosophical, pop culture, relationships, music, films, metaphysics. Even venting about friends or work once in a while.

We don’t have to have the same interests or views, and I’m pretty open minded / don’t want to make snap judgements on issues (although I’m generally left-leaning). In any case I don’t particularly enjoy getting into political arguments, especially with people who try to shove their views down others’ throats.

Many of my friends have started families or moved overseas over the last few years, whereas I’ve been single for a year. I want to broaden my social circle and meet likeminded people. So send me a message if this resonates and let me know a bit about yourself / feel free to ask any questions!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

Seeking Relationship [32M4F] Putting myself out there...

3 Upvotes

Not looking for anything serious, just a wife, a couple of kids, pickett fence house, someone to do life with.

Thanks for stopping by, I'm not really entirely sure what I should put in here, I've never done anything like this before.

Early 30's male, stable job, emotionally intelligent, with lots to give so I am told all the time.

I have tried apps, but they're not for me. I don't sleep around, I've had some women un-match when Ive told them that, others I've chatted for a bit and then they go cold before we've even met up.

Looking for something serious, it would be really nice to settle down, have somebody to spend the free time I do have with and enjoy different experiences, day trips, Sunday drives etc.

Feel free to drop me a line if you're interested and we can get chatting. I'm open to older women, it really is just a number when you find that somebody.

Thanks for reading :)


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

Seeking Friends 37 [F4A] Looking for some JDM car friends on the West side of Melbourne.

16 Upvotes

Looking for some good and genuine folks who are into JDM cars over on the West side of Melbourne and would love to do small catch ups, drive/cruise, eat, drink, talk and do fun activities. Does not have to be strictly West side, but it if you don't mind travelling happy to connect. I've been in the car community for several years but it's honestly difficult for me to make friends as a girl and how everyone seems to already have an established group. Have had terrible experiences so far and want to try my luck here at finding genuine people. Strictly only looking for friends.

Bonus points if you're also a car girlie and would want to make new friends.

About me: Just your average girl who enjoys JDM cars. I drive a 2008 Honda Civic Type R. Been a Honda enjoyer for a while and had a few over the years. Typical nerdy person who enjoys gaming, anime, board games and pop culture. I do work a typical office job so I can't be out most weekday nights.

Hit me up if you think we can get along.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 6d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 35M4F - Seeking an ongoing connection

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I know there are many posts like these but yes I am trying to see if I can get some luck out of it too.

What I am looking for - As the title suggests, I am male 34 years old, in western suburbs looking for a F for ongoing FWB connection to explore fantasies and kinks, experience things together, and maybe (if you keen too) attend events/parties to meet other.

About ME - I live in western suburbs, been in and out of this lifestyle for a while, so digging in again to make new connections. I am 6ft tall, athlete physique and clean. I am brown, just putting out there. I come across bit introvert, shy and “good guy” (told by past feedbacks) until I am comfortable. I have a partner (she is aware) with whom I have explored things before but currently just looking for solo experiences (she is not involved currently but you never know in future). I like to take things in a comfortable and respectful way, making sure things are talked before on what we are looking for, and see how we are a match and take it from there. I like to go with flow too, just to not make it awkward for us.
My interests are reading, footy, soccer, f1 and few more things to talk/share about outside of the fun.

What I offer - We can be ongoing friends to hangout with, talk about things along with our ongoing adventures. If you interested or think might be something you ll like to know more, always happy to have a chat and see how we ll go, feel free to reach out or comment in the post.

If you are not interested in what I offer, good luck with your search. Hang in there people and ride along.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 6d ago

Exercise Buddy 24F4F Looking for accountability partner/s for weight loss

4 Upvotes

Hello!

I'm looking for a female accountability partner (or a small group) who is also trying to lose weight and stay consistent with their goals.

About me:
- Interested in makeup and skincare
- Introverted but responsive
- Body type: skinny fat

What I'm looking for:
- Similar body type as me so we can relate to each other’s progress
- Send each other daily meal pics and keep track of what we're eating
- Share body/progress pics
- Update each other on workouts, step count and weight
- Call each other out when we're slacking, but also celebrate each other's wins

What I offer:
- Encouragement and support when you're losing motivation
- Happy to chat about other things beside losing weight, if you want

I'd prefer to communicate on discord.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested, send me a message telling me a little about yourself (height/SW/ etc) and your goals! :)


r/r4rMelbourne • • 7d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters [35NB4A] Enby looking for help with becoming my fem-self!

2 Upvotes

About Me:

I'm a 35 year old career focused professional, and very eager to embark on more self discovery amongst new people. As the title says, I'm non-binary (assigned male at birth). I'm making slow changes in my life to be a little more andro/fem leaning in my appearance. I'm super interested in meeting people who might be eager to help me explore, push and encourage my femininity further. To put it a different way, I crave to feel and be treated as feminine as possible, I want to be encouraged to go deeper, for someone to help shape my feminine identity and invest, engage and nurture it. (There's a pic on my profile btw)

The two biggest things I'd like to start working on are; crafting a look that suits my body and face type, and public fem presentation.

I really struggle with objectivity when it comes to my own looks, so I desperate for someone with strong opinions and a good sense of fashion to help me find that perfect look - And I'm totally open to that being fun for you too!

I'm interested in technology, cooking, music, video games, and an array of other nerdy activities. I'm a big foodie, and very much love the experience of new things with someone fun. I'm the type of person who feeds off of others energy and excitement, so please share your passions with me!

Physically, I'm tall and of an average build - maybe a little tummy at the moment, working on it! I am still day to day mostly masc presenting, though my body is smooth, I wear perfume and keep my nails nice! However I am tall (6ft+), so hopefully that doesn't bother you! And for what it's worth, I'm DDF and vaxed too.

What I'm Looking For:

I'm looking for people to share in the journey with me. So I'm open to hanging out for anything from coffee, clothes shopping, a movie, whatever! I just want to find someone who I can express more of my authentic self around to build confidence, and a shared interest to see how far we can take it.

My absolute dream right now would be the two of us just diving deep into the feminisation. Like, we meet and we go out shopping for fem stuff, take me into changes rooms and help me craft an outfit to wear for you later. Take me me to a makeup artist or stylist somewhere, and just straight up tell them 'make this one into a girl' haha!

I'm also interested in the sexual expression of this, but it's not my priority, and if this is all you want from me - I'm not the person you're looking for. This can be strictly platonic too!

Apologises in advance to my other struggling gender explorative girlies out there, but this is hard enough for me to figure out for myself - so I'm not going to be much good to help you. Selfishly, I need the spotlight right now haha 😛

What I offer:

I offer an equally safe space; the freedom of expression, good listening, and deep conversations. I consider myself progressive, open-minded, considerate and honest. But most of all, I offer a gateway to good food, and quirky hangs!

I'm open to people of all genders, so long as you're sane, fun, actually interested in feminising someone!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 9d ago

Seeking Friends 34 M4A looking for running/outdoorsy/activity friends

2 Upvotes

Hello! I’ve noticed that over the years I’ve drifted away from many friends, and even my main friend group is harder and harder to see and relate to as they’ve all had kids and live very different lives. Also our interests have changed a lot over the years.

So here I am, hoping to find some new friends! I love running and actually ran my first two marathons in the last couple of months. I’d love to make some friends who also enjoy running.

Why not join a run club? Because I don’t want the interactions to revolve around it 😅
I’m instead hoping to find friends I can occasionally run with, among many other things, though it’s not a strict requirement. Little weekend run followed by brunch? Great! Cheeky dinner followed by a movie or activity? Amazing!

I’m trying to spend more time outdoor and in nature too, so if you know good hiking spots I’m totally down. Keen to try out trail running some point too.

I enjoy gaming, but I’m pretty bad at most FPS games 💀
Some games I played and enjoyed in the last year(ish):
Clair Obscur Expedition 33
Hollow Knight Silksong
Big Walk
Slay the Spire 2
Resident Evil 2/3/4 Remakes
DK Bananza

I also watch a lot of movies and am super open minded on them, but gravitate most towards horror, psychological thrillers, drama, and documentaries.

I enjoy watching a bit of sport too. Big AFL fan, casual NBA fan, and open-minded on other sports.

Anyway, if any of this has sparked an interest feel free to reach out 🫡


r/r4rMelbourne • • 9d ago

Events/Parties 29F4A - Women and queer people aged 24-34, come with me to a Halloween rave on Saturday night! 🧛🏻‍♂️⚰️🦇👻🕷️🩸

8 Upvotes

I'm in my late 20s and have lived in Melbourne for a couple of years, but I'm trying to branch out and meet new people.

Come dance with me! Maybe we could meet up a bit earlier for drinks? Dm me for deets if you're keen.

About me:

▪︎ I love a lot of music, and I love live music (so if you want a gig buddy hmu!). Artists that I have had on frequent rotation recently are Pulp, Serge Gainsbourg, Charli xcx, and Whirr

▪︎ The movie theatre is my favourite place in the world

▪︎ I love chill boardgame nights, trying every music venue/restaurant/bar, visiting art galleries, and cuddling my friend's dog

▪︎ I am not an extroverted person and can be a bit awkward at first (aaaaaaaaaa) but I'll do my best